Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 112

Originally posted by: dsm123

Exactly.. pta nahi lead ke character itna kachra kyu kar diya hain.. I mean seriously what do they expect from us? Why will we keep watching this crap??

They've limited entire thing to her school fees bcuz they'll be back to mansion after he successfully pays school fees😆 and now that I'm no more in love with Ani's character what I see is its not Ani who left home.. its bon who left home for Ani as he wanted to prove his worth.. as Sampoo gave him reality check..his ego was hurt😆 and why did he took bon with him? Just why? Akele jake rehta.. why making her suffer... if he doesn't even care that while proving his worth if he dies and bon becomes sati/widow what will happen to her?

The thing putting me off here is the way bon is suffering. She lost her father..she loved mini genuinely but lost her, she loved Sampoo but lost her, mama mami aise hain hi.... Rcs are everready to end relation with her on her single mistake be it kaka or Ani.. and jisko woh apna sansaar maanti that ARC is being dishonest with her.. and its not just about girl.. not accepting her as wife and telling whole world she's not wife is also insulting and cheating for 1920. This girl has none except her ma. Just no one. And this whole realization badly made me feel detached.

Sorry to jump in but can't agree more. It's somehow always bon who bears the brunt of everything. It's just that she does not express or maybe considering her age, she does not understands it completely. But the little soul has gone through so much at such a tender age.

Well, even for once if we come in agreement with the fact that what happened with Ani is natural enough but then why did makers show us all the bonding and emotional fondness at the first place? Like separation during BW track was a lot understandable because that time their attachment was not so deep, Ani fought with almost everyone to gave Bondita a place in the family and therefore was hurt on on not receiving the same amount of trust.

More than Ani falling for the girl, what hurts is he was remembering the moments he had with the krantikari girl while talking to Bon. It was not so Ani. Never did he reminisce his moments with Mini in front of Bon except when Bon herself questioned about it and that too he remembered only about the dejection he faced from Mini. Never did we saw Ani caressing Mini's belongings or lovingly feeling her touch. Instead he was crying holding all of Mini's belongings and kept them in the box forever, on the first day after their marriage, because somewhere down the line he knew that there is no returning of his love. Even when sometimes Mini touched him he was outright awkward and tried to resist. Whatever he did for Mini was justifiable too at some point, he held himself responsible for Mini's condition and he tried to help. During their dance too, all he kept talking was about Bondita.

I maybe wrong but Ani putting that umbrella over the girl was definitely not a very good scene to watch. It looked like a typical ITV symbolism. The way Ani and the krantikari girl's scenes were executed was not right. Why to show things like that if at the end its the lead pair who are going to get together at the end? Or if they want to justify the actions of Ani, why did they put those moments and that RTM version? They could have shown only a zimmedari wala relation that they were showing before the BW track. It would not have been so hard then to watch Ani fall in love, or atleast these scenes would not have been so troublesome. Nothing makes sense to be honest.

Whenever the thought of Bon comes to mind, how the little girl is, or rather has been, oblivious to everything, it's excruciating . Ani makes Bon understand everything with so much of ease, why doesn't he clears their relation in front of her? Bon is quite mature of her age, she would definitely understand if things are taught in a subtle way, would stop calling him patibabu and get out of that bubble she is living in. The pain would be much greater if she gets to knows about their relation after she grows up because it would consist of shattering of all the love that she amalgamated over the years. But if she is made to understood now, it would be quite less comparatively and she would understand that she has to live for her own, not for the shallow and the fragile relations that breaks every now and then.💔

So sorry for this long rant. But could not hold it more. It's been heart-wrenching to see Rudi like that.

Originally posted by: Janu.301017

Hey guys...

New episode is out..

I was able to watch without keeping any expectations from Ani...ab tho koi expectations nahi he usse...so just like that without any emotional attatch I saw the epi..

Seriously.. I am liking this girl...she said hum saath he iss mission keliye aur kuch nahi...aur apni apni neezi maamlo me dakal deneki zaroorat nahi..

He said he will drop her..as it's raining and she don't have umbrella...

She said..mujhe pasad nahi he..koi jaane me kaha jaatha hu..kya kartha hu..kisse milrahahu...

In short she said...apne kaam me kaam rakho..usse zyaada zarrori nahi he..

Bondi and anis scenes are also good..

Hilights:

1.yest conversation cont..as I said..above..

2.bonditha feeding Ani with many pooris...he said .me kithna kaalu bonditha..? She said kana padega than bhi tho kathar aayegi...and thinks thabi tho har patni ki thara ped bharke khana milana he..he gets katar...she claps being happy..

3.training for Ani..by the girl..as a circus person...

4.Binoy...tho pura joker bangaya...vo tho sampoo ko gifts karaha he...KSj also so fun to watch..his expression...he said..tum payal lao ya haar kuch aur..pathni ka darja koi bhi dedo...bus maa math banana...binoy was like..kya da app bhi..isme kya galat he types..and simnoy going to some guesthouse for honeymoo...how romantic..(🤭)

4.day of the mission: Ani got ready to leave..bondi said aaj to Sunday hai..he diverts her saying bindi is not correct..and goes by locking her..

5.bondi was confused..why he left on Sunday..he diverted me..and sees his bag...and finds knife..patibabu..mere fees keliye kuch tho kaam karrahi he..uski jaan khatreme..mujhe rokhna hoga...and she goes to window and with stone she breaks the grils and comes out of the house..

6.here they start the circus..natak...

Aaraha he. Anirudh baabu (not patibabu from now) tumhari rakshak baabu araha he tumhe bachaane...

Aage ke patha nahi but today's highlight was binoy and his smile...mujhe has has karke mere gaal pain horaha he..must watch for that guy to laugh...also..KSj also..kuch bhi dena..bus maa math banana,😀😎

Bon said Anirudh babu and not pati babu?

Originally posted by: sharafah

Bon said Anirudh babu and not pati babu?

No no..she said pati babu..only..but I said from now for me...I don't like her to call him patibabu..

Originally posted by: Indira12

Sorry to jump in but can't agree more. It's somehow always bon who bears the brunt of everything. It's just that she does not express or maybe considering her age, she does not understands it completely. But the little soul has gone through so much at such a tender age.

Well, even for once if we come in agreement with the fact that what happened with Ani is natural enough but then why did makers show us all the bonding and emotional fondness at the first place? Like separation during BW track was a lot understandable because that time their attachment was not so deep, Ani fought with almost everyone to gave Bondita a place in the family and therefore was hurt on on not receiving the same amount of trust.

More than Ani falling for the girl, what hurts is he was remembering the moments he had with the krantikari girl while talking to Bon. It was not so Ani. Never did he reminisce his moments with Mini in front of Bon except when Bon herself questioned about it and that too he remembered only about the dejection he faced from Mini. Never did we saw Ani caressing Mini's belongings or lovingly feeling her touch. Instead he was crying holding all of Mini's belongings and kept them in the box forever, on the first day after their marriage, because somewhere down the line he knew that there is no returning of his love. Even when sometimes Mini touched him he was outright awkward and tried to resist. Whatever he did for Mini was justifiable too at some point, he held himself responsible for Mini's condition and he tried to help. During their dance too, all he kept talking was about Bondita.

I maybe wrong but Ani putting that umbrella over the girl was definitely not a very good scene to watch. It looked like a typical ITV symbolism. The way Ani and the krantikari girl's scenes were executed was not right. Why to show things like that if at the end its the lead pair who are going to get together at the end? Or if they want to justify the actions of Ani, why did they put those moments and that RTM version? They could have shown only a zimmedari wala relation that they were showing before the BW track. It would not have been so hard then to watch Ani fall in love, or atleast these scenes would not have been so troublesome. Nothing makes sense to be honest.

Whenever the thought of Bon comes to mind, how the little girl is, or rather has been, oblivious to everything, it's excruciating . Ani makes Bon understand everything with so much of ease, why doesn't he clears their relation in front of her? Bon is quite mature of her age, she would definitely understand if things are taught in a subtle way, would stop calling him patibabu and get out of that bubble she is living in. The pain would be much greater if she gets to knows about their relation after she grows up because it would consist of shattering of all the love that she amalgamated over the years. But if she is made to understood now, it would be quite less comparatively and she would understand that she has to live for her own, not for the shallow and the fragile relations that breaks every now and then.💔

So sorry for this long rant. But could not hold it more. It's been heart-wrenching to see Rudi like that.

@bold- cant agree more! This is the exact question I am asking,, you have expressed it so clearly,, everything makes no sense now! plus Ani thinking about that girl when Bon was speaking really was hurting...I have not watched it,,, I dont think I can bear to see it!

Originally posted by: Janu.301017

No no..she said pati babu..only..but I said from now for me...I don't like her to call him patibabu..

he should have said back then "apki shishak babu ki rakshak babu"...even barristera babu seems calling someone fondly which seems more personal...for his feelings towards zimmedari shishak babu is good enough

Originally posted by: sharafah

Hahhaha I know Dumbledore!I too cried alot! 😭 ya but that is only if Ani keeps his feelings to himself but what if he tells the girl or touches her face in a romantic way (I know this is only if and these are just my predictions) but if they do happen then it is not right that later when he realises he comes to Bon.... if Bon was Big you think she would have taken this lightly? what if the writers decide that Ani should just be a guradian and nothing more...this will make me even more upset cuz if that was the case they should not have shown many scenes before,,, it is like playing with emotions,,, for now i cnat judge the makers cuzI dont know what they have planned but I dont like what is Ani is doing,, sorry but this sort of taking advantage that Bon is small so he has the rights to do anything.. where was Ani when Bon had to handle house and studies... he let Bon do right? why tie the keys to Bon's sarees if she is not RC bahu? there are so many other questions? he could have made it clear to Kaka she is my zimmedari,,so she is only going to study and nothing else.... why let Batuk call her Boudi? cold have scolded batuk right? so isit to give her relations and snatch it away from her at the time he thinks is the best time?

@bold- you are very sweet🤗🤗 I really do think you all very kind.... I mean there might be differences in opinions in the forum but I feel members here are very respectful and sweet! Thank you so much for praising me.. it means alot😳

Great!! Go, Harry Potter!! Or Maybe I should say, Go Dumbledore!!😆 He was the best of that series.

Shara, before I write anything I want to first say I am in no way taking sides here. I will just make an effort to ease your mind a little.🤗

Ani touching the girl romantically is a long shot. Maybe tomorrow or Friday we will get to see the nautanki dance... we may need to prepare ourselves for that but later I don't think they will show him going all touchy with the girl. But even if such scenes do pop up it may mostly be accidental to make Bon jealous.

If Bon was big, do you think Ani would ever look at other girls?😃 No way. He would have accepted his feelings for her long back. And Ani can't just be the guardian. The reason is simple, he is the ML of the show and Bon is the FL. They are meant to be together. Even I don't trust the makers and have no idea what they are planning. But there is nothing we can do about it. All we can do is wait and let it play out. No, irrespective of Bon being small or big he shouldn't betray her. That is wrong and will also be wrong. But Ani is not there yet. Anirudh if you observed is always a single-minded guy. Once he makes up his mind, he doesn't see anything around him. It is the same now. He wants Bondita to be a Barrister and he is willing to do everything in his power to make her reach it. Because he knows her potential, her capability, her talent and he appreciates them. The future he sees right now is just up to the point she becomes a barrister. I don't think he ever actually gave a thought of anything after that point. Not even of his own life. Never did we see him think about his future. His life. His happiness. Because he is actually not thinking about any of those. His only point of focus is Bon's education and her future. Not his or their future. That's the reason he never sees the bigger picture. Also, maybe because their marriage is child marriage, he feels injustice happened with Bon and she needs to decide on her future. Well!! I can go on but will stop here because at this point everything is speculation. We don't know how everything will play out. If it turns to worse as you predicted, then let us cry about it then. Why start 2 days early👍🏼 And if something good happens, we will be saved from all this hurt now😃. I understand your pain and your frustration, please don't think otherwise. I am disappointed too. But all we can do is wait as we love Rudhi too much❤️

Originally posted by: sharafah

Hahhaha I know Dumbledore!I too cried alot! 😭 ya but that is only if Ani keeps his feelings to himself but what if he tells the girl or touches her face in a romantic way (I know this is only if and these are just my predictions) but if they do happen then it is not right that later when he realises he comes to Bon.... if Bon was Big you think she would have taken this lightly? what if the writers decide that Ani should just be a guradian and nothing more...this will make me even more upset cuz if that was the case they should not have shown many scenes before,,, it is like playing with emotions,,, for now i cnat judge the makers cuzI dont know what they have planned but I dont like what is Ani is doing,, sorry but this sort of taking advantage that Bon is small so he has the rights to do anything.. where was Ani when Bon had to handle house and studies... he let Bon do right? why tie the keys to Bon's sarees if she is not RC bahu? there are so many other questions? he could have made it clear to Kaka she is my zimmedari,,so she is only going to study and nothing else.... why let Batuk call her Boudi? cold have scolded batuk right? so isit to give her relations and snatch it away from her at the time he thinks is the best time?

@bold- you are very sweet🤗🤗 I really do think you all very kind.... I mean there might be differences in opinions in the forum but I feel members here are very respectful and sweet! Thank you so much for praising me.. it means alot😳

My point here is that Bon wasn't a zimmedari between HM and SR track for Ani. Zimmedari is a shield Ani uses whenever anyone suggests a proper (physical) pati-patni relationship because he feels it is wrong. Also if Bon was big Ani would have become lattu on her by now, tab zimmedari wouldn't have existed.

The problem is Ani's fear of social expectations, not a lack of feelings for Bon.

Originally posted by: Hope

Great!! Go, Harry Potter!! Or Maybe I should say, Go Dumbledore!!😆 He was the best of that series.

Shara, before I write anything I want to first say I am in no way taking sides here. I will just make an effort to ease your mind a little.🤗

Ani touching the girl romantically is a long shot. Maybe tomorrow or Friday we will get to see the nautanki dance... we may need to prepare ourselves for that but later I don't think they will show him going all touchy with the girl. But even if such scenes do pop up it may mostly be accidental to make Bon jealous.

If Bon was big, do you think Ani would ever look at other girls?😃 No way. He would have accepted his feelings for her long back. And Ani can't just be the guardian. The reason is simple, he is the ML of the show and Bon is the FL. They are meant to be together. Even I don't trust the makers and have no idea what they are planning. But there is nothing we can do about it. All we can do is wait and let it play out. No, irrespective of Bon being small or big he shouldn't betray her. That is wrong and will also be wrong. But Ani is not there yet. Anirudh if you observed is always a single-minded guy. Once he makes up his mind, he doesn't see anything around him. It is the same now. He wants Bondita to be a Barrister and he is willing to do everything in his power to make her reach it. Because he knows her potential, her capability, her talent and he appreciates them. The future he sees right now is just up to the point she becomes a barrister. I don't think he ever actually gave a thought of anything after that point. Not even of his own life. Never did we see him think about his future. His life. His happiness. Because he is actually not thinking about any of those. His only point of focus is Bon's education and her future. Not his or their future. That's the reason he never sees the bigger picture. Also, maybe because their marriage is child marriage, he feels injustice happened with Bon and she needs to decide on her future. Well!! I can go on but will stop here because at this point everything is speculation. We don't know how everything will play out. If it turns to worse as you predicted, then let us cry about it then. Why start 2 days early👍🏼 And if something good happens, we will be saved from all this hurt now😃. I understand your pain and your frustration, please don't think otherwise. I am disappointed too. But all we can do is wait as we love Rudhi too much❤️

you are right! I guess I should wait :) he does not think and that is why I ma upset because Bon is living in a world of illusion. He allows her to have relations with RC members and calling her just zimmedari to the world without her knowledge is like a ticking time bomb,,when Bon gets to know she will be very hurt.. I meant he touching her face in that manner cuz of the dance and that is only a speculation.....hopefully that never happens to aggrevate the pain even more... but you right😳..i shall try to keep my cool and be calm

Originally posted by: Janu.301017

Hey guys...

New episode is out..

I was able to watch without keeping any expectations from Ani...ab tho koi expectations nahi he usse...so just like that without any emotional attatch I saw the epi..

Seriously.. I am liking this girl...she said hum saath he iss mission keliye aur kuch nahi...aur apni apni neezi maamlo me dakal deneki zaroorat nahi..

He said he will drop her..as it's raining and she don't have umbrella...

She said..mujhe pasad nahi he..koi jaane me kaha jaatha hu..kya kartha hu..kisse milrahahu...

In short she said...apne kaam me kaam rakho..usse zyaada zarrori nahi he..

Bondi and anis scenes are also good..

Hilights:

1.yest conversation cont..as I said..above..

2.bonditha feeding Ani with many pooris...he said .me kithna kaalu bonditha..? She said kana padega than bhi tho kathar aayegi...and thinks thabi tho har patni ki thara ped bharke khana milana he..he gets katar...she claps being happy..

3.training for Ani..by the girl..as a circus person...

4.Binoy...tho pura joker bangaya...vo tho sampoo ko gifts karaha he...KSj also so fun to watch..his expression...he said..tum payal lao ya haar kuch aur..pathni ka darja koi bhi dedo...bus maa math banana...binoy was like..kya da app bhi..isme kya galat he types..and simnoy going to some guesthouse for honeymoo...how romantic..(🤭)

4.day of the mission: Ani got ready to leave..bondi said aaj to Sunday hai..he diverts her saying bindi is not correct..and goes by locking her..

5.bondi was confused..why he left on Sunday..he diverted me..and sees his bag...and finds knife..patibabu..mere fees keliye kuch tho kaam karrahi he..uski jaan khatreme..mujhe rokhna hoga...and she goes to window and with stone she breaks the grils and comes out of the house..

6.here they start the circus..natak...

Aaraha he. Anirudh baabu (not patibabu from now) tumhari rakshak baabu araha he tumhe bachaane...

Aage ke patha nahi but today's highlight was binoy and his smile...mujhe has has karke mere gaal pain horaha he..must watch for that guy to laugh...also..KSj also..kuch bhi dena..bus maa math banana,😀😎

Janu, Thanks for the update🤗

Kaka is on a roll... I love it. Hum sab ki mann ki baat seeda Binoy ke muh pe boldiya🤣

Exactly... The whole fandom is in unison saying since long.. Kuch bhi ho Sampoo ko ma nahi banao😆

So, Bon's new idea is get to hubbys heart through his tummy... I don't know about Barristry but "pyaar kare ke thareeke" by BRC book lik legi.

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

My point here is that Bon wasn't a zimmedari between HM and SR track for Ani. Zimmedari is a shield Ani uses whenever anyone suggests a proper (physical) pati-patni relationship because he feels it is wrong. Also if Bon was big Ani would have become lattu on her by now, tab zimmedari wouldn't have existed.

The problem is Ani's fear of social expectations, not a lack of feelings for Bon.

Then why say about love at first sight for the new girl when he himself cannot name his feelings for Bon? Though I am annoyed with him i agree he cares alot for Bon.. that I will not disagree but I also think his ego and wanting to win in his challenges are also part of the reason in some of his actions. He can be attracted but not term it as love.. that is going too far especially for someone he barely knows about