Does love have to be earned - Page 2

Originally posted by: Justasuperbgirl

dheere-dheere jag rahe hai love neurons🤣they want to be put to use🤣

Agar aisa hai than I will kill them or keep them behosh, the last of neurons I want to use in my 10% active brain are not these atleast🤣And I don't think I'll have a home if I began using them now🤣

Yeahhh that confuses me a lot.

I mean how often do we get a satisfactory answer whenever we think of the reasons why we love our partners?

Now what syndrome is this? 🤣🤣

Rathore from Uttaran was love.

Love is weird. Sometimes you fall in love for strange things. You never know what can attract you in someone. Sometimes you fall for someone who is your exact copy and sometimes the opposites attract you. Sometimes we like mature independent people sometimes the childish behavior. Sometimes we like someone with whom we can share everything and sometimes we want someone with whom we can stay listening to the silence. Truly love is weird. No one knows when it happens, how it happens and with whom it happens.

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Hmm, well, this is ITV procedure of love, more like constitution of love, so we will get that.

But I have another point here for Sairat only when it comes to love. Don't know how much I make sense, cuz I am blind,deaf and dumb ,or poora handicapped in love matters. But, love also means excitement, not the kind we search😆, but yes, a curiosity sometimes according to me which never ends, and you are curious in a topic, you generally get involved there. Cuz, it's natural to get attracted to something, in general day to day life, we like good and sometimes bad as well. Cuz, that depends on what exactly it is. But the intriguing parts always grip us more. And love happens as a process as we move along this path.

So, even if we see Sairat, sorry for this reference, but didi was also good at one point. Her decisions were wrong, she is wrong, but at one point, she was good. But,yes,if we see, she was very much like Virat. But, Sai, she is totally opposite, and for someone like Virat who stays in CN, Sai is an enigma, and she will remain so for him. So , yes,since this is ITV, Sai's good nature is definitely worth looking up for love, and it's nice as well if Virat fell in love with this. But,curiosity in that person will always lead to more exploration towards the person we feel curious about. So, one way or the other, love comes from curiosity as well, so he had a great observation towards Sai, even in the presence of didi, and he began to notice what Sai is, who Sai is, and he fell in love even with such a circumstance. So, if we see this thing, then Virat's love might never reduce actually, cuz he will always be interested in this Sai. ❤️

Sorry, if I didn't get the topic or I am not making sense at all🤣

Yes, I do understand what you're trying to say. Some couples have so many things in common but still don't gel. Even if they get married after sometime they end up getting seperated. And, some couples are poles apart but still manage to live together for years to come. And, this what happened with Virat and Pakhi. Though there were many similarities still they got separated due to circumstances. I agree Pakhi was good but her jealousy towards Sai made her take the wrong path. All of us have good and bad qualities but it is upto us to make use of the good qualities or use the bad qualities for our advantage.

Virat and Sai were always at logger heads when they met initially at Ghadchiroli. Infact I feel Virat must have never seen a daring girl like her. But, slowly he started to know her and eventually ended up marrying her. And, then he started to get to know her better. People are like mirage. We never get to know their true selves unless we live with them. We always feel they are very sweet, but once we start to live with them we come to know their true nature.

Pakhi was very sweet in the beginning but slowly when things didn't work out according to her plans she became bad and now she's pure evil. But, Sai was always daring and a no nonsense person and till now she's the same. Virat was always interested in this Sai, so his love for her will never decrease. Infact it will get multifold in future.

That’s where sairat gets as realistic as it is...

There is not trip and fall here, it is an organic realistic build of love and relationship for the two!

I was discussing the same with Roch and we both agreed that the makers and writers spend all Tehri energy in making sairat that other character lag... that’s why we are so attached to these two!
in real life an arranged marriage progresses the same way, they way they care for each other, the care for the family, the understanding, the attachment is very real!
their slow burn romance is also very real... it is their flaws that makes them realistic!

Trust me the makers are doing fabulously with sairat... and that is what is keeping us hooked and attached!

Originally posted by: Svt611

That’s where sairat gets as realistic as it is...

There is not trip and fall here, it is an organic realistic build of love and relationship for the two!

I was discussing the same with Roch and we both agreed that the makers and writers spend all Tehri energy in making sairat that other character lag... that’s why we are so attached to these two!
in real life an arranged marriage progresses the same way, they way they care for each other, the care for the family, the understanding, the attachment is very real!
their slow burn romance is also very real... it is their flaws that makes them realistic!

Trust me the makers are doing fabulously with sairat... and that is what is keeping us hooked and attached!

So true, Sairat actually define multiple meanings of love given by the world❤️

Too authentic ❤️

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

I'm procrastinating my work🤣

Just read Muguet's post. And I couldn't finish and the thought immediately came to mind. So came to post it. It was mentioned in the post that in the precap Virat tells Patralekha that he loves Sai and he gives out reasons why he does so.

My question is does love have to be earned.

If we see in real life, those who love each other remain together even in the wrongs and even support them against even those who are actually right. As they say love is blind😆

Yes, if your partner is bad to you, your love may get lost and you may become disillusioned with the whole thing but in the beginning, do you start loving the person because of the small things in the different ways they do, or maybe for some other reason (like you kink your eyebrows😉) or is it because you do a lot of mahan stuff for others.

In itv, there are only two ways that hero falls in love with the heroine:

1. Trip, Fall, catch😆

2. Lots of goodness.

It's just that Virat is the only one to voice it out. 😆

One reason I loved Uttaran's Rathore Tapasya so much was that Tapasya was not your mahan lead but Rathore falls in love with her. Yes, he gets annoyed with her and angry with her so many times but his love never reduces for her.

Hmm. I wonder...

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Yes love is to be earned , it dont come in charity & if u don't value then it had power to leave u also.

I also liked Rathod & tappu jodi & mr Rathod really accepted tapu with her all flaws.

Here only virat & Ashwani accept people with all their flaws.

Interesting question

This is what I was wondering, why Pakhi has to be a villain and Sai the Devi of mahanta for Virat to stop loving Pakhi and start loving Sai?

Does this mean if Pakhi wasn't bad and irritating, he wouldn't have loved Sai?

Love is a feeling, I don't think one has to earn it

People do change with time & do fall out of love , virat din't fall 4 sai coz of pakhi's irritating behaviour but he has a limit of tolerance coz he never promised or never can give pakhi wife rights which she is expecting .

Virat fell 4 sai once he started leaving with her not coz of pakhi as he already had fondness towards to sai which turned into strong feelings & he himself wanted to move forward. Virat was not in love with pakhi , pakhi's position in virat's life is of d person for whom he felt something special virakhi ka relationship was very initial stage .