Dfference between K's and V's reactions post revelation

We have been discussing about who's at blame and who is crazy and most of the times agreed that both are equally to blame and crazy. But looking at individual reactions from Vanraj and Kavya post the revelation, I have found Vanraj to be more evil than Kavya.

Vanraj has shown not an iota of concern for Anupama. He is only worried about himself.

If I look at how they responded to Devika, there was no guilt that Vanraj displayed. He continued with his lies and tried to show his attitude to Devika which ofcourse did not work. On the other hand, I feel Kavya is at least feeling guilty of causing the trauma to Anupama and tried to know how was she doing. Even while responding to Devika, she did not try to lie and her guilt caused her to confess.

When Anupama gained her conciousness and Kavya and her caught each other's gaze, kavya felt the fear of facing her which made her drop the milk vessel. Vanraj on the other hand is again trying to show his anger and corner Anupama. To his dismay, Anupama is not the same old meek woman, who would listen to him heads down. But he never even tried to apologize and that shows how evil is he!

Yep I said in the other post. (Also still need to watch todays episode)

That Vanraj is cowering behind closed doors, and worried about himself and what will be said if anyone let's the secret out and is trying to look how to manipulate and lie in the situation.

Kavya atleast has some sense and heart to feel some shame, remorse and guts to tell the truth when asked. Even right now she is somewhat concerned how Anupamaa is state is more what Vanraj is being like

Kavya has always had a heart. She loves Vanraj and is selfish, a cheater, a home wrecker, yes. But with all of it, she’s at times has supported Anupamaa (not saying that it’s enough or makes her a good person) and which is why she has that slight wavering thread of remorse. What she’s done is unforgivable because she took Anu’s trust in her but she’ll stand for how it is in her heart.

Vanraj on the other hand is scum, he isn’t in love with Kavya, he pretty much blamed her for the whole thing to protect his reputation. He comes first for himself and no one is even in the radar. Not once has he spared the thought of how he’s wronged, manipulated and played Anupamaa for years together. He pretty much tried to ruin Anupama mind and spirit and isn’t sorry for anything in life. He’s not just a cheater, he constantly kept his ego, male privilege and pride ahead of any and every relationship in his life. There’s a word to refer to people like him, popularly termed as “narcissist”

That’s pretty much my 2 cents on this.

Vanraj only love is himself 😡 He is ready to blame others for his actions 🤬he never love Anu and he not love Kavya too🤢