AbiNal need to understand that KuShti are not like them! - Page 2

Originally posted by: joypallavi

Devyani mishti's grandmother is a divorcee and her first husband is also not a good person that's why singhania allowed naman and his sister to stay with them naitik is not too much fund of naman but still due to humanity he allowed naman to join there family buisness and even trained him there was a time when naitik and akshra boycott from the family that time naman take care of whole buisness but when they returned naman backstabbed the singhania's . Technically mishti doesn't belong to singhania's also and all the wealth belongs to singhania's not agarwal's .

coming to agarwal's.. naman's father is a rich person but not good with his wife but nutured naman and his sister with all luxuries... so even if mishti is not singhania and she dont have right on singhnia wealth then naman's father wealth pe tho hain and even he is rich...

they sent mishti too MAH because naman want to enter singhania's using mishti so to protect mishti they sent her...

You made a post on this!😲 🤗

I agree with everything you said.. The brothers don't see the backstory and I don't blame them either. All they know is based on conversations they've seen and heard a verbal affirmation from Kuhu that she hates Mishti and from Mishti that Kuhu hates her. For them to resolve the issue and maintain peace they have to have a conversation with them as to why they don't like each other. And only then they can help.

Calling one mature and the other childish will just be like a repeast telecast of Maheshwaris.

Originally posted by: peacenfun

Oh it did not let me quote you...oh well, let me see if I remember...

Yes for the first time both brothers realised the enemity between the sisters are deeper than imagined...today we saw some foreshadowing, the regret Abir felt in siding with Kuhu...it will please Mishbir fans to know he now sees Kuhu very clearly and is almost disgusted by her. Kuhu, if she still wants her Abir bro's love and approval will have to work hard. Q is, will she or is her hatred to bring Mishti down is stronger?!🤓❓

Abir cannot direct Kunal to heal Kuhu - in terms of story that does not make sense. Her healing has to come from her, she has to finally decide once and for all whether to heal or not, to keep in the part or move forward. So when she see's the result of her actions on everyone that will be the time for her redeem or finally go to the dark side. For either of that to happen, she has to lose something very precious to her - or be in the verge of losing - whether it is Kunal, varsha or Mishti...will have to see how the writers play out.

Neither can Kunal heal Kuhu with his love. She has that yet not satisfied as her eyes is always somewhere else.... She always hungers for more...that need/flaw has to be addressed....He can show her the mirror but she has to be open to it and currently she is in no mood for that. But Kunal will be a strong pillar, she may go against him...

Separation will not be immediate...but emotional separation is on it's way - see my threads, where I talked about various way this can swing now because few things are ending before new ones can emerge.

That red mark (are you talking about the thali mishti steps in and splashes on her face?)...I mentioned a lot about Kuhu's own action will ultimately leave her alone and in some ways will mark her...the red mark symbolises that.

I think we all agree that mishku equation is messed up. It’s basically added resentments if so many years. Kuhu keeps remembering all the apparent neglect she had to suffer bcoz of mishti .. for example the doll incident. Does that mean she was the only one to adjust or sacrifice?? Is her version 100% correct.. or is her version that BM /BP neglected her a distorted version??

We always see things the same way we want to, unless. Someone we respect, love or someone qualified shows us the reality. And kuhu is far away from reality. That does not mean she is not suffering or her issues are not real. abinal fails to understand that.

I also don’t understand that how come even after kuhu cools down she doesn’t realize how far she goes with her words and actions when mishti is concerned?? A human being will feel remorse and will apologize when the heat of the moment cools down.. but I have never seen her apologizing. This is not humane.And Now this madness is spilling away to abir as well

Like how kuhu is not happy with anything mishti does

If she works in kunal company then she is trying to undermine kunal

If she takes the ownership of the company she ya taking away kunal’s hard work

If she gives back the company it is bcoz she is a freeloaderabd wants to eat angoor with her freeloader husband

So kuhu herself doesn’t know what she is upset about and what she wants

And when kunal married her as a revenge, it was mishti’s fault

When kunal acknowledges Parul, it is mishti’s fault

Can she ever show anger at the right person?? If kunal consulted mishti or abir it was wrong of kunal that he didn’t talk to kuhu but kuhu again blames mishti.

she needs counseling and all these people are not seeing the ticking time bomb that is kuhu .

so there is no way mishti or anyone can resolve issues with kuhu as she has a deep rooted mental problem where she sees herself as a victim and mishti as her tormented. She definitely needs professional help, a shrink basically

Sometimes I also feel kuhu has a kind of stockholm syndrom( it’s not exactly this term but I don’t know the proper term)

When she was in a sham marriage, she should have been mad at kunal and meenu but she didn’t or couldnt( dunno why?? Is is inferiority complex??) so she vent out on her own person— mishti

Even now, after the divorce thing is apparently resolved but is it really resolved?? She should be angry on kunal but she channelize her anger on mishti

This makes me feel that she wanted to be accepted by Varsha and maheshwaris and rajvansh so she is extra good to them as she didn’t wanna upset them and so she blows off on mishti. It is low self esteem. Kunal has to make her feel loved and give her professional psychiatric help.

Great post this.