For Sana fans only ! - Page 2

Well, I am not her fan but I guess, her fans like her for her other qualities. It's same like Rashmi fans liked Rashmi but disliked Arhaan, many Asim fans like Asim but dislike Asimanshi. Many people don't like a particular equation with someone but like them with others. SidNaaz is put so much into her head that she is not able to get out of that. She needs time and space to think which in that house isn't possible. She will get to realise right things about her when she comes out.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I won't comment on your liking of Sana.

But I don't believe in the last para. It's not true. See there is something called the butterfly effect. It means if you remove even one tiny thing from its place in the universe.......all the equations and possibilities change in ways you can't predict. So I don't believe one single person is responsible for the show. You never know how the things would hv worked if Sana wasn't a part of BB. It couldn't hv been worse or it could hv been better.....dts unpredictable.

Lets agree to disagree then..

You have your pov, I have mine.. Because so far only she had me laugh/smile in this show, hence i like to consider as a reason to watch the show😳

And

I never started liking her due to anybody, so would i hate her because of anyone else..

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I agree wid the empathy thing. Most of us ....even non fans have shown empathy towards her but don't you think after a point you just can't. I personally can no more empathize wid a person who wouldn't stand for her own self.

I am not saying you shouldn't just dt I can't. I can't keep looking at her as a victim for so long.

More than anger it's pure disappointment from my side.

Again forgive me but I am copy pasting what I wrote elsewhere-

It's easy to blame people in such situations but what they need is empathy and the knowledge that they will be supported whenever they decide to move out of this situation.

It's not easy for Sana - most of us Sana fans were once in love with Sidnaaz, we moved on but think of the person who actually lived through those emotions and who is still told by the BB universe and her own family that you should stay on - it's not easy .

It 's easy for us to talk about self- respect because we are not the one's stuck in that situation.

I started watching the show coz of Sana and then SidNaaz happened. I absolutely loved them together and their cute antics would always bring a smile on my face. Even though I shipped them together, I never believed they’re in love though. I see it exactly as what they say - an attachment. They’re emotionally involved with each other and I understand that. Then very quickly things changed and Sid started being a jerk. I don’t appreciate the way Sana goes back to him time and time again without him genuinely being sorry about things but at this point, I have accepted that this will happen. Sometimes as much as we want a friend to not stay in a relationship, it’s best to let them learn on their own, make mistakes and figure things out for themselves. I think as fans what we can do is be there for her through this journey of self love. Of course I get massively annoyed and tbh, I just skip those scenes now but I also understand where she is coming from. I understand that we as a society don’t get the concept of boundaries so many of us don’t have any. I used to be really judgemental of girls like her but I know better not to now.

I also wanna make a very important point here. Mixed signals are a thing and they genuinely confuse people, enough for them to not see things clearly or know for sure what’s happening. Sid does give mixed signals. He pushes her away and pulls her back. It can be very hard in that house to get clarity and decide accordingly so she does what she knows best and what has worked for her. She needs attention which only Sid gives so she has no other option than to go back. I’m okay with whatever she does or says in the show now.
I just hope she understands things better once outside and if Sid n her are to stay in touch, Sid too understands where he was wrong and is good to her.

Originally posted by: dahibhalle

Again forgive me but I am copy pasting what I wrote elsewhere-

It's easy to blame people in such situations but what they need is empathy and the knowledge that they will be supported whenever they decide to move out of this situation.

It's not easy for Sana - most of us Sana fans were once in love with Sidnaaz, we moved on but think of the person who actually lived through those emotions and who is still told by the BB universe and her own family that you should stay on - it's not easy .

It 's easy for us to talk about self- respect because we are not the one's stuck in that situation.

I had already read your post when you originally posted it.

But I don't agree. Self respect is made and sustained. No it's not easy to talk about self respect. Most of us hv given enough leeway to Sana over dis. Having your self respect intact is a choice....it might be a difficult one but it's not dt hard. I may not be in Sana's position but I don't believe she has to keep up wid such shit throwing away her own respect .

People had been stuck in worse situations in real life and hv chose to respect themselves rather than bowing out. So no Sana is not the only one who is stuck in a situation where she can't rise above it of she chose to .

Originally posted by: Bee93

I started watching the show coz of Sana and then SidNaaz happened. I absolutely loved them together and their cute antics would always bring a smile on my face. Even though I shipped them together, I never believed they’re in love though. I see it exactly as what they say - an attachment. They’re emotionally involved with each other and I understand that. Then very quickly things changed and Sid started being a jerk. I don’t appreciate the way Sana goes back to him time and time again without him genuinely being sorry about things but at this point, I have accepted that this will happen. Sometimes as much as we want a friend to not stay in a relationship, it’s best to let them learn on their own, make mistakes and figure things out for themselves. I think as fans what we can do is be there for her through this journey of self love. Of course I get massively annoyed and tbh, I just skip those scenes now but I also understand where she is coming from. I understand that we as a society don’t get the concept of boundaries so many of us don’t have any. I used to be really judgemental of girls like her but I know better not to now.

I also wanna make a very important point here. Mixed signals are a thing and they genuinely confuse people, enough for them to not see things clearly or know for sure what’s happening. Sid does give mixed signals. He pushes her away and pulls her back. It can be very hard in that house to get clarity and decide accordingly so she does what she knows best and what has worked for her. She needs attention which only Sid gives so she has no other option than to go back. I’m okay with whatever she does or says in the show now.
I just hope she understands things better once outside and if Sid n her are to stay in touch, Sid too understands where he was wrong and is good to her.

Very well put perspective. I actually like it.

I agree sometimes even when we know dt our near one are making a mistake we can't help dem out. We hv to let dem experience it and deal wid it.

It's a new pov and refreshing to read.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I won't comment on your liking of Sana.

But I don't believe in the last para. It's not true. See there is something called the butterfly effect. It means if you remove even one tiny thing from its place in the universe.......all the equations and possibilities change in ways you can't predict. So I don't believe one single person is responsible for the show. You never know how the things would hv worked if Sana wasn't a part of BB. It couldn't hv been worse or it could hv been better.....dts unpredictable.

We already know who sana was before entering bb....have seen enough videos of her. India forums also posted a video of a girl who is common friends with hk and sana and told about the adventures sana has.

Which fan does thing to a celeb the way sana behaved with Gautam Gulati ??

This week itself i saw sana laughing and talking to Sid giving maa ki galiya...in fun....

Are women like that ?

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

What I want to understand is that is she like this in real life or is this just for game? If she is like this in real life then I agree with you more than judgement and empathy she needs help , real help. Some one to help her understand that she doesn’t need to take all this shit and crap. But I feel she isn’t like this in real life. In real life she would have kicked Shukla out long time ago. This is just because of game and stupid Sidnaaz angle promotion.

One of things I have realised following her as a fan is that she is as real as it gets- her unfiltered takes on everything is the bane of every Sana fan.

Being in this show is being in an artificial situation and not anywhere near real life - in one of the unseens she was talking about her false eviction and how the moment the door opened for her and she almost stepped out, her mind set immediately changed.

I don't think any sane woman would be ok with Sid in real life as well if this is how he behaves outside the BB house. Having said that I honestly think and have thought for a while now that Sid is also at the end of his tether.

India forum posted a video where this girl was telling how sana goes to foreign trips with uncles.

Seeing her desperation for Sid .....again proved her behaviour...

All the confusing talks she does.....when she doesn't have anything to counter blames ....

Yeah people fall for that ...

She is never confused when she puts her points forward most of the time.

There are less male contestants in the house otherwise......gulati repeat .!!

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

We already know who sana was before entering bb....have seen enough videos of her. India forums also posted a video of a girl who is common friends with hk and sana and told about the adventures sana has.

Which fan does thing to a celeb the way sana behaved with Gautam Gulati ??

This week itself i saw sana laughing and talking to Sid giving maa ki galiya...in fun....

Are women like that ?

I don't know if women in general are like dt. But then everyone is different.

One thing I know is whatver a woman is she shouldn't let anyone treat her like dirt .