PS|EDT #35|The Curious Case of Shiva's Adbhut Plan and Missing Rishita - Page 22

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

This VM is so beautiful! Captures the true essence of ShiVi! Its a must watch guys. Not sure if this was already posted before..

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPiY2myARE8/?utm_medium=copy_link

PS: I swear its not Anita’s reel toh bindaas dekhlo 🤣

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Yes, he has his flaws.anger being one of them. the flaws, mistakes, make him human.

I am even ready to accept dhara's flaws, if she hadnt beat shish inhumanly like that with a danda and given a few slaps instead. Or at least apologised and regretted her deeds.

People make mistakes in anger, realise it, regret it, rise above it and move on.the category of good person and bad person is very blurred.it all depends on the intention and purity of the heart.

Human beings as a species have an innate necessity for aggression given the species coping mechanism and all that.

Over thousands of year's of evolution, community living, concern, Emotions and The essence Of love And respect Have come To play An important part.

Shiva/Dev/Gaumbi/DharaA/ Suman/Rishita all gave deeply problematic issues as humans given their history and circumstances.

They aren't Evil, but they are badly influenced by circumstances that have shaped them.

Intention and purity of heart are essential. Rest, as long as there's scope for apology, redemption and growth, the cycle of emerging as a Phoenix from rock bottom continues.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I couldn't agree any more with this post!

When I first began watching Pandya Store (pre-haveli episodes), this show was genuinely in my Top 5. I loved the delicate balance between each family member. I loved the sensible manner that "family values" were shown and carried out with. I loved how no one seemed truly evil, just shades of gray, but not evil. However that delicate balance has been broken with this haveli track. Characters that should not have been ruined like Dhara and Anita have changed. Apologies that should have been spoken Dev to Raavi and Dhara to ShiSh are wiped under the rug. Communication, which used to be strong within the Pandya family, is failing which is only resulting in further problems.

Paired with the concept of respect... personally speaking, I think no one in that family truly respects Raavi. If they had we would've seen Dev apologizing to Raavi, Dhara giving Raavi the space, and Shiva actually considering Raavi as his wife.

Many scenes are just not living up to the mark. And this is due to poor writing, editing, and perhaps constraints with the set. As such, we are seeing each character go on their own self-destructive path without a proper means of apology or reflection.

I was speaking to my sister the other day (she does not watch the show but knows it through me), and I spoke about my recent dissatisfactions. Post NDE, I became really bothered how Shiva grabbed at Raavi's shoulders. Some mentioned it was a "pyaare pyaare" moment as Raavi questioned him on his anger. But I couldn't bring myself to feel the same way. The second he grabbed his shoulders, especially after their NDE where she would continue to be in pain, he lost a decent amount of respect from me that day (nothing could justify his actions). Anger is one thing, but grabbing and manhandling is another, especially when you know someone is recovering from pain. Seeing the Twitter trend was even more disheartening as that manhandling moment was washed away by the "pyaare pyaare" scenes of him brushing back her hair.

As for your comments about the Shiva-centric posts that users have been making. There are some posts that I completely disagree with and some posts that I agree with. I only made Shiva posts myself because I completely sympathize and agree with Raavi. I didn't think there was anything left to add. But, Shiva's case was a little more interesting as I didn't agree with him and I wanted to see if I could personally get into his mind.

That's why I started this break, I was not happy with the content that was shown. Others were happy when they got those 2 episodes where Shiva saves her from goons, then the video call thing but I could not enjoy them because I knew this kangan issue was coming up next and the demand that Shiva made.

Why did the makers have to drag Raavi into this situation like that? It could have dealt with sensibly, no?

And about Shiva-centric posts. I ain't against them, some are just too beautiful to ignore but some are weird and I don't agree with them at all. But what made me so furious are those posts where Raavi is being judged for not taking Shiva's side in this matter. Like why? They want Raavi to respect Shiva and be a "sensible daughter-in-law & wife". Like, seriously?!

And there are some posts where everybody notices the pain in Shiva's eyes and how he cried because he realized his mistake. I don't think that he is in any pain, in fact, he's hurting others at this moment.

I wish I knew Tamil, I would happily watch Pandian store instead of this.

Originally posted by: Miss_SR

@Bold 🤣🤣 Ngl that's the first thing that came to my mind!

Meri reputation kharab ho gayi hai.. jo bhi VM share karu you all are worried ki kahi Anita ki reel toh nahi🤣🤣

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

I was watching some VMs and now I have realized that bhukkad Shiva stares at his biwi whenever she's eating 🤣🤣🤣 sach mein iska attraction khane ke through hi jaata hai 🤣🤣🤣

1) Shiva watching Gaumbi feeding Raavi during pehli rasoi

2) Shiva watching Raavi eat kachoris

3) Shiva watching Raavi eat mangoes

🤣🤣🤣

pati ka dil, patni ke pet se jaata hai 🤣🤣🤣

Ashu, after this post whenever I see ShiVi VMs I feel like laughing instead of getting mushy feelings 🤦‍♀️

Kya kar diya tune… 🤣

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

The pain and abuse men go through is often underated, both in real life and itv.

Their pain is usually portrayed in a light hearted fashion, like a comic relief. I have even seen scenes where the man is laughed at for getting beaten by a woman...it's cringeworthy.

I would love to see both Dev and rishita's outburst about how they are treating each other, without any comical bgm or touch.

Exactly my point, I find Dev-Rishita to be extremely toxic too. The way Rishita sabotaged Dev’s family and the way Dev left her for his family was hideous!!

If you remember, I was so furious at Dev for dumping Rishita because of her Dad and Bhabhi. They were curious cases of badly molly coddled men who couldn't see beyond Dhara. Neither Rishita nor Dev deserves to be treated like this.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Let's just agree to disagree on the last 2 episodes.we all have loved this show at a point of time which explains why we are here discussing so passionately about it.

We all agree that the show has deteriorated since the haveli track, let's hope that the makers pull up their socks and give us sensible story line, genuine shivi progression in the upcoming episodes.address the manhandling, address the Dev raavi emotional issue than sweep it under the rug, make this track upto the mark and not just an illogical hype for nothing.

Some things are too hard to digest and this haveli track is one of them.

Originally posted by: AppleOfEye

🤣🤣🤣🤣

This is how a foodie falls in love🤣🤣🤣

Khud bhi khaata hai aur biwi ko khaate huye dekhke khush hoke taadta hai🤣🤣

ab dekhna, the next scene will be him staring at her from far away while she is eating cake 🤣🤣 phirse angst ke beech attraction 🤣

Woke up in between my sleep and came to just check here and I have so many notifications😆

You sincere people😆

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

ab dekhna, the next scene will be him staring at her from far away while she is eating cake 🤣🤣 phirse angst ke beech attraction 🤣

Thats quite a possibility...shiva dur se raavi ko cake khate huye ghurta hua🤣🤣🤣🤣