Pehle Haq ki Ladaai - Page 13

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL@ sharam hi nahin hai😆.....I don't think Adi thinks everything is fine...it's more the case of his tendency to bury his head in the sand about things he can't find solutions to😆.

Ab isko naivete bolein ya delusion....lol he actually thinks that as long as his mann is saaf and saccha, he doesn't have to think about other things😆. Right now his heart/mind tell him that Imlie is his true love that he didn't realize for so long and it's long overdue that he give her the rights and support she deserves as his wife. He doesn't want to think about what that means in terms of him still being married to Malini also😆.....he's distanced himself from Malini emotionally/mentally/physically so that's good enough in his eyes for now....one day at a time wala motto lagta hai😆.....cuz he does want to tell Malini the truth but woh nahin ho paa raha abhi....and he doesn't want to hold back from Imlie in the interim either😆

Let's see how they manage this push/pull b/w Adi-Imlie about wanting to reveal the truth.....lol I don't think he wants to declare to every person that he has two wives🤣.....more like he wants to tell every person that Imlie is his wife and has pehla haq on him.....Malini ke baare mein he's like ok yeah I know that's an issue too but pehla haq Imlie ka hai, bas😆

This is what it is.. he is jhalla like that a bit too pure at heart In the sense ke he doesn't realize that just caz he has pulled back doesn't solve the actual issue at hand...he did the same before by devoting himself to malini ke meri neeyat toh saaf hai I have no khot in my mann let me do it.. and now doing it again ke main toh jaan ke dhoka nahi de raha and zimmedari hi nibha raha hoon despite my mann being somewhere else now. It really is a flip of zimmedari and pyar for him he means it when he says it 😆 the core problem is he just doesn't want to intentionally hurt anybody but that is inevitable given the mess hurt toh sab ho hoge in the process the more he delays the bigger the hurt will get but he can't bring himself to todo kisi ka bhi dil..the moment he senses ke zyada ho jaayega dusre ke liye he retracts and Is like fine main toh jhel hi raha hoon tadap hi raha hoon Will do it some more then dragging anyone else and that is what he means by manjhdar main doobna instead of picking a kinnara.. all this what is wrong with him stems out from a genuine good place basically making him seem too naive in ways too

Was there not a scene in the initial episodes where Malini actually feared that Aditya would go to the village and get married to a girl there? Or was that AC?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah I do feel the naukraani excuse will be flimsy to use but then again, Imlie's excuse for just running away to PD was pretty dumb too and the Tripathis easily bought that too😆....so anything is possible. She can say ki pehle toh main kaam karne aayi thi, ab main college jaane aayi hoon so I should stay us hisaab se blah blah.

Also, the bigger question....BK ghar jaake sabko bataa denge if he meets Imlie and Malini ka kya reaction hoga ki Adi usse baat karne ki bajaaye Imlie ko bus stop pe receive karne pahuncha hua tha?😆.....aur us sabke baad, why would all Tripathis not land up to meet Imlie at the hostel? Jo log PD tak jaane ko tayyar the for Imlie, ab aaraam se ghar baithenge after learning she's back in the city but didn't come to visit them? 😆

So yeah, for all this, I feel Imlie might pull a disappearing act....less questions to manage that way😆

Or could it be BK becomes humraaz too 😮🧐🤔hence he stays quite and doesn't say anything at home and maybe help adi escape on holi to go meet Imlie but situation push them to bring her along.. adi ke ghar pe ek banda who knows 😆 and who better than BK who shares a bond with imlie..

But yeah too many questions and I still am inclined more towards her disappearing or adi hiding somehow before so BK might just see imlie with Prakash .. and not Adi.. and she may kasam bound him too ke ghar jaake Matt bateyein sab dukhi.ho jaayeinge ke she came to shehar but not.to.them.but she wants to.make her own pehchaan. Live independently yada yada..

Or it could be BK who arranges for her accomodation quickly free of cost given he is shown to be a retired professor so that solves her budget issue .. he might pull his strings and get her a place for adi to only get her rusticated 😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Was there not a scene in the initial episodes where Malini actually feared that Aditya would go to the village and get married to a girl there? Or was that AC?

She did mention it ke agar koi aur mil gayi whaan toh I remember her clearly saying that ke uska intezaar kahin intezaar hi na reh jaaye and that very dialogue was repeated by adi.too ke koi humra intezaar kar raha hai uske intezaar ko hamesha ka nahi bana sakte

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Love the gifs as always😆

Oh we forgot to LOL over the "Tum theek se nahin samjhi" bit.....haha it cracked me up so much too. He could tell that Imlie had been upset on the call cuz he didn't talk to her properly and even though she was trying to downplay it here ki she understood why he couldn't talk then, he felt that need to give her an explanation and an assurance that he was missing her too.....isliye transition bhi kar diya to explain to her ki dekho pehle main aaya, ab tum aayi....bolo kyun? 😆.....Answer he wanted to hear was cuz hum dono nahin reh sakte ek dusre ke bina😆.....once again, woh itna sweet/old school sa vibe tha pati-patni wala vibe tha aise haal chaal puchhne mein bhi😆.....before ofcourse it got more intense from his side in needing to hear that she came to see him.

Trust adi to be so intense and then so childlike seeedha and bhola in other ways.😆 with theek se smajhate hain I have all the time in the world to.clear your doubts 😆 it was adorable the way he was like nah you Don't get it..I.genuinly was I a fix and I tried calling you 5 times haha at his fixation in 5 calls kiya ek bhi nahi uthaya..😆 and imlie being OK I get it but this isn't the confrontation I want right now .even liye yeh zyada ho raha hai ek toh achanak.aa gaye aap and ab insisting ke I came for you.😆 one can see her genuine struggle to avoid and deflate and not say it to hurt him but he kept insisting so kehna hi pada isse when yeah the major reason indeed is she wanted to be in fhr same place as him reh nahi paayi woh bhi which as explained very well in the first scene after pakash left another underrated bit from yesterday where she wonders ke whether she should inform him or no caz agar bata diye toh milne ka mann karega and then it will be impossible to deal with her decisions and heart and emotion sickness aww so.just avoid but a part of her wanted to tell him first thing..and then her silences in this scene one can see the amount if strength it was taking for her to keep her emotions on side and act as casual.as possible but ohir bhi woh bhar bhar ke.emotion aa raha tba...so.the intensity is not on his side it is very intense for her too it is just that she can cover a bit better but her struggle is way harder with herself..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Thank you for this note. I'm personally stumped how Adi is being called Darr ka SRK simply for holding apni hi biwi ka haath woh bhi in such a gallant sa old school way😆.

Yeah he's being intense right now but yeh kuch aur hi level ka example le jaa rahe hain log. There is nothing like that in his demeanor....he can be intense, he can be reckless, but he's not an obsessive stalker, please.😆

Rofl don't you worry 😃 I found all that disturbing to read so made the point.. caz koi connection hi nahi hai iss baat ka ittu sa bhi logic nahi hai in between this comparison 🤷‍♀️ and is rather offensive to call adi someone suffering from obsessiveness and not having the ability to differentiate between right or wrong caz he very well can and is not sick in the head unlike the other character..

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Such premonitions!

😆 lol I 'd call it a little too predictable foreshadowing .. to create mystery when there was none in first place 😆 sorry mujhe toh tab hassi hi aayi thi at the very obvious ke koi mil na jaaye in PD and am like milegi hi rather than it being oh what a masterstroke 🤣 look at all the meaning behind it 😄

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

This is what it is.. he is jhalla like that a bit too pure at heart In the sense ke he doesn't realize that just caz he has pulled back doesn't solve the actual issue at hand...he did the same before by devoting himself to malini ke meri neeyat toh saaf hai I have no khot in my mann let me do it.. and now doing it again ke main toh jaan ke dhoka nahi de raha and zimmedari hi nibha raha hoon despite my mann being somewhere else now. It really is a flip of zimmedari and pyar for him he means it when he says it 😆 the core problem is he just doesn't want to intentionally hurt anybody but that is inevitable given the mess hurt toh sab ho hoge in the process the more he delays the bigger the hurt will get but he can't bring himself to todo kisi ka bhi dil..the moment he senses ke zyada ho jaayega dusre ke liye he retracts and Is like fine main toh jhel hi raha hoon tadap hi raha hoon Will do it some more then dragging anyone else and that is what he means by manjhdar main doobna instead of picking a kinnara.. all this what is wrong with him stems out from a genuine good place basically making him seem too naive in ways too

Exactly....LOL and that angle of it all stemming from a well intentioned place...his intent still being honest/good....that is what saves him cuz otherwise what he's doing is obviously wrong....lol ek cheez ko resolve kiye bagair bas impulsive harkatein kari jaana....

It's kinda ironic ki ek mann itna seedha/saaf bhi ho sakta hai ki tum baaki cheezon ke ramifications soch hi na paao....lol....and he does from time to time reflect on the fact ki mess badhta jaa raha hai and does try whatever way he can ki jitna sach bol sake, bol de.....lol but problem phir bhi khatam nahin hoti and iski woh saaf dil impulsiveness bhi nahin khatam hoti.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Trust adi to be so intense and then so childlike seeedha and bhola in other ways.😆 with theek se smajhate hain I have all the time in the world to.clear your doubts 😆 it was adorable the way he was like nah you Don't get it..I.genuinly was I a fix and I tried calling you 5 times haha at his fixation in 5 calls kiya ek bhi nahi uthaya..😆 and imlie being OK I get it but this isn't the confrontation I want right now .even liye yeh zyada ho raha hai ek toh achanak.aa gaye aap and ab insisting ke I came for you.😆 one can see her genuine struggle to avoid and deflate and not say it to hurt him but he kept insisting so kehna hi pada isse when yeah the major reason indeed is she wanted to be in fhr same place as him reh nahi paayi woh bhi which as explained very well in the first scene after pakash left another underrated bit from yesterday where she wonders ke whether she should inform him or no caz agar bata diye toh milne ka mann karega and then it will be impossible to deal with her decisions and heart and emotion sickness aww so.just avoid but a part of her wanted to tell him first thing..and then her silences in this scene one can see the amount if strength it was taking for her to keep her emotions on side and act as casual.as possible but ohir bhi woh bhar bhar ke.emotion aa raha tba...so.the intensity is not on his side it is very intense for her too it is just that she can cover a bit better but her struggle is way harder with herself..

Oh yeah, thanks for reminding me....I'd also forgotten to talk about that first scene cuz so much Prakash😆.....but yeah, Imlie at every point thinks about Adi too....woh yearning is very much there in her and yes part of the subconscious reason of wanting to go to him too....but she is able to still try to pull herself back more consciously than he is able to😆. Like she acknowledges ki agar call karke bataa diya she's coming toh milne ka mann hoga....lol...toh she's trying to be wise about it in advance only....but obviously destiny keeps finding ways to bring Adi to her regardless😆.

Yes, as you pointed out, even in the scene when he was pressing her to answer ki she did come to meet him na....Imlie really struggled with wanting to both pull back and not to hurt him too much while doing it too😆....uske chehre pe dikh raha tha ki she's getting affected by all this affection/softness from him but she's trying to steel herself to pull back and send him away. Warna we all saw in her imagination that her instinct is also to go running to hug him, hold on to him so desperately.

As for Adi trying to manaao her with his explanations....lol it's just too cute ki Imlie usse koi explanation maangti bhi nahin but he keeps trying extra hard from his side.😆.....that need to not have her misunderstand him or think he didn't care for her.....is level ka kabhi nahin tha from his side for Malini even with all the OTT groveling sessions.....lol....also woh jo ek alag si softness ke saath Adi is talking to her ever since he's realized his love for her....you can see he's trying to approach her delicately but the intensity is still there😆.....and Imlie feels the impact of all of it....lol but bechaari struggles to reel in her emotions so that she can send him away too.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

😆 lol I 'd call it a little too predictable foreshadowing .. to create mystery when there was nonsense in first place 😆 sorry mujhe toh tab hassi hi aayi thi at the very obvious ke koi mil na jaaye in PD and am like milegi hi rather than it being oh what a masterstroke 🤣 look at all the meaning behind it 😄

LOL yes it was predictable foreshadowing in many ways....woh entire early set of epis was all about Malini constantly whining ki koi aur mil jaayegi Adi ko🤔😆.....and they used to show the parallels of Imlie showing up in the frame right as Malini used to be having one of her insecure moments....har chhoti cheez pe hyper hoti thi....ki phone pe kisi ladki ki awaaz sun li, kaun hai woh ladki etc. etc.

And then later, once Adi came back from PD, then also Malini maaroed lame "jokes" about how he will find someone else😕😆....iska one track mind tha bahut pehle se despite her claims that she knows Adi only loves her....now it's all just coming full circle again cuz Adi has finally distanced from her for real. Shak kar kar ke isne usi baat ko sach kar liya hai....lol...ho gaya hai Adi isse door.