#Friends to #Partners KuKu AT 2 - Page 34

I just realized I spammed the AT with my replies. Sorry guys!

Originally posted by: nami2811

I just realized I spammed the AT with my replies. Sorry guys!

That's cool. More for us to talk about.

Originally posted by: nami2811

Nikki 😭

I'm okay with Maami blaming Parul but what's with Kunal and Kuhu? Kunal was supposed to be warming up to Parul. Wish he would at least not believe in the claims. But then Nidhi also struck the right chord saying she might've done this for Kunal so it's kind of believable. Abir would've never believed it though. And Kuhu might've stayed back remembering Jas's bail ki bakri comment. So Parul is the bakri now 😒

What are they doing?!

I had no problem with Maami blaming Parul or even Kunal blaming Parul. I think their relationship is still very fragile and I think Kunal will regret it big time when the truth comes out. I think this will bring Parul n Kunal bring closer in long run and make them stronger. So I am kind of glad that Kunal misunderstood Parul because their relationship was not developing further since the jail scene. (Plus it gives Kunal’s character something to do other than running after his brother) But because Kunal ended up saying those hurtful things to Parul because of kuhu’s inability to reveal the truth, this will end up hurting KuKu’s relationship more.

I know that Kuhu is afraid of losing her relationships over this sleeping pills fiasco but this is very low for the character especially because Parul has never been anything but nice to her. If Kuhu still blames Mishti for everything even after blame goes to Parul or doesn’t feel guilty whole heartedly, I believe the writers will have to make a lot of effort to redeem Kuhu and bring her back from this. I am tired of the Kuhu’s character’s inconsistencies. I can understand her character’s motivation when she is miffed with Mishti or when she is rude to her or wants Mishti to stay away from her life but this version of Kuhu is not someone I can understand or relate with.

I just hope that this is the last mistake that writers make Kuhu do in Mishti VS Kuhu war. Kuhu should seriously think about her actions and how it is affecting her loved ones after this. Maybe she could go to her Mom’s place to clear her head. ( But again Jas will be there to furthur take advantage of Kuhu’s insecurities, so not sure what good Kuhu going to Maheshwories would do 😔)

Originally posted by: nami2811

I love the lyrics! ❤️ I've listened to this track a million times on loop 😆 It's a beautiful song especially the flute like music is so good..

The flute parts in all of the songs is so good!! I especially love the flute part in the instrumental portion plays in background of some scenes. I don't think it's a part of any particular soundtrack. I guess it's just part of the score.

But you didn't answer the question I asked. What do you guys think of the analysis of the lyrics??

Originally posted by: Nikki_wanderer

I had no problem with Maami blaming Parul or even Kunal blaming Parul. I think their relationship is still very fragile and I think Kunal will regret it big time when the truth comes out. I think this will bring Parul n Kunal bring closer in long run and make them stronger. So I am kind of glad that Kunal misunderstood Parul because their relationship was not developing further since the jail scene. (Plus it gives Kunal’s character something to do other than running after his brother) But because Kunal ended up saying those hurtful things to Parul because of kuhu’s inability to reveal the truth, this will end up hurting KuKu’s relationship more.

I know that Kuhu is afraid of losing her relationships over this sleeping pills fiasco but this is very low for the character especially because Parul has never been anything but nice to her. If Kuhu still blames Mishti for everything even after blame goes to Parul or doesn’t feel guilty whole heartedly, I believe the writers will have to make a lot of effort to redeem Kuhu and bring her back from this. I am tired of the Kuhu’s character’s inconsistencies. I can understand her character’s motivation when she is miffed with Mishti or when she is rude to her or wants Mishti to stay away from her life but this version of Kuhu is not someone I can understand or relate with.

I just hope that this is the last mistake that writers make Kuhu do in Mishti VS Kuhu war. Kuhu should seriously think about her actions and how it is affecting her loved ones after this. Maybe she could go to her Mom’s place to clear her head. ( But again Jas will be there to furthur take advantage of Kuhu’s insecurities, so not sure what good Kuhu going to Maheshwaris would do 😔)

I disagree. I actually think her behaviour is consistent to what we have been shown till now. I explained my reason for thinking so in the post after the lyrics one.

Coming to her motivations, sadly I understand freezing up like that all too well. I have suffered from anxiety and depression (still recovering), and my anxiety was majorly governed by my fear. And I can tell you from personal experience that fear renders you useless and speechless until the only option you have left is to breakdown from all the stress. Thinking back to it is enough to shut down my brain for a few seconds. So, I get what Kuhu is going through. I know the mental health aspect will never be discussed on the show because stigma and all those things. But the natural progression from this scene would be her crying and hopefully apologizing but mostly punishing herself mentally for even having the thought of spiking the coffee.

Self berating is the worst thing you can do to yourself and if you add Mishti having a private conversation with her and forcing her to do things jinka end result will be losing people she loves, I shudder to think of what she might be going through on the inside.

For Kuhu to come out of this behaviour, she needs someone who she can talk to without the fear of being judged and someone who would honestly try to take care of her, and..and..and, realistically speaking, therapy and journalling and some alone time from all the toxicity.

Originally posted by: aquaHP

The flute parts in all of the songs is so good!! I especially love the flute part in the instrumental portion plays in background of some scenes. I don't think it's a part of any particular soundtrack. I guess it's just part of the score.

But you didn't answer the question I asked. What do you guys think of the analysis of the lyrics??

Pihu I had written a long post in reply for the analysis ( I even used up the few minutes that I get in the morning when my kid takes a nap 😆) but when I posted it I got a message saying server error. I hate IF sometimes. I will not be able to write the whole thing again 😭

Firstly thanks for the lyrics Pihu. I love this song (both male and female version). I think coming to the Analysis that you posted I think the topic maker had done a great job relating the song to Kuhu's situation to the storyline during that time (around 8 months ago). That was the time when Kuhu was madly in love with Kunal and wanted Kunal in her life at any cost. I think the meaning that she posted of the word Bekhudi was quite interesting too.

On an unrelated note: I will be forever bitter that we didn't get a proper divorce track for KuKu. I would have loved to see the Bekhudi male version played when Kunal was pining for Kuhu. 💔

I would love to read you take on the lyrics too Pihu.

Quick post because I haven't watched today's episode, yet... May be I will do the clips at some point.

Kuhu is not thinking like she did earlier. I can see why... she sees a repeat of her childhood about to be telecast. Years of unfair adjustment(in her opinion) that the Maheshwaris had been overlooking, turning a convenient blind eye towards any ruffles in the sisters' relationship - even to the day of their wedding. A part of her wants to employ saam daam dand bhed to ward that off and is repenting it ofcourse. Everything around her just re-emphasises what she has experienced time and again. From explaining things away to this gradual loss of self respect💔, it will be interesting arc to watch. The way I see it, she refuses to be the Urmila of this story😲

I can however see how Kunal has to now work with Kuhu because so far he hasn't given redemptive speeches even. So lets see if he will put in the work and understand (which does not always mean excuse) where Kuhu is coming from and stop her from going there again? Or does he think his job is done once he has expressed that he wants Kuhu in his life?

PS: Kaveri is unmatchable in the emotional sequences.👏

Originally posted by: Nikki_wanderer

I had no problem with Maami blaming Parul or even Kunal blaming Parul. I think their relationship is still very fragile and I think Kunal will regret it big time when the truth comes out. I think this will bring Parul n Kunal bring closer in long run and make them stronger. So I am kind of glad that Kunal misunderstood Parul because their relationship was not developing further since the jail scene. (Plus it gives Kunal’s character something to do other than running after his brother) But because Kunal ended up saying those hurtful things to Parul because of kuhu’s inability to reveal the truth, this will end up hurting KuKu’s relationship more.

I know that Kuhu is afraid of losing her relationships over this sleeping pills fiasco but this is very low for the character especially because Parul has never been anything but nice to her. If Kuhu still blames Mishti for everything even after blame goes to Parul or doesn’t feel guilty whole heartedly, I believe the writers will have to make a lot of effort to redeem Kuhu and bring her back from this. I am tired of the Kuhu’s character’s inconsistencies. I can understand her character’s motivation when she is miffed with Mishti or when she is rude to her or wants Mishti to stay away from her life but this version of Kuhu is not someone I can understand or relate with.

I just hope that this is the last mistake that writers make Kuhu do in Mishti VS Kuhu war. Kuhu should seriously think about her actions and how it is affecting her loved ones after this. Maybe she could go to her Mom’s place to clear her head. ( But again Jas will be there to furthur take advantage of Kuhu’s insecurities, so not sure what good Kuhu going to Maheshwories would do 😔)

Ooh I like this perspective of Kunal and maasi.. I feel better now.

I agree with Jas spoiling her brains if she's in Maheshwari house.. But again I'd like her character to become more mature and not give in to brainwashes.. she should have a mind of her own..

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Quick post because I haven't watched today's episode, yet... May be I will do the clips at some point.

Kuhu is not thinking like she did earlier. I can see why... she sees a repeat of her childhood about to be telecast. Years of unfair adjustment(in her opinion) that the Maheshwaris had been overlooking, turning a convenient blind eye towards any ruffles in the sisters' relationship - even to the day of their wedding. A part of her wants to employ saam daam dand bhed to ward that off and is repenting it ofcourse. Everything around her just re-emphasises what she has experienced time and again. From explaining things away to this gradual loss of self respect💔, it will be interesting arc to watch. The way I see it, she refuses to be the Urmila of this story😲

I can however see how Kunal has to now work with Kuhu because so far he hasn't given redemptive speeches even. So lets see if he will put in the work and understand (which does not always mean excuse) where Kuhu is coming from and stop her from going there again? Or does he think his job is done once he has expressed that he wants Kuhu in his life?

PS: Kaveri is unmatchable in the emotional sequences.👏

Talk about redemption speech

He conveniently forgot what has happened in the past. I can get it that he's trying to take her out and all but again that was because of Abir's constant push. Im gonna say this again both Kuhu and Kunal should start behaving like adults and use their own brains and not get influenced easily.

Okay I'm done with my rant. Maybe I should take a break. Probably being too negative. Sorry guys but I didn't mean to sound rude.

Originally posted by: aquaHP

I disagree. I actually think her behaviour is consistent to what we have been shown till now. I explained my reason for thinking so in the post after the lyrics one.

Coming to her motivations, sadly I understand freezing up like that all too well. I have suffered from anxiety and depression (still recovering), and my anxiety was majorly governed by my fear. And I can tell you from personal experience that fear renders you useless and speechless until the only option you have left is to breakdown from all the stress. Thinking back to it is enough to shut down my brain for a few seconds. So, I get what Kuhu is going through. I know the mental health aspect will never be discussed on the show because stigma and all those things. But the natural progression from this scene would be her crying and hopefully apologizing but mostly punishing herself mentally for even having the thought of spiking the drink.

Self berating is the worst thing you can do to yourself and if you add Mishti having a private conversation with her and forcing her to do things jinka end result will be losing people she loves, I shudder to think of what she might be going through on the inside.

For Kuhu to come out of this behaviour, she needs someone who she can talk to without the fear of being judged and someone who would honestly try to take care of her, and..and..and, realistically speaking, therapy and journalling and some alone time from all the toxicity.

Pihu I am sorry about your personal struggles with anxiety and depression. I know that dealing with the situation cannot be an easy task. ❤️

When I was referring to the character inconsistency, I was referring to the way writers write her character. I understand what you said about why Kuhu behaves or freezing up in the situations that in comes in front of her but I feel writers don't think that deeply when they write her scenes and I have a problem with that.

I understand that Kuhu was crippled by the fear of losing her loved ones so she could not reveal the truth. But in the precap yesterday, she says that she wanted Mishti to drink that coffee so he put the sleeping pills in the coffee, which is not consistent with what we saw in the episode. She had no real intention of putting it in Mishti's coffee but the pill just fell from her hand and landed in one of the coffee. But when she tells this to Mishti, Kuhu tells like she actually intended to give her the spiked coffee. That was the inconsistency I was talking about. I may be wrong because precaps are often misleading but I do feel Kuhu's character lacks consistency and I feel like writers just forget what she said in one episode and make her say something else in the next episode.