Yeh Rishtey Hain Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 21 Aug 2020 - Page 20

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Aww meri panda 🤗🤗 it's been so long we talked like this... 🤗❤️

Words rjv problem are much more sensible n real... Waha asli baat hoti hai... And it's for betterment of family each n every argument...

Exactly this kuhu is not able to move on... Even if she tries like the previous day n after shaadi when mish tried to cease-fire jas instigated n she is back to sq one... One major reason is the bad influence n kuhus self belief which is is not able to let go... Everyone treats it as bachpana too which is not right too.. this itself is having opposite effect on kuhu like she said in initial episode tum rou tho tumhara dard mai rou tho mera tantrum... kuhu needs to let go n try to start afresh with mishti... And mish needs to stop trying to cease fire it's not always her responsibility to do it even she is a child, a human... Let kuhu take the first step this time...

Diyu jaan🤗 haan yaar, I miss this soo much. tum bhi bohut busy hai, main bhi kabhi kabhi gayab ho jati hu😆 (btw tumhara exam finish hogay? All the best! PM karna)

haha haan, RV mein asli baat hoti hai👍🏼 Although they may do a lot of Mishti blaming or Abir yeh, Abir woh, but ultimately they are fighting for each other and for family benefit.

Haan that dialogue of kuhu allows us to see how not only the audience but even her own parents/family constantly put all her issues as childish (Which often they are, especially when she over-reacts or unnecessary blames Mishti), but there have been times, where she is rightfully upset, but the family hasn't bothered asking her or looking into her problem properly. That's why she ends up circling back to the same punching bag - Mishti ki wajse.

She isn't moving on because, no one is addressing her problem. They just keep pushing it away, covering it up or molly coddle her.

Yes, exactly, why does Mishti have to be the initiator to cease fire or apologise, when it's not even her fault this time especially. Let Kuhu be the one to take the first time (which I doubt will happen, she owning up to her mistake for the jhanki itself was a big improvement).

Originally posted by: Rashi23

I don't know, right now toh abir is saying that he isn't pressurising her.. But phir bhi itni jaldi kya hai.. Look we all know abir is now suddenly asking for a baby just after mishti's ptsd trauma bcoz they are bringing up this track, so if they want to go ahead with surrogacy so then they wud surely butcher his character.. It's normal in a dkp show, I won't get surprised.. Look aaj ka hi episode dekh lo abir is again behaving immaturely n is blaming mishti again for the fight so anything can happen in future.. Anyways now I'm not taking the show so seriously, bhoot utar gaya hai iss show ka mere sar se.. I'll just watch the show as a normal audience n forget everything.. Even my moto is POT 😆

Sahi kaha tumne, I also need to be Zen about this show

I have to give up my faith in Abir and his love for Mishti, I can see already CVs are going to ruin the beautiful character of Abir for the sake of TRPs

Should have known better than get attached to an ITV show, it started out so wonderful and unique and now became saas bahu Kuhu mania show 🤢

Issey achha Mishbir ki shadi nahin hoti aur dono boyfriend girlfriend hi rehtey

ITV shows mein everything gets ruined with marriage

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

🤣😲N finally🤬

My reaction today🤣

Coool!

coool Anu coool😎

kya kichdi bana diya haina?🤣🤪🤣

This episode is giving different type of delusion running in every direction. Kuhu needs help not from family members, only alone time and professional(not saying for mocking her) can help her. After getting scolding from Meenu, she is just repeating same things so her problems are deep rooted, no one can solve them.

Also no one is able to understand the root cause of the problem maybe except Meenu but today she lost her patience as her greatest fear came true. There two sons left their home due to their daughter-in-law. She have pride in their son's unity and family unity. I don't know how moving away might work because they are not solving the problem, maybe just brushing aside for time-being.

Abir and Kunal childhood is different. They both had a constant support system from Meenu and Parul too. Abir and Kunal doesn't tried hard to get people love and they didn't even know they are step-brothers and they had equal treatment from the young age. Well Kuhu and Mishti childhood is very different. Both had struggles and their family never tried to get any professional help as far the issues are concerned. I think Mah still lives in delusion that Kuhu is perfect and they can solve their own problem. Instead of Abir and kunal leaving home, they could have asked Kuhu to leave home lol.

Mishti please don't say sorry to Kuhu then process repeats again.

Best solution is both girls can leave home and live with their husbands in Mahs home lol. Let see how the Mahs family are solving these girls problem. Then Meenu is gonna blast everyone left, right, and center. Then only delusional Mah family will get some reality check.

All people living in CA, be safe. the fires as well as air quality is very bad. Hope this situation ends soon.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Abir has already established and confirmed to Mishti that he supports her and understands her viewpoint and why she reacted like so.

But haan, this brings back to that commotion pre-lockdown, where everyone bashed Abir for saying that Mishti har baat ke liye sirf ladna jaanti hai.

Abir knows his wifey is a fierce one and he thoroughly supports her fighting for her rights. And this time too he knows that she is right in her own stance. But the point is Abir was trying to say this pre-lockdown too, there are other ways to handle Kuhu and her tantrums. Which Abir is unable to figure out at the moment. As we can see the famil dynamics have just gotten worst, due to the sisters fighting.

There is still a slight difference in opinion between mishbir, which is natural.

I don't know if i made any sense. But these are my random thoughts.

xx

You made complete sense nandu 🤗 The difference lies in the way they wish to deal with kuhu, Mishti wants to be all out and abir wants to be the calmer one...in reality none of the methods are working cuz abir doesn't like when mishti loses her cool and starts behaving like kuhu and mishti doesn't like when abir stops supporting her then ...they need to sit and find a balance first , this dynamics brings them back to the pre lockdown period ...if they want to sort this out, first they need to be a team , mishti should fit this in her mind that abir isn't doubting on her and abir should let it go sometimes and not comment on mishti's outbursts at kuhu cuz sometimes they are the need of the hour for her

Tell me one thing nandu? Aren't difference of opinions part of a married life ? Or your tag of "ideal" husband or wife only remains till they agree with each other on anything , do they have the right to express what they feel or not ?

Regarding abir being bashed 😆 That happens at at a drop of a hat by both the fandoms , so no surprises 😆

Originally posted by: Su94

He knows from experience that everytime Meenu interferes, she brings about the end of the world. Does he seriously think that this is the only way to resolve this? A 2012 situation(the movie) 😂 😂

So the solution is letting Meenu scare/blackmail MishKu (and BP) so they'll shut up and increase their bitterness?

Don't know that 😆 this is just our assumption...that might not be his plan , at the moment there might not be any plan also, I would like to see him talking with BP and BM ans trying to figure out about the messy sis dynamics

The problem is no one understands this sis issues in the show to the T so how will they find the solution, meenu can understand very well but she won't let abir find a solution

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Don't know that 😆 this is just our assumption...that might not be his plan , at the moment there might not be any plan also, I would like to see him talking with BP and BM ans trying to figure out about the messy sis dynamics

The problem is no one understands this sis issues in the show to the T so how will they find the solution, meenu can understand very well but she won't let abir find a solution

I'm so happy to see you n Diyu together online😭🤗🤗🤗

Will regarding the episode........🤔😆 Kya bolu😆

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Sahi kaha tumne, I also need to be Zen about this show

I have to give up my faith in Abir and his love for Mishti, I can see already CVs are going to ruin the beautiful character of Abir for the sake of TRPs

Should have known better than get attached to an ITV show, it started out so wonderful and unique and now became saas bahu Kuhu mania show 🤢

Issey achha Mishbir ki shadi nahin hoti aur dono boyfriend girlfriend hi rehtey

ITV shows mein everything gets ruined with marriage

I don't understand one thing, if abir is having so much problem with the sisters issue then why doesn't he pack his bags n take mishti with him n live separately.. Bhaisaab ko apna pyaara ghar chodna nhi hai par mishti se sorry bhulwana hai aur chahta hai ki woh bhi uske sath Bro ki pooja kare🤪 Wah.. Grand salute abir ko👏

Exactly yaar everything went down the drain since mishbir got married.. Kahan humne socha tha that we'd get to see mishbirs marital life n how they deal with the new changes in their life Aur kahan humein ye kuhumania dekhne mil raha hai😵

Originally posted by: Rashi23

I don't understand one thing, if abir is having so much problem with the sisters issue then why doesn't he pack his bags n take mishti with him n live separately.. Bhaisaab ko apna pyaara ghar chodna nhi hai par mishti se sorry bhulwana hai aur chahta hai ki woh bhi uske sath Bro ki pooja kare🤪 Wah.. Grand salute abir ko👏

Exactly yaar everything went down the drain since mishbir got married.. Kahan humne socha tha that we'd get to see mishbirs marital life n how they deal with the new changes in their life Aur kahan humein ye kuhumania dekhne mil raha hai😵

All ITV shows destroy couples after marriage

They don’t know how to write about post marital life 😆

Unko Yeh pata nahin that husband and wife can have hundreds of fights and arguments but they won’t tolerate anyone else insulting or abusing their spouse!

No, that is not acceptable to couples who love and respect each other!

Originally posted by: pallavi25

All ITV shows destroy couples after marriage

They don’t know how to write about post marital life 😆

Unko Yeh pata nahin that husband and wife can have hundreds of fights and arguments but they won’t tolerate anyone else insulting or abusing their spouse!

No, that is not acceptable to couples who love and respect each other!

But RS knows this.. He has been handling this thing since a decade.. The way they have shown the marital life and problems that Akshara naitik n varsha shaurya faced was so good.. Even kairas marital life was shown but mishbir se hi problem hai inhe.. Even I want to see mishbirs nok jhok, fights n the problems they face (not this kuhu problem) but we aren't getting anything.. And now all of a sudden we are getting a pregnancy /surrogacy track 🤪