Raghav doesnt love pallavi - Page 12

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Are Raghav jab naha kar suit pehen ke aya Pallu mast use check out kar rahi thi aur Raghav ne kaha "Please stop checking me out" . 🤣

I miss that Raghav. 🤣

Aise koi kissi ko bolta hai kya? He loves attention from women but when it comes to Pallavi, sab kuch ulta hai. And so what if she's checking him out?

True! His sisters love isn't unconditional, as his is. Loved that scene, for the first time, brother and sister are bonding though for all the wrong reasons. I seriously hope he's not serious about the marriage coz then that will also be selfish on his part - to get his sis married just so she can accept him. I doubt Raghav can knowingly put kirti through a troubled marriage when he knows Sunny isn't a nice guy. I am hoping he's just smoking Sunny out. I made a post on this today as well, I have a hunch that Raghav is just playing some games here.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yaar, don't remind me of that scene. Broke my heart seeing him like that. Just he way his hand clasped her instantly when she put her hand on his... Like him, his hand had been waiting for ages too. The way she acting like the sweet sister he wants to dote on, cheek to cheek but he was hurting so much then. Ugh... He deserves so much better. The look in his eyes when he shakily raises his hand to pat her arm as she's hugging him... Uff! Sais was so good there!

This is why he needs someone like Pallavi who will indeed prioritize him above all else, who loves and cares for him unconditionally, respects him for who he is, and who will not expect anything in return.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Brilliant post. 👏

Agree with every single thing you said, especially the last line. He doesn't have that luxury at all and with how things are going with Keerti, he won't have time for himself for a while longer.

And yes, people are too quick to start labeling things as love or not. He has always been about roles, responsibilities in this marriage from day 1 and there's nothing wrong with it. He's doing his duty, making sure she's looked after and that she gets to live her life freely. They will grow together, organically, which is the best way. No need to fast forward things, and if they encounter speed bumps let them fall and rise supporting one another until they realize that that they do indeed complete one another.

Kabhi neem neem kabhi shehad shehad is indeed the perfect song. They would be too boring as a couple otherwise. 😉

Thankyou. 🤗

They both need time for themselves, for our as well as theirs sake. 😆

Becharon ko ek musibat se dusri musibat mein daalte rehte hain, kabhi toh normal life jeene deni chahiye...

Exactly, we are all here for the ride, koi jaldi nahin hai...

bang on 🤗penned it so well ya ..

true depth of love and being a spouse has not reached raghu as of now..

its more of gratitude ,guilt and going with a flow.

its always about deal .

this man never experienced love ...10yrs of gloomy years has made him a stone

guilt and loss of father/bro and losing his family has hit me hard .

he worked hard did many jobs to reach there he might have seen everything and how ppl took advantage of him he has seen that

he bult his empire but along with that he built wall that no one reaches his heart ..

he knows if someone reaches his heart he wont be the tough guy he is ..

he knows the person who reaches his heart will be weakness and that he cant afford to ..

so he never allowed someone to love him

he doesnt want anyone actually because his only goal was to get his family back ..

he realized only pallu can bring that to him so he made a deal out of marriage ..

everything is a deal for him ..

post wedding he tried to change he held back pallu to have his family ..

till now he does ..

he is fighting with his emotions he has for pallu something really connects them

only pain connects them

love will take a long time they will realize when they are apart ..

souls have met already they are connected soulfully and its deep enough like an ocean ..

but physical intimacy and love has its own phase they wont realize now a jerk is needed in there lives thats when they will realize ..

both have ego issues

Originally posted by: inlieu

I miss that Raghav. 🤣

Aise koi kissi ko bolta hai kya? He loves attention from women but when it comes to Pallavi, sab kuch ulta hai. And so what if she's checking him out?

Le kin bande ne enjoy bhi kiya. Use pata tha ki pallu use check karte hai mauka milte hi!! use pallavi k attraction k bare mai bhi pata tha aur woh uska maza bhi uthata tha!! He is so self obsessed!! 🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

Very well said. You raise a good point here about loving someone vs. being in love with them. Both are necessary but one comes after the other. Raghav will get there eventually, time will tell. I do think that Pallavi's in love with him and is starting to realize that.

As for their marriage, that's a different matter altogether. They've never actually sat down to talk about what they want to do and how they will build their life as a couple. They are just going with the flow but there will come a time when they have to make a firm, conscious decision about their future together and at that moment all that they will have to guide them is their feeling for each other, especially once they realize their marriage is null and void and there's no legal or social binding to stay 'married'.

Yep. They have to love each other to be in love with them. Right now they love each other, but it's not that intense love a couple has. Its formed from their togetherness, they care about the other, they want to feel wanted from the other, they like the attention they get from the other. Raghav really loves it when Pallavi a person who used to hate him so much choose him, that's kind of assurance he wants in his life because he lacked that. That's where she and his family differs. He wants his amma and keerthi because they are his family, but he wants Pallavi mostly because she was an outsider. It means alot to a person when someone outside your family choose you, that's what Raghav is getting from Pallavi. She has no force upon her to choose him still she did, which shows how much she cares for him and he had no force upon him to make her family accept her but still he choose to do that, which is alot for her too. They are basking in that feeling now, I will call it the first phase of love phase.

Till that feet washing scene I thought the future of that marriage will be defined after the one month period. I really had thought Raghav would loose the deal and he would let her go. Which happened before the time limit. Since that moment something had changed in them. Because till then Raghav had that fear inside that he will loose her but since she said she is not going, he is being open to this marriage. That fear of loosing her is gone, he has stopped walking on the thread around her. And now what i feel is the future of this marriage is in the hands of Mandaar. The moment he returns, Raghav is no more her husband and there will be nothing holding them together other than their heart. So I will wait to know if they will choose their heart or mind. Most probably, he will choose mind and she will choose heart, hence that talk with Krishna about heart always being right.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well said, love the wording here!

Thank you Jean 🤗

Aawww thanks samreen for loving the thread..i totally agree with u..abhi game level 2 pe hai aur 4 pe jane k lye..usko bandar aur lion chahye hainn..

It will be a treat ti watch..🥰😘