Raghav doesnt love pallavi - Page 7

Originally posted by: meghumonu

The thing is Raghav has already fallen for Pallavi but he is still in confused about his feelings as it is something very new to him. He was a lone wolf for over 10 years and in those 10 years he never let anyone into his heart and put up a wall to not feel any kind of emotions related to love!! But now Pallavi who hated some months ago with passion is not only his wife but also she has broke through his wall around his heart and is affecting him. Remember we used to complain that all the emotions we see is from Pallavi's side only and not from raghav's . Pallavi is already in love and accepted it wholeheartedly no woman will allow any man to dry or comb her hair or sniff it. She straight away told him that he is her priority!! Pallavi's song lines in the karaoke session clearly states how grateful she is for Raghav that he came into her life. No woman will jatao haq so easily on a man if she do not love him!! The thing with Raghav is his brain and heart is waging war against each other about his love for Pallavi. His brain is telling him to not trust anyone as he was for last 10 years and heart is telling him to accept it. He needs a big jhatka to finally accept that he loves Pallavi.

You have penned it correctly 👏

This is what I feel exactly ! 👍🏼

Originally posted by: drnidsur

So true @bold

He will get a reality check very soon not that he doesnt know .he does like ystrday he went to explain only pallavi

But with upcoming things he will realise that she is and will be his constant and other thing can and will keep varying .

His amma and keerti are someppl hi longed for ages and they might come around for him but they still won't trust him like the way he wants .

@bold : exactly !!!! Inspite of how he has treated her in the past......she has always been the one who has thought considerably abt him.

And dt keethi toh is a Aastin Ka snake !!! Amma toh even in her anger thought good things abt Raghav at times. Like she knew Pallavi would be the ryt girl for him . But this Keerti till yesterday she was calling him murderer and what not and today she is all Bhai . She used to be Pallavi's frnd for so long and the instant Pallavi showed her doubts in Sunny.....she is against her also. This girl will sell her own family for this Sunny one day.

Originally posted by: parboni

I find this take interesting on RaghVi's relationship even though I don't 100% agree on it.

In fact, even till yesterday I was wondering ye Mandar ko laane ki zarurat kya thi but I understand now that he's a crucial key to test RaghVi's relationship.

Raghav and Pallavi have grown and bonded with each other all this while but let's analyse it to the core. Why did they get together in the first place?

Raghav married for amma,Pallavi ka reason I'm not exactly sure since I wasn't a regular viewer back then but it was sth tied to D family. So, whatever their actions were,they were somehow related to either Rao family or D family or both.

Even Raghav's initial intention to patch things up between Pallu and that Sanki family was becoz amma said "warna tu mujhe phirse kho dega" plus his own guilt of defaming her character while she got him back with his family.

However, he has already developed feelings for her. There have been so many sequences and silent gestures that showed she's a crucial part of her life now. There are things he did and said gave indication to that without directly saying he loves her.

But like everyone else said already, he is yet to realise the depth of his own feelings for Pallavi. This is where Mandar will step in and act as a catalyst.

And rahi bat Pallavi ki, she chose Raghav for herself and will make the same choice again when it is needed regardless of Mandar.

Agreed to the core..

But i think pallu also chosen him to avoid deshmukh's treating her as a door mat as she want peace from that family plus she is a good hearted girl and got stuck in raos to untangled their problems..

She usually get impressed by good thinga easily and she explored good side of raghav and she is rite now mesmerized...

But ragahv till.now has no feelings..and he surely needs some trigger to get these feelings

Either he will develop them or they will pop out from heart...

And i m.happy that makers are not showing cheesy romance till now as there is nothing to fo with it whn they have no feelings of love and affection..❤️

My question is what is love even? 🤣🤣

If we go by intensity, his feelings for her are intense, but so was his tenacity to change for her and do things right and his want to belong to someone, that you can confuse it with love...

Sincere and deep feelings is enough for people to claim it as love... But in marriage or for the word love, there is no end actually.. 🤣

Maybe claiming that we belong to each other, is love. Right now the reason they have rights over each other is primarily marriage and secondarily their own feelings towards each other.

If you take marriage out of their equation, will they fight for their relationship, is the question..

Another thing which binds them together is their nature of being responsible and committed. Even with the hatred, they were committed to each other once they were married. That committment part is like something you feel is a right thing to do, like Raghav knows that this is what he should for her, as he is her husband. A lot of his actions were/are guided by that commitment.

Sincere commitment itself is a very awww-worthy emotion, though. Like I would take that over flowers or confessions anyday.

Coming to Pallavi, it's a mix of things, it's in her nature to care and care deeply, and make the other person's problems her own, so I won't be surprised if she get hurt here because she is too deep in this, once again...However Raos will not let her go too far on that path ever.. They know how to stick by your own... So Pallavi will be secure in that regard... Even though Raghav might not reveal his emotions explicitly, he will never let her feel unwanted... There is a difference between ignorance and taking someone for granted... I feel he was taking her for granted in this instant because there was someone else who needed attention.. or rather his own need..

Oh yeah I was talking about Pallavi's emotions, first I thought Pallavi was being giving because Raghav needs it, he needed that security, assurance and commitment, but then she was also voicing out her acceptance of him as her husband. I think it became pretty clear. He is her first priority. And since she isn't really the person who believes in self preservation, has fewer doubts about her own self and Raghav, she is able to voice that out aloud and make her intentions clear. She will be able to voice that aloud even if Mandar comes, because her definition of rights and wrongs are not muddled like Raghav's.

Raghav also is straightforward, but you can see him going back and forth on his feelings, mainly because he is a tedha insaan. 😆

He wasn't hesitant in declaring to Pallavi that he wants her to stay, and will do anything for her in order to make her stay. His feelings were totally out, when he was in this fear of loosing her. Those feelings were not exactly love, but the fear of loosing someone important, the fear of being alone again... He was really being very tactful in not hurting her or anyone in that phase, because fear..

Now he has gotten that assurance, and he has relaxed a bit, and is leaning towards his RR habits, of deciding on his own, being a little immature in decisions, getting overpowered by his family needs, being shallow and casually throwing some words which can hurt.... One day he is that sane sensible person with deep thoughts, that he will forget his own happiness for the sake of others, the next day he will behave selfishly or irrationally. LOL. The next day he will be Pallavi ka cute husband once again.. 😆

Once again reminded of the song, kabhi neem neem kabhi shehad shehad. 🤣

In short, Raghav is a complicated person. He doesn't have the luxury of being an ideal person all the time like Pallavi because she has a clear conscience, he doesn't. .

Originally posted by: Ubiquitos

My question is what is love even? 🤣🤣

If we go by intensity, his feelings for her are intense, but so was his tenacity to change for her and do things right and his want to belong to someone, that you can confuse it with love...

Sincere and deep feelings is enough for people to claim it as love... But in marriage or for the word love, there is no end actually.. 🤣

Maybe claiming that we belong to each other, is love. Right now the reason they have rights over each other is primarily marriage and secondarily their own feelings towards each other.

If you take marriage out of their equation, will they fight for their relationship, is the question..

Another thing which binds them together is their nature of being responsible and committed. Even with the hatred, they were committed to each other once they were married. That committment part is like something you feel is a right thing to do, like Raghav knows that this is what he should for her, as he is her husband. A lot of his actions were/are guided by that commitment.

Sincere commitment itself is a very awww-worthy emotion, though. Like I would take that over flowers or confessions anyday.

Coming to Pallavi, it's a mix of things, it's in her nature to care and care deeply, and make the other person's problems her own, so I won't be surprised if she get hurt here because she is too deep in this, once again...However Raos will not let her go too far on that path ever.. They know how to stick by your own... So Pallavi will be secure in that regard... Even though Raghav might not reveal his emotions explicitly, he will never let her feel unwanted... There is a difference between ignorance and taking someone for granted... I feel he was taking her for granted in this instant because there was someone else who needed attention.. or rather his own need..

Oh yeah I was talking about Pallavi's emotions, first I thought Pallavi was being giving because Raghav needs it, he needed that security, assurance and commitment, but then she was also voicing out her acceptance of him as her husband. I think it became pretty clear. He is her first priority. And since she isn't really the person who believes in self preservation, has fewer doubts about her own self and Raghav, she is able to voice that out aloud and make her intentions clear. She will be able to voice that aloud even if Mandar comes, because her definition of rights and wrongs are not muddled like Raghav's.

Raghav also is straightforward, but you can see him going back and forth on his feelings, mainly because he is a tedha insaan. 😆

He wasn't hesitant in declaring to Pallavi that he wants her to stay, and will do anything for her in order to make her stay. His feelings were totally out, when he was in this fear of loosing her. Those feelings were not exactly love, but the fear of loosing someone important, the fear of being alone again... He was really being very tactful in not hurting her or anyone in that phase, because fear..

Now he has gotten that assurance, and he has relaxed a bit, and is leaning towards his RR habits, of deciding on his own, being a little immature in decisions, getting overpowered by his family needs, being shallow and casually throwing some words which can hurt.... One day he is that sane sensible person with deep thoughts, that he will forget his own happiness for the sake of others, the next day he will behave selfishly or irrationally. LOL. The next day he will be Pallavi ka cute husband once again.. 😆

Once again reminded of the song, kabhi neem neem kabhi shehad shehad. 🤣

In short, Raghav is a complicated person. He doesn't have the luxury of being an ideal person all the time like Pallavi because she has a clear conscience, he doesn't. .

If 2 ppl doesnt agree on a single.thing its fine .but

Giving shutup call and forcing a decision on one another is some thing not acceptable and my 2nd point of concern is respect ..

If u do respect each other..u love each other...

Ur sister.is desrepcting her infront of u..for no reason.and u r not reacting as u r craving for sisters love.

Craving for amma's love marry pallu..

Craving for sis's love disrecpect pallu...

So in whole fiasco where is palluu..

And y he is not craving for her love ....

Pallu is just his friend till now..and i have no issues...

Once some one say i love you and will love her..make anna realize what a gem she is and then the outburst of his feelings will be a treat to watch🤣😘

Originally posted by: Doc

love is all about giving space to each other which he is not giving to pallu

If 2 ppl doesnt agree on a single.thing its fine .but

Giving shutup call and forcing a decision on one another is some thing not acceptable and my 2nd point of concern is respect ..

If u do respect each other..u love each other...

Ur sister.is desrepcting her infront of u..for no reason.and u r not reacting as u r craving for sisters love.

Craving for amma's love marry pallu..

Craving for sis's love disrecpect pallu...

So in whole fiasco where is palluu..

And y he is not craving for her love ....

Pallu is just his friend till now..and i have no issues...

Once some one say i love you and will love her..make anna realize what a gem she is and then the outburst of his feelings will be a treat to watch🤣😘

I agree. Love can be a lot of things like you said... and he isn't there yet I feel... Or maybe he is there subconsciously, but he doesn't want to act out on it because there is no need right now.. He is happy with the status quo..

Once he realises what Pallu really means to him, beyond their commitment towards each other, he will take her more seriously...

Aayega ek time wo bhi..

Originally posted by: Ubiquitos

I agree. Love can be a lot of things like you said... and he isn't there yet I feel... Or maybe he is there subconsciously, but he doesn't want to act out on it because there is no need right now.. He is happy with the status quo..

Once he realises what Pallu really means to him, beyond their commitment towards each other, he will take her more seriously...

Aayega ek time wo bhi..

The thing with guys like raghav is that their mind works differently than a normal guy!! Their minds work in a very twisted way and their perspective view about life is twisted than a normal man!! Guys like this are lone wolf and are usually very much paranoid and have trust issues due to past incidents!! And raghav to has father of all traumas where saw with own eyes his father and younger brother being beaten to death by angry villagers!! From that day onward he cocooned himself into a shell and created a rough and tough exterior to show how ruthless he is regarding his business and that is how the persona of a don was created. Guys like this are very twisted and intelligent and can read people easily and get into their skin and the main thing is guys like raghav do not fall easilly for anyone. Also this guys sometimes make mistake due to overconfidence in their own ability or misunderstanding but when they understand that they have done wrong to others for no reason , They quickly accept their mistake bravely and give their very best to rectify it. If someone or something intrigued them or attract them they keep that person or thing at arm's length and observe and then only they make a move and when they finally trust then only they starts falling in love and accepts that person wholeheartedly and it is done so quickly and when they express love to the person they like with such a passion that the person getting proposed gets overwhelmed with the passion and vastness of the emotions exerted by guys like this.

Raghav reminds me of Mohan as both have many similarities as both were expert in namkaran of people and their sassy remarks also both were muhfat, rude, confident, never back away from challenge, brave , brash and sarcastic . Mohan had troubled childhood with his relation with his father strained and his mother was overbearing in her expression of love for mohan. There also megha started to fall in love first like pallavi and by the time of mohan's ex girlfriend track she was completely in love but did not express it because she was a widow with two child but when mohan was getting insulted and humiliated by his ex girlfriend she was unable to bear and watch from sidelines and by herself introduced herself as mohan's wife and the jhatka which mohan received by this was worth watching and megha was so confidently introducing herself as his and from here mohan's love journey started. He at first was intrigued by her because she was the only one in long time who stood up to him and answered his rude and brash remarks with equally and brash and rude remarks and sarcasm. It intrigued him and then he was slowly getting attracted but in the ex girlfriend track he finally understood that he has finally moved on and he loves megha and after that his falling in love was like a express train and he expressed his love to megha she was just blown away . I think same thing will happen with raghav also when he will accept and express his love his emotions will blow away pallavi. That is my take at least!!

Originally posted by: Doc

hahahah real love stories are differenet from fiction😘 reality check yahee hai that still he is not..but he will❤️

I was talking about Fiction Real stories only. Nevermind though .. 🤪

Both are not in love , just connected with past issues , lonely n family issues n forced in to mrg .

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

Unke beech main Kuch hai 😆 he knows it

But doesn’t wanna label it as love

Pyaar se dur bhagte hai Anna

Abhi he’s taking her for granted kyunki she made him his priority and he is assured that he has her here . Collar pakad ke boli thi Woh hi 😆

Amma - K abhi mile hai toh unko zyada bhav mil Raha hai - pretty realistic I would say

For him Pallavi as companion hi bohot hai for now - he is just happy being called as her husband - apna sa lagta hai usko - but abhi Mandaar aayga toh Anna will feel the threat

Mandaar is required to jerk him out of the friendzone equation with pallu where he is comfortable as of now I feel

+1 for this. I think same. He is secured about Pallavi will not leave him that is why he is taking her for granted 😆So once Mandaar enters the scenario wait and watch to see his possessive side to show up and take over. Anna will go crazy in love and make Pallavi crazy with his janooni bepanah pyaar☺️