How a person thinks what a person deserves - Page 2

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Awesome post. Very well scripted. Only you could present it the way it should be done. Balanced and unbiased. Amazing.

Thanks 😳.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Awesome post. Very well scripted. Only you could present it the way it should be done. Balanced and unbiased. Amazing.

True I agree. Unbiased to both the characters considering what we have seen of the two characters lately. 👏

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

This man is horrible but still I will return to his house , his room , his bed , on top of it get pregnant by this horrible & shit kind of man.

Why ?

Coz self respect ke roop badalte hain mood ke according.

I don't minded d two timer to kiss me , romance me dance with him . Tab self respect Pata nhi kaha padi ro rahi thi.

I failed this man has person whose responsibility he had taken , I failed this man as a wife , insulted this marriage vows by valuing some spineless man kasam.

Virat promised to take care of sai , he never promised to tolerate any kind of jhoot or dhoka of sai devi.

I hope virat to do this learn secrets of Sai's family & print it in newspapers all over nagpur why coz sai Joshi deserve it .

👏👏

Agree with you. She kept the promise of someone who never bothered to find out about her, but broke the promise of her husband who was there for her through thick and thin.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Very well written Lakshmi.. but somehow I am still stuck at how he let his mother get insulted in today's episode. The damage to their relationship has already been done by these two. A lot of damage actually. SO it was not a matter of concern for me when I saw the episode today.. My only concern was how his Aai is being insulted by everyone people who are elder to her and younger to her. Irrespective of age or relationship they share with her and this man stands to witness it.. I am appalled and sad at the same time.. I kept on watching that scene, getting extremely uncomfortable on my seat in a hope that he will at least ask them all to shut up and not bring up his aai in every matter.. But no.. I seem to have lot of expectations from this man.

This is very common in Star plus shows. In order to glorify female lead they conveniently butcher the male lead. 😡

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Agree with you. She kept the promise of someone who never bothered to find out about her, but broke the promise of her husband who was there for her through thick and thin.

Coz virat deserve this

Beautiful 👏 This is exactly why I am still loving SaiRat. Both were wrong. One was a lot more. Both has a reason to go against the other one. It's just sad that he had to be so harsh and she had to reply back. 😕

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

This is very common in Star plus shows. In order to glorify female lead they conveniently butcher the male lead. 😡

Yeah but men are not usually shown to be ignorant towards what their mother go through.. I have hardly seen that, even the AHs in Guls show do not tolerate any rubbish about their mothers, even when they know their mothers have sharp tongues and are abusing their wives..ANd Virat has not been butchered in this manner, he has always been this way when it comes to the insults that his Aai has to go through.. Its not like he started ignoring it now..

Originally posted by: laksh

Let's look at the situation as something that a person thinks what the other deserves. Let's compare both and see as what went wrong and how it turned ugly.

We all know the history behind Virat's anger. I have already written a lengthy post about it, so I haven't detailed his pain again in this post. Also, please bear in mind that the other post was only to talk about his anger and pain, not about his decision of ousting Sai from the house.

Let's look at things from their point of view. Two wrong need not make things right, but one wrong can trigger another wrong whether we all approve of the second wrong or not, whether we like it or not.

I haven't spoken about Sai's another purpose of disclosing the truth to the neighbours in this post.

I have spoken only about Virat doing things against Sai and Sai doing things against Virat.

Only the person who is going through a situation will always know the pain, be it Virat or Sai. Only the person who has given that pain to the other will be able to act as a medicine to that pain. Only the person who is affected can judge the other person.

None of us are in the shoes of Sai or Virat.

Let me be clear that whatever I have mentioned above is not about Virat ousting Sai from the house. No pain should make a person oust a person from their house. That act can never be justified and I am not defending that action of his in anyway.

Virat

My wife gets my sister married to an already married person. That sister who is mentally unwell, whom I love the most. She breaks my trust, goes behind my back and gets her married.

She deserves to be ousted from the house.

I might have told that she is a girl with a heart of 24 karat, it no longer matters. She might have helped my bua, my brother. She also might be loving my mom but that isn't enough. She spoilt my sister's life in my opinion, most importantly, she broke my trust, she broke my heart.

She deserves to be ousted from the house. Doesn't deserve to be given a chance, that is out of question.

I probably know her for a long time. I might have taken her responsibility, have given promise to her Dad that I will take care of her. I had married her, but I did set conditions before marrying her that I have someone else in my heart and I cannot give her the place, I cannot be her husband. I changed, I started to look at this marriage as marriage, I put in efforts in this marriage. I loved her, cared for her, supported her, trusted her yet she couldn't understand me or my feelings. She broke my trust and my heart. She betrayed me.

She deserves it, she deserves for the only roof to be snatched from her, she deserves to hunt for a roof of her own, she deserves to be not let in. She deserves to be humiliated by my family. She deserves to be called a gold digger by friend. She deserves it, she brought it upon herself.

Not only does she deserve this, the person whom I thought can live with us for the sake of my wife, also deserves this.

The maushi whom I can deserves to be spoken like a piece of ****. The person whom I had asked to join us deserves to be spoken like a thing, deserves to be to thrown out along with my wife.

Well, she deserves it, just because, she considers that lady as a mother, doesn't mean that the lady deserves my respect, her age or her respectful behaviour towards me doesn't matter, both deserve my disrespectful behavior.

They deserve to be humiliated by every single person of my family who wants to speak against them.

I know that I had married her and taken her responsibility. We both were married, not only I have responsibility towards her, she also has some responsibility towards me. I have always been acting her husband but she has not even considered me to be her anything, let alone considering me to be a family or her husband. Whether she considers me to be her husband or not, she did not once think that I should be kept informed of her decisions. I thought I might mean something to her but it looks as though I am nothing to her. She has disrepected me many times but this time, she has not just disrespected my decision, she has also spoilt my sister's life by acting stubborn, by deciding on her own to get my sister married. While I was thinking how to propose her, how to start a new life with her, to tell her that I see her as my wife, to tell her that I love her, to tell her that I cannot live without her, she was planning to get my sister married without letting anyone have a clue about it. She was busy with her own planning, keeping me blind.

I will shut the door on her face even if she tries to remind me as who I am and why is she standing at my doorstep, she deserves this. She deserves to be ousted from my house even if it is late in the night.

There might be a few in my family who still believes her, who trusts her, who even now wants to give a chance to her, who loves her, but she doesn't deserve any chance, she only deserves to be shown her place. She deserves a punishment that I should have taken long ago.

She deserves that she knows that she shouldn't have broken my trust, shouldn't have betrayed me.

She deserves to know that I am her giver, to know that she would not have a roof on top of her head if not for me.

She deserves to know what I have been doing for her all the while by marrying her, by supporting her.

She deserves that if not for me, she wouldn't have survived this long with so much of comfort. She deseves to be deprived of the fundamental necessity of a human, the roof.

I don't want to see her face, don't ever want her to be part of my life, don't ever want to trust her.

Sai

Virat sir doesn't let me in his house because I got his sister married without telling him. I broke his trust, I know, he must have felt betrayed I know, but how do I explain to him that I did it for his sister? I did it for the welfare of his sister whom he loves the most too. I am unable to disclose the truth about his family to him, if only I could reveal it, he will understand why I took the decision of going against the family, why I did not keep him informed. I tried several times to try to speak to him but he was not giving me a chance.

I can see the pain in his eyes but he doesn't even find it necessary for me to step inside his house. He has even asked me to take a person whom I look at as my mom, Usha Maushi.

He didn't even respect her as an elder, forget looking at her as my mom. He was the one who requested her to live with me and him, yet he ousted her like a piece of furniture. He closed the door on our face, two ladies in the middle of the night and whom he knows has no roof in this city.

His action deserves to be brought out to light. A police officer like him deserves to be shamed in front of the neighbours.

He married me to fulfill the promise given to my Dad. He took my responsibility and have been giving me all the necessities for my living ever since we were married. He fought with his family for me to be let in, at the same doorstep where I was humiliated, I am being humiliated this time by him and is not allowed to let in.

He deseves to be insulted in front of the neighbours. The neighbours will have to know what kind of a person my husband is. They needs to know that he ousted me and the lady who is no less than my mom in the night. The neighbours need to know that we both sat at the verandah of their house the whole night and yet the family did not think that they should let us in.

My husband did not even come and check on us and he knows we were sitting outside and yet he never reconsidered his decision. I told them that I can think of forgiving his actions if he apologises but he decided to let us stay outside and never thought that he has done a huge mistake my ousting us from his house.

He deserves this, the neighbours should know what kind of a human being he is who has no humanitarian left within him.

And this was all because I got his sister married to the person whom she loves and who loves her. He might not know the truth of the person, he thinks that the guy is a fraud, that I have spoilt his sister's life. Being a police officer, should he not be thinking of conducting investigation on the person? Can he not even once think that I wouldn't spoil the life of his sister whom I love so much? Can he not think that him ousting me from the house is an unfair punishment for what I did?

He deserves to be humiliated in public. Being an IPS officer who must be incharge of protecting people and incharge of their duty, he has not just failed as a human, as a husband but also as a police officer. He doesn't deserve to be called a police officer when he can oust his own wife along with her maushi late in the night.

My husband gave me this roof, paid fees and got me admission in the best college of this city. Has taken care of my needs and has also done very special things for me. He has treated me like his own family member. He had wanted me to look at him as my own family. This was the same person who told me while getting married to him that I would just be his responsibility and nothing else. For a minute when he was doing a lot of things to make me feel special and when he apologised to me to have deprived me of food, I thought there is probably something between me and him. I thought that may be I am more than his responsibility. I thought that he probably is my family and I should look at him as one. But who deprives shelter or roof of their family member? If he had considered me to his family memeber, would he be treating me like a thing in his house whom he can throw because he wasn't happy with it? If I was his family as he had been claiming, will he not be worried about me or my safety? He didn't even care for a human being that I am.

He deserves it. He didn't even care that two women were being deprived of a shelter. He asked me to go find a roof for myself right before shutting the door on my face. He is punishing me this ruthlessly. He deserves to be insulted. I don't even want to look at his good deeds. I don't even want to think about what all he has done so far for me when he has failed as a human. He is a big disappointment as a human being. He did it to me, who knows to who else he would do in future.

He deseves to be humiliated. Neighbours who asks me if I went to college and how I was doing, deserves to know that the person who gave me education, snatched the roof off me late in the night. The neighbours deserve to know that my husband didn't care even when he found me sitting outside his house and that he never reconsidered his decision. The neighbours needs to know that I was trying to give him a chance by staying back the whole night in front of his house, for him to correct his mistake but he only chose to stick by the last words of his, "I do not want to see people who are not related to me or my family".

The neighbour needs to know of what all his family has done to his sister. He deserves to be insulted to have ousted me from the house for a sister whom he has hardly cared about. He deserves to be humiliated because the whole night wasn't enough for him to realise what he did and to correct it.

I can understand his anger, his pain. I know that I have betrayed him, broken his trust on me. I know that he wouldn't have imagined that I would take such a big step and that is why without thinking much, he ousted me and maushi too in the middle of the night. He was consumed by rage. However, he has always been a good person, a generous person. My aaba gave him my responsibility and I had once acknowledged that my aaba would have given him my responsibility because he knew that this man was a good person. I trusted him and moved with him after my marriage. I trusted him and stayed with him in his room.

He didn't trust me enough that I would never spoil his sister's life. He didn't trust me enough that I would never get his sister married to an already married guy. He didn't trust me enough to think of giving a chance to me before he decided to oust me out of his house. He didn't trust me enough to wait until he found what the truth was. He decided to oust me the same night that I had actually got his sister a good life. He deserves to be humiliated.

I was also humiliated by his family, by his friend whom he once used to have a relationship with, whom he even now loves but doesn't show it out. I was humiliated by his family and friend, time and again. He has supported me many times even though he failed a few times. But this time, he joined them and humiliated me. This time he turned blind to all their accusations. This time he shouted at me to have retorted to his friend. How can I forget that I am nothing in his life? How can I forget that it is for his same lady that he set conditions while marrying me. How can I turn blind to the advances of this lady towards my husband? How can I ignore that though he claims he has nothing to do with her, he has never shut her advances towards him? His ex lover insulted me always and now, she has got a very big chance to call me an opportunist, to claim me to be a selfish. My husband stood their quiet as if he was agreeing to all that I was being alleged of, accused of.

He deserves to be humiliated. The neighbour needs to know that my husband has always failed to stop his family and his friend from humiliating me. He has failed to stop his friend from taunting me day and night. The neighbours needs to know of the importance my husband gives to his friend's words. The truth of his friendship deserves to be brought out to light. I would want to know from the society as which husband oust their wife like this in the middle of the night acting under the influence of his family and his best friend.

His true self needs to be seen by others as well. He deserves this.

He deprived me of the basic necessity of people, the shelter. How does it matter if I hurt his pride, the pride which is fake and that is how it looks to me after this act of his. He once deprived me of food, no wonder he has done this now.

I don't think I will ever be able to respect him after what he has done. He not just did it to me but to my maushi as well.

I will never be able to trust him, will never ever want to return to this house.

Ohh you wonderful woman i cried buckets reading it

but at faults both hurt both in pain,

lets post this to cvs, how i wish this pov's to be part of the episode, somewhere needs to be communicated to each other.

Thank you for this beautiful lovely touching piece❤️

Wonderfully put.

They are both right and wrong.

Lakshmi , I know you have taken a lot of time to analyse both the characters and put it over here.. much love to you. Please dont get disheartened by negative comments. Much love. Always look forward to such posts, that leaves me speechless. Like I told you the other day, people love your analysis.. Hope you remember it. ❤️