ShaKhi - Should we root for them? - Page 2

In the OG apparently, it has been repeated.

Hopefully, in SAAKK , they will understand that the audience will not tolerate pathetic behaviour by ML just because he is insecure. That behaviour is emotional abuse of sorts.

Originally posted by: ashwariya_98

So how do u think they are going to clear Shaurya's image from Anokhi's and viewers mind after all the brash name calling? Hoe do they tell us that this will never repeat itself?

Since this is serial, I want to root for them.. But I also want to root for Anokhi to be the spirit to counter and change things (next to impossible in real life too).

The gender based biases are not just restricted to name tagging like what Shaurya did. It's kind of small part of a mentality.

1. A woman should stay at home and take care of family.

2. A woman should be dependent on man for her safety and basic needs.

3. In a scenario where woman earns more than man, woman should give up scenario.

Oh and list would go on.

But, the show song does talk about broadening Shaurya - Jo tera hoga woh laut ayega chahe jitna dur jayega...

It's beautiful song! So, first thing first.. Shaurya must start trusting Anokhi (atleast once they are officially a couple) that no matter what - if she goes far off for studies, career, anything - she will come back and they will be united... No matter what...

I do want this show to deal with various kinds of gender based issues...

They can sure add couple of male based biases too😆 as long as they don't ruin the taste.

Originally posted by: ashwariya_98

Ohh sameee! I have a roommate too currently. The guy she dates is kind of prince charming too. He is filthy rich and he fell for her very organically. (No love-hate relatioship) It's just his first relationship after 3-4 years and his passion is omg, unmatched. You can see how much he loves her from his face. But he has huge issues with her giving anyone else bhaav. We were once on a trip and she was talking to another guy for a long time and he lost his mind. He ignored her for the rest of the day and then they fought on the phone and he did practice "name calling". She cried alot, I felt it was below the belt and such comments should not be made. But she eventually forgave him and they got together. This could be forgiven one time but this is his pattern. He has done this time and again and gotten really below the belt many times. But then they call it *love*. Sorry but this for me is emotional torture.

Im not saying love shouldnt have issues. But these are the kind of things partners need to be understanding about. Matlab u can fight on groceries or child's education or any other serious matter. But mistrust and doubts , that is jist disgusting for me.

I have seen this toxic behaviour, takes a toll on other partner. The person showing mistrust or anger might not be ‘bad’ guy but such behaviour mustn’t be excused or ignored .

That’s why I want a good sensible Redemption track , I know ShaKhi are end game here but they should handle sensitive & relatable topics as such with care.

Anokhi forgiving him easily and moving on from it after cheating track won’t be cool 👎🏼

Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

Road blocks are fine because relationships take effort and the love is what makes the effort worth. The questions is it worth it if one of the partners is constantly exhibiting the same pattern of behaviour that impacts the other in a toxic manner? Would rooting for that kind of a relationship in reel or real be worth it?

I think every kind of behavior can be put up with , but not if there is no respect for each other. Insecurities can be dealt with to a degree. Normal jealousy is OK, possessiveness is also ok, its a sign of love...But there r warning signs like , the person is TOo "passionate" , too rich , too loving , too insecure too jealous.. anything in excess will always he problematic chahe wo pyar hi ho. Emotions in excess r more harmful than the lack of it. It can be too suffocating.

Normally when someone is blinded in love they automatically turn biased and think like "oh no , they r human they won't be perfect "..all that is ok..all r humans. Just see what kind of behavior r u ready to put.up with for your entire life. Bec each has their own tolerance levels. That's how relationships work.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I think every kind of behavior can be put up with , but not if there is no respect for each other. Insecurities can be dealt with to a degree. Normal jealousy is OK, possessiveness is also ok, its a sign of love...But there r warning signs like , the person is TOo "passionate" , too rich , too loving , too insecure too jealous.. anything in excess will always he problematic chahe wo pyar hi ho. Emotions in excess r more harmful than the lack of it.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Since this is serial, I want to root for them.. But I also want to root for Anokhi to be the spirit to counter and change things (next to impossible in real life too).

The gender based biases are not just restricted to name tagging like what Shaurya did. It's kind of small part of a mentality.

1. A woman should stay at home and take care of family.

2. A woman should be dependent on man for her safety and basic needs.

3. In a scenario where woman earns more than man, woman should give up scenario.

Oh and list would go on.

But, the show song does talk about broadening Shaurya - Jo tera hoga woh laut ayega chahe jitna dur jayega...

It's beautiful song! So, first thing first.. Shaurya must start trusting Anokhi (atleast once they are officially a couple) that no matter what - if she goes far off for studies, career, anything - she will come back and they will be united... No matter what...

I do want this show to deal with various kinds of gender based issues...

They can sure add couple of male based biases too😆 as long as they don't ruin the taste.

Plus the class difference issue. A small town poor girl is automatically tagged as a gold digger , lacking in self respect and taking "favours " from the rich.

I think aastha did the right thing today . To question.him .

Keeping all.this aside , shaurya isn't someone who cant change. These clashes will.probably make him.a better person . In reality , this change happens very gradually or it might never happen .

For the time being, I will root for Anokhi to continue breaking the chains that try to bind her, I will root for the girl who suffered a lot to reach where she is. I will root for her to achieve her dreams.

I will also root for Shaurya to be the human being that I know he is capable of being.

I will root for Anokhi and Shaurya separately, with the hope that one day I will root for ShaKhi!

Originally posted by: _charu_

Plus the class difference issue. A small town poor girl is automatically tagged as a gold digger , lacking in self respect and taking "favours " from the rich.

I think aastha did the right thing today . To question.him .

Keeping all.this aside , shaurya isn't someone who cant change. These clashes will.probably make him.a better person . In reality , this change happens very gradually or it might never happen .

I hope he changes but may the change again not be too sudden.

In real life I would rather advise shaurya that he needs a psychologist; his issues run extremely deep and to expect that your life partner should deal with it is unfair. Since dealing with such issues is very hard in real life without taking professional help.

But it’s an itv show and fiction so I don’t expect this to be shown.

Infact I feel even anokhi needs therapist, she might not come across as toxic but childhood trauma can manifest itself in many ways.

Also, lots and lots of couple therapy if this was in real life.

But in the show, I hope ki with time this side gets toned down as he unlearns his mentality. When he sees how much his words hurt her I expect him to at least control his anger, all other things can be dealt with time but he needs manage his anger.

If he can really unlearn and try to be better everyday I can see their relationship working but shaurya is the one who needs to put in a lot of work to improve himself; he needs to know anokhi will give it her all and I know shaurya will give it his all too but he needs to know that being toxic vs being flawed are two very different things; latter is perfectly fine but being toxic is not.