Originally posted by: yyyy
Everyone in the college knows she is married and I don’t think she is trying to hide . Hiding doesn’t stop people from mocking her . In college , some bullies mock other students for no reason and they would have made fun of her for some reason even if she was unmarried . She should not be bothered and should make her new friends group . That’s the only way to deal with such people .
Aai is not misleading her . She is helping her to see the reality . Virat has started to think of her as his wife and this knowledge will help Sai to deal with him .
Yes, theres always bullying but its not completely unreasonable to avoid it by not talking about it too much. Yes she will disclose shes married if required but "everyone" doesn't know (mbbs ke batch mein 100-150/year bacche honge . So far only pulkit and people who saw her mangalsutra know and in upcoming everyone who is at deans office behind Sai and will be at the "rose scene" will know😂) and nor do they need to. And even for someone like Sai that is straightforward and not one to take proples bullying it is definitely tiring to have to keep on having to stand up to people. Ghar par enough drama happens, she does not need to engage with bullies in college too. If she has to, she will but if it can be avoided, why not! And sai doesn't realize that virat's first college visit was out of protectiveness/jealousy, she perceives it as lack of trust in her.
I think Ashwini is "misleading" her about pyaar right now. Its too soon. Yes virat cares for her and is starting to get attached to her but pyaar nahi hua hai aur abhi bahut time hai. Virat wants Sai to associate the words pyaar, family etc with him but he has never reflected on whether his concern and jealousy over Aniket was purely out of farz or he feels anything more. When he gets to that point he will have to also think about pp and his ridiculous vaada. And only when he realizes that theres no meaning to his vaada when circumstances have changed, only then can he acknowledge any "pyaar" towards Sai. Ashwini does not know of the vaada made by lover boy to pp nor does she know of the "no expectations because i cant give anyone else a place in my heart" clause. She knows that virat had a thing for pp and Sai has realized that. And she knows virat married Sai to take her responsibility and responsibility to fulfil her dreams so she knows Sai thinks of the marriage as "a samjhauta" for that purpose but i don't think she knows that the hesitancy in the sairat relationship is not only due to circumstances and pp's interference but virats point blank refusal to even entertain the thought of loving someone else up unti now. He thinks his 2 day infatuation with pp is love. So while its nice ashwini is playing cupid, using the word pyaar only with Sai but not virat can definitely become misleading because virat wont be on the same page if only Sai starts loving him whereas virat is still stuck at the point of doing everything only because of "zimmedari/farz"
Edited by neeraja91 - 4 years ago
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