Give some respect to the celebrities

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Posted: 5 years ago
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People have to know that celebrities are also humans. Not public property that you say what ever you feel. We don't have any right to comment any actor personally, compare one with another, continuously putting negative comments about that person and all. Guys, think one second before commenting about any actor negatively in social media or open forum. If by chance, these actors come here and see all comments made by people here on them negatively, what will be their inner feelings and what emotions go through in their mind. Any body can take criticism positively to some extent only. If that limit crossed, there could be possible that they affected and go through mental trauma.

So, give some respect and personal space to the celebrities.

P.S: I am saying this to all twitter, Instagram and open forum people.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I agree people cross the line on personal comments but its a forum and one has to be given the right to express themselves - freedom of speech. There cannot be always a shutyomouth if you dare question a celebrity even once which is frankly the case with most TV forums on IF sadly. Go to reddit and other websites then you guys will know truly how brutal people can be. There cannot be policing and tip toeing all the time. IF is different because it is heavily moderated but the point of forums is to be able to discuss anything related to the show...

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Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

I agree people cross the line on personal comments but its a forum and one has to be given the right to express themselves - freedom of speech. There cannot be always a shutyomouth if you dare question a celebrity even once which is frankly the case with most TV forums on IF sadly. Go to reddit and other websites then you guys will know truly how brutal people can be. There cannot be policing and tip toeing all the time. IF is different because it is heavily moderated but the point of forums is to be able to discuss anything related to the show...


We can discuss what ever related to the show. There is no problem in discussing about show and acting of actors. But some times people crosses that thin line and put personal comments on celebrities. It is very sad. These things are happening in twitter, Instagram and some times in IF also. I saw one thread in this fandom some 2 months back, in that thread, some people discussed about Dipika's husband Shoaib, her in- laws, her previous show intimate and romantic scenes, her husband position in industry, financial status and all. That thread crossed all the limits. Some fans shared that link in twitter also and bashed those people in twitter. That thread was disgusting.

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Originally posted by: Sree_mk


We can discuss what ever related to the show. There is no problem in discussing about show and acting of actors. But some times people crosses that thin line and put personal comments on celebrities. It is very sad. These things are happening in twitter, Instagram and some times in IF also. I saw one thread in this fandom some 2 months back, in that thread, some people discussed about Dipika's husband Shoaib, her in- laws, her previous show intimate and romantic scenes, her husband position in industry, financial status and all. That thread crossed all the limits. Some fans shared that link in twitter also and bashed those people in twitter. That thread was disgusting.


I agree and I too posted in that thread. It did cross a line somewhere I won't disagree. But the opposite is also true that if you dare question Dipika or Karan there are people saying they are human they are this they are that. Arey its a show and its a forum, and if you cannot openly discuss topics then this should be a fan club page.

I am just highlighting that man that is what happens in forums, go to BW forums, its a place for discussion but yes comments do delve into personal lives, its not only about movie reviews. I wont say BB because its a reality show so everything is game.

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See all I have to say is stop being sensitive. Dipika could have gotten emotional about a lot of other things too. When people decide to embrace fame, they also have to embrace the unpleasant aspects of it too. Only the actors who remain in sight remain in mind. I am sure celebs are not too thrilled about sharing their personal space but they have to. Because they thrive on fandom. Y else do u think people like us, the common folks don't wish to even divulge our identities in a public platform like IF. Y is it? That's because we don't want to compromise our personal space and we don't have to. But that's not the case with celebs. Y do u think they earn the way they do? That's because they are deliberately making their private life public. Please don't tell me Dipika or any other actor loves their fans so much that they are sharing their lives with us. No. They are doing it because it keeps them fresh in their audience minds ensuring their popularity. There is no dearth for popular talented stars but the only ones who survive are the ones who are active on SM. Take Harshad Chopda for instance. He won accolades for his role in BP but after BP he is nowhere to be seen. He is a private person but sadly that works against him. So please don't waste your sympathy on celebs. They want to be in news all the time, no matter whether in a good way or a bad way. Everything u see on TV could be fake or exaggerated. That's y u see celebs proposing each other on TV, indulging in excessive PDA coz audience is desperate to see this so called nonsense chemistry. That fetches channel and shows TRPs and they cash in on it. There are so many couples who seem to be in a relationship when a show is on but they break soon after. Y do u think that's the case? They just want to be in news and get fans to get emotionally connected to them so that their popularity on SM increases. Sadly fans get carried away and start behaving like as if the celeb is their own friend or family. Stop investing ur energy on them. They r just people like u and me at the end. And yes if u have some segment of fans who shower love on them like idiots by spending their hard earned money or worse - their parents hard earned money to buy them expensive gifts, u will also have one segment of audience who will not like them for XYZ reasons. They know how to deal with it.

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Originally posted by: Sree_mk


We can discuss what ever related to the show. There is no problem in discussing about show and acting of actors. But some times people crosses that thin line and put personal comments on celebrities. It is very sad. These things are happening in twitter, Instagram and some times in IF also. I saw one thread in this fandom some 2 months back, in that thread, some people discussed about Dipika's husband Shoaib, her in- laws, her previous show intimate and romantic scenes, her husband position in industry, financial status and all. That thread crossed all the limits. Some fans shared that link in twitter also and bashed those people in twitter. That thread was disgusting.

celebrities share their persona llife in instagram .so people have right to comment their personal life ...but not use bad words

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Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

See all I have to say is stop being sensitive. Dipika could have gotten emotional about a lot of other things too. When people decide to embrace fame, they also have to embrace the unpleasant aspects of it too. Only the actors who remain in sight remain in mind. I am sure celebs are not too thrilled about sharing their personal space but they have to. Because they thrive on fandom. Y else do u think people like us, the common folks don't wish to even divulge our identities in a public platform like IF. Y is it? That's because we don't want to compromise our personal space and we don't have to. But that's not the case with celebs. Y do u think they earn the way they do? That's because they are deliberately making their private life public. Please don't tell me Dipika or any other actor loves their fans so much that they are sharing their lives with us. No. They are doing it because it keeps them fresh in their audience minds ensuring their popularity. There is no dearth for popular talented stars but the only ones who survive are the ones who are active on SM. Take Harshad Chopda for instance. He won accolades for his role in BP but after BP he is nowhere to be seen. He is a private person but sadly that works against him. So please don't waste your sympathy on celebs. They want to be in news all the time, no matter whether in a good way or a bad way. Everything u see on TV could be fake or exaggerated. That's y u see celebs proposing each other on TV, indulging in excessive PDA coz audience is desperate to see this so called nonsense chemistry. That fetches channel and shows TRPs and they cash in on it. There are so many couples who seem to be in a relationship when a show is on but they break soon after. Y do u think that's the case? They just want to be in news and get fans to get emotionally connected to them so that their popularity on SM increases. Sadly fans get carried away and start behaving like as if the celeb is their own friend or family. Stop investing ur energy on them. They r just people like u and me at the end. And yes if u have some segment of fans who shower love on them like idiots by spending their hard earned money or worse - their parents hard earned money to buy them expensive gifts, u will also have one segment of audience who will not like them for XYZ reasons. They know how to deal with it.



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exactly they share their personal life nad we should not comment on their personal life

what sort of logic

but no one should use bad words .other than that we have right to discuss about their personal life

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Though they are celebrities they are also human. Sometimes it gets too much

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I also had a lot of questions regarding how the FL behaved.Actors are always in the public eye and they want to make themselves visible to stay relevant. But then i am thinking celebrities behavior may depend on their personalities. May be the FL is not outgoing like her co actors. The people who we see BTS are all loud, outgoing people having fun. It may be a little hard for everybody to be like them. Extroverts know how to make themselves visible all the time. May be we shouldn't get into over analyzing . Let them be..It was a good show with great actors. Enjoy while it lasts... We may get better shows in future.



I may sound philosophical, but let them be who they are. Live and let live. 😃

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Originally posted by: ajacob31

I also had a lot of questions regarding how the FL behaved.Actors are always in the public eye and they want to make themselves visible to stay relevant. But then i am thinking celebrities behavior may depend on their personalities. May be the FL is not outgoing like her co actors. The people who we see BTS are all loud, outgoing people having fun. It may be a little hard for everybody to be like them. Extroverts know how to make themselves visible all the time. May be we shouldn't get into over analyzing . Let them be..It was a good show with great actors. Enjoy while it lasts... We may get better shows in future.



I may sound philosophical, but let them be who they are. Live and let live. 😃

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