Anu needs to move, in order to move

Anupama needs to leave that house in order to move on in life

Idiots like Baa Toshu and Vanrat will always work to keep Anu down under their thumbs

Baa is gross ...as a woman she is a disgrace

Vanrat is just that ..a rat

Toshu is a dangar ...true educated dumbass

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Anupama needs to leave that house in order to move on in life

Idiots like Baa Toshu and Vanrat will always work to keep Anu down under their thumbs

Baa is gross ...as a woman she is a disgrace

Vanrat is just that ..a rat

Toshu is a dangar ...true educated dumbass

So true .

There constant pulling down will demotivate her .

The problem is where will she go? Maybe with Nandini or anyone. Maybe, She might move out once she earns enough to support herself... And divorces Vanraj

But I so wish that she turns out to be so strong that she can kick out Vanraj (and Toshu) and handle baa (like she already is) or I hope Baa willingly supports Anupama once truth is out! Like this is literally her house and she should stay there because there is absolutely zero fault of hers😭

I am sad that she didn't continue questioning Vanraj later on🤢, I just wanted to see his response.

Anupama has already started moving on but with in few days it is not possible to move on completely

It will take time to move on completely

But she started working on it

Earlier anupama use to scare ot vanraj that vanraj will scold her if she go out for outing with best friend devika

Now she not at all scare of vanraj. Now she has started taking her own decision and firm decision

Now she has taken decision that she will learn driving no matter vanraj keep showing her eyes and keep saying u will not learn driving ur work is only cook

And Allso anupama has no effect . She is still calm when she know that vanraj is spending night with kavya and vanraj did not come at home whole night

For father in law health anupama has effect that vanraj is not picking phone

But as a wife anupama has no effect that vanraj is spending night with kavya

And these are quite big change in anupama

She wanted to be independent but also doesn't want to leave shah mansion. I know it is not easy, She can move in with devika. I don't think a friend like devika would mind. She can find a suitable job for her. Abhi driving sikhne ka fitoor jaga hai, isse pehle job dhoondni chahiye use.

Most women in early 40s are mature enough to understand that one does not move out without setting things in motion.

One needs to have a steady job, a place to live and also some backup. The best thing would be what she is doing pick up the life skills like driving, be more independent, get a part time job and then transition into a full time job.

Ease the family into the decision

Believe me I have seen a couple of these situations closely. One is my childhood friend and the other is a cousin. I have been part of negotiation in divorce and also part of their therapy sessions.

How is she supposed to do that if Vanrat and his mom keep coming her way

To be independent she needs to work / get a job but she can’t do that until she moves away from the Rat team but she can’t move cause she doesn’t have money

She will be stuck in a terrible circle of wanting to be independent yet a good bahu

she needs to kick Baa to the curb ...she is horrid