Yeh Rishtey Hain Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 21 Aug 2020 - Page 21

Originally posted by: Rashi23

But RS knows this.. He has been handling this thing since a decade.. The way they have shown the marital life and problems that Akshara naitik n varsha shaurya faced was so good.. Even kairas marital life was shown but mishbir se hi problem hai inhe.. Even I want to see mishbirs nok jhok, fights n the problems they face (not this kuhu problem) but we aren't getting anything.. And now all of a sudden we are getting a pregnancy /surrogacy track 🤪

I will definitely quit watching this show if they go ahead with Kuhu as surrogate mother for Mishbir kid 🤢 No I won’t tolerate that! And if Abir still let’s Mishti beg Kuhu for surrogacy then I will be forced to hate Abir and I don’t want to do so 😭 He’s the best male lead character I’ve seen so far

In parent show also Kittu keeps on misunderstanding Naira and they keep on separating and remarrying 😆 but our show isn’t like that and RS should not make it like that! Yeah, Akshara Naitik were the ideal couple but theirs was an arranged marriage

Originally posted by: SheThought

Diyu, I know others are not asking. But Kuhu told kunal na that she will drop the matter is Mishti said sorry to her. So Kuhu is ready to ready to forget the incident if Mish said sorry, so baat Khatam phir.

She should say sorry in such a way to make the family and Kuhu guilty for what they did - family for keeping quiet and Kuhu for her tamasha!

But kunal didn't ask mishti to say sorry , neither abir nor meenu ...that's a different thing none of them are asking kuhu to say sorry too

But if they see them indulging in equal cat fights what would they do ? They saw kuhu foolishly accusing mishti and in turn they saw mishti equally giving to it ...regarding no one calling out kuhu, meenu and kunal were strict with her all the while , abir was silent but what can he do when kuhu's SaaS and her husband are already speaking to her

All abir was saying mishti was to calm down ,when did he ask her to compromise...I am really missing a point , if anyone is in anger , one's natural reaction to other one is calming them down , doesn't mishti give the same advice to abir when he is fighting with meenu ?

Originally posted by: Onyourface

You made complete sense nandu 🤗 The difference lies in the way they wish to deal with kuhu, Mishti wants to be all out and abir wants to be the calmer one...in reality none of the methods are working cuz abir doesn't like when mishti loses her cool and starts behaving like kuhu and mishti doesn't like when abir stops supporting her then ...they need to sit and find a balance first , this dynamics brings them back to the pre lockdown period ...if they want to sort this out, first they need to be a team , mishti should fit this in her mind that abir isn't doubting on her and abir should let it go sometimes and not comment on mishti's outbursts at kuhu cuz sometimes they are the need of the hour for her

Tell me one thing nandu? Aren't difference of opinions part of a married life ? Or your tag of "ideal" husband or wife only remains till they agree with each other on anything , do they have the right to express what they feel or not ?

Regarding abir being bashed 😆 That happens at at a drop of a hat by both the fandoms , so no surprises 😆

😊yay thankyou. I knew mere guruji would be on the same page as me🤗

Absolutely right Uru. Couldn't agree more with everything you've said.👏👏

Many people are annoyed at the fact that we are back to square 1 - back to March pre-lockdown situation. But frankly I don't mind, it's good they are getting address those issues - because like you said, Difference of opinions are part of married life. Mishbir pre-lockdown were not listening to each other properly, at least now we saw a good start/glimpse of that yesterday, they had a decently mature conversation about the first sister fight. They are starting to understand each other's difference in viewpoint, but are yet to figure out a solution to it. Which is perfectly fine. That's a natural phase of their early married life - learning to live together amidst a complicated family dynamic.

Arre yaar, hope you haven't made my mistake today and seen twitter🤪 It's almost world war 3 (don't know which number fight we are up to now actually), and again it is Abir vs Mishti.

Only a very few sensible log on twitter are sharing similar views to us here. Otherwise it's chaos again.

No surprises at all😛😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

😊yay thankyou. I knew mere guruji would be on the same page as me🤗

Absolutely right Uru. Couldn't agree more with everything you've said.👏👏

Many people are annoyed at the fact that we are back to square 1 - back to March pre-lockdown situation. But frankly I don't mind, it's good they are getting address those issues - because like you said, Difference of opinions are part of married life. Mishbir pre-lockdown were not listening to each other properly, at least now we saw a good start/glimpse of that yesterday, they had a decently mature conversation about the first sister fight. They are starting to understand each other's difference in viewpoint, but are yet to figure out a solution to it. Which is perfectly fine. That's a natural phase of their early married life - learning to live together amidst a complicated family dynamic.

Arre yaar, hope you haven't made my mistake today and seen twitter🤪 It's almost world war 3 (don't know which number fight we are up to now actually), and again it is Abir vs Mishti.

Only a very few sensible log on twitter are sharing similar views to us here. Otherwise it's chaos again.

No surprises at all😛😆

Twitter toh chod do. Waha toh balance sheet rehta hain abir aur mishti ka. But I am seriously feed up of dis sister fight. Koi logic nahi hain iska 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀ it's plain boring

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

I'm so happy to see you n Diyu together online😭🤗🤗🤗

Will regarding the episode........🤔😆 Kya bolu😆

Aye I didn't realise diya is also online 🤣🤣 aaj ka episode bakwas hi tha 😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

😊yay thankyou. I knew mere guruji would be on the same page as me🤗

Absolutely right Uru. Couldn't agree more with everything you've said.👏👏

Many people are annoyed at the fact that we are back to square 1 - back to March pre-lockdown situation. But frankly I don't mind, it's good they are getting address those issues - because like you said, Difference of opinions are part of married life. Mishbir pre-lockdown were not listening to each other properly, at least now we saw a good start/glimpse of that yesterday, they had a decently mature conversation about the first sister fight. They are starting to understand each other's difference in viewpoint, but are yet to figure out a solution to it. Which is perfectly fine. That's a natural phase of their early married life - learning to live together amidst a complicated family dynamic.

Arre yaar, hope you haven't made my mistake today and seen twitter🤪 It's almost world war 3 (don't know which number fight we are up to now actually), and again it is Abir vs Mishti.

Only a very few sensible log on twitter are sharing similar views to us here. Otherwise it's chaos again.

No surprises at all😛😆

It's me you and diya on the same page again 😆 pre lockdown feels aa Gaye 🤣

Absolutely nandu , abir are mishti have different kinds of ways with dealing with things, toh difference toh aana hi tha 😆 What I don't understand his why are ppl saying he is asking mishti to compromise ...when did he ? Maine kuch miss kiya kya episode mein 😆 I thought abir compromised his room and udd chala 😆

Lol no surprises there , IF mein abir bashing shuru Hui toh Twitter ke baare mein kya kehna 😆 vahan equality hai at least , mishti bashing bhi hoti hai 🤣

Originally posted by: Rashi23

I don't understand one thing, if abir is having so much problem with the sisters issue then why doesn't he pack his bags n take mishti with him n live separately.. Bhaisaab ko apna pyaara ghar chodna nhi hai par mishti se sorry bhulwana hai aur chahta hai ki woh bhi uske sath Bro ki pooja kare🤪 Wah.. Grand salute abir ko👏

Exactly yaar everything went down the drain since mishbir got married.. Kahan humne socha tha that we'd get to see mishbirs marital life n how they deal with the new changes in their life Aur kahan humein ye kuhumania dekhne mil raha hai😵

Rashi

If you don't mind me saying...

@Bold:

Let's just go back a week or two and see; Abir was ready to leave the RV house with Mishti (for her treatment), Abir has always been ready to leave the house with Mishti because he knows BB will never let them live in peace. But Mishti has always been skeptical, she's always been worried about her 'housebreaker tag', and never really been comfortable with living separately from the family. Yes deep-down neither does Abir want to live away from the family, but clearly he doesn't feel happy, at peace nor is his wife respected in that house, so he wants to give Mishti a better life. But time and time again he lets go of that idea, because Mishti herself feels it's not good for the family. So Abir also becomes complacent.

Similarly here, Mishti has been telling Abir since pre-lockdown fights, that she understands Kuhu better than him, she has been expressing her frustration and annoyance with Kuhu constantly blaming her for no reason. Before Abir wasn't ready to listen, and pushing Kuhu's behaviour as immature, but now we can see at least a slight improvement (yesterday's epi), he is clearly not asking Mishti to apologise, he knows she is right in her stance. But he too knows that simply fighting and yelling back at Kuhu doesn't solve the problem (he did his share with the blackmail letter). Plus he is still looking at this sister argument due to the magazine photoshoot mix-up. He is still looking at this as the cause to their outburst yesterday (that's why he says he can't be referee for them, when they fighting over such a trivial issue). This is something the sisters need handle without their husbands. It's actually an issue between the sisters and their parents (BP, BM & Varsha). The RV boys don't have anything to do with it. Neither are the RV boys experienced enough to handle or understand this complicated sister dynamic, neither are the elders addressing the root cause of the issue (childhood problems).

I'm sorry, but I don't agree with your opinion of Abir here at all.

I didn't mean to hurt you, just thought I'll share a different perspective with you.

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I don't deny the story has taken a huge hit and contuining to spiral around around ever since mishbir got married. I agree the writing has been inconsistent and poor, but there are little mercies in regards to mishbir and their characters, that I personally feel are still intact. They are two individual people, with the same pyaar wale heart. You cannot expect them to agree and be happy on everything, there will be difference of opinions.

xxx😊

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

I'm so happy to see you n Diyu together online😭🤗🤗🤗

Will regarding the episode........🤔😆 Kya bolu😆

Anuu!

Mein bhi hoon yaar😊🤗

kyu 😭 sad face?

episode ke baare mein nahi bolo tho accha haina?😆😛

There’s no sisters issue really, it’s Kuhu’s issues with Mishti! She’s the one who has the deep rooted hatred for Mishti which is illogical and venomous at times! Mishti on her part has forgiven Kuhu countless times and tried to be sisterly and affectionate towards her! But all she got in return was more hatred and jealousy

And yes, couples fight, argue, have differences of opinions but they don’t tolerate someone else repeatedly insult and abuse their significant other! That is abnormal ...to expect your spouse to resolve his or her issues with someone who has pathological problems with the spouse, who has been bullying and trying to harm for many years and the other spouse knows this! Kuhu cannot be reasoned with, she just needs self-attention and Mishti’s destruction!

Originally posted by: riya27

But what's the need to show that mishti is equally responsible for this mess

Y abir 🤔

Am hurt somewhere 🥺🥺

Mera bhi dil toota at what he said at Mah house

And all the Mahs are problem ki jadd are now scolding both girls as if both are at fault 😔