Atleast we are here calling out Vanraj and his cheating and despicable attitude and actions but in the show so far only Kavya is getting the blame from others
Nandini is blaming Kavya rightly so but also hold Vanraj accountable too
Yes we want Anupamaa to win in life but Vanraj needs a reality check and blame too
Not encouraging Vanraj towards Anupamaa with how he cheating on her
👍🏼 I feel Kavya is better than Vanraj because Anirudh knows about Vanraj and her relation & they both are heading for a divorce. She keeps him at a distance and Anirudh accepted that he too failed to give Kavya the attention and care she deserved as a wife. Vanraj, on the other hand, keeps Anupamaa - sorry, Anu - in the dark, is getting remarried to her and behaves all lovely dovely while continuously making faces. He needs to be called out and held accountable.
I get that Nandini is angry and disgusted with Kavya and as you mentioned rightly blames her. I feel, though Kavya doesn't deserve ,she still needs Nandini's help. Like the popular quote, Love me most when I deserve it the least because that is when I need it the most. Nandini should try to show Kavya that Vanraj is taking advantage of her too. Kavya is vulnerable because of a failed marriage and somewhere Vanraj has taken advantage of that. He encourages her to push Anirudh away all the while keeping Anu close to him. Anupamaa has Samar, Bapuji and her own mayka atleast. Kavya will have no one - not Nandini, Anirudh or even Vanraj (seeing how much of a two faced person he is).