For Sana fans only ! - Page 7

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Very well put.

Ok so you are saying when people outside are divided on Sidnaaz den how can the person living it be sure of what's wrong and what's ryt. Ok. But these people outside are also individuals who aren't divided in their individual opinions. Same way Sana as a individual must be having an opinion on the whole thing.

About having a proper role model.....I guess you are right dt she probably never had a gud role model in real life. But even inside the house their are girls who may not be perfect but are still holding on to their integrity. Perhaps she could learn a thing or two from dem too over these 4 months. Infact even outside the house she follows movie stars like many of us.....and a lot of them are inspiring......but again it's matter of choice.....it's whom you choose to be inspired from.

What you said about self respect..........I get ur point. Understood. But still after understanding everything ......I feel der should be a limit to how much you tolerate from a person.

I too sympathise wid Sana but the recent events hv made me lose my empathy for her.

Thank you. Ok this is going to be long.

You misunderstood the first point. I did not speak about people having different opinions about Sidnaaz. That is bound to happen when the subject matter is so controversial.

Here I referred to those who seem to love watching the same on their screens. There are a few who are paid to do so. But based on what I see and read on SM, there are many who go gaga about their chemistry.

Shukla massages her leg, or serves her tea in bed, or maybe calls her baby, meri jaan, darling, or 'guides' her about the game and the real intention of people, and it becomes a reason to cement the opinion that they are in love.

And this is just what we see, along with all the ugly nasty stuff he says or does, and somehow people are convinced that this is a relationship worth rooting for. There must be so much unseen stuff, some good a lot more bad, which Sana is experiencing in daily life.

Most of this population includes well educated people who have had city upbringing. Yet sl ut shaming, body shaming, mocking and demeaning a girl's integrity, dignity and opinions, is not enough to put a dent on the notion that shukla is a kind misunderstood guy and sidnaaz is beautiful.

Sana on other hand, hasn't had the same modern upbringing. She lives this life. She goes through all the bad things that people overlook. And yet, sticks with the bully. It is clear that either she is sucking the sidnaaz angle dry for footage, or has no idea what a good relationship looks like. I do not believe the former anymore because the feedback recently has been along the lines of sidnaaz being dead.

And I can't blame her for the latter because there are so many well educated people who can't tell the difference too.

As for not learning self respect in the last 4 months and from SM- I would say that don't underestimate the power of conditioning. It is not this easy to break.

I've said this before-I did not like Sana either. But in the last few weeks her motivations have become kinda clear. I feel sorry that she has to go through this. She is a victim of abuse too, but is somewhat misguided about, what it actually looks like.

Plus, the lack of boundaries is not easy to tolerate for me as well. It's just that when you realize what a person is going through, it becomes a lot harder to judge their actions based on the previous notions.

Originally posted by: One-Of-A-Kind

I started watching BB for Sana and I still love her the most. She is beautiful soul inside out. I love all the qualities of hers. Specially her quality of giving love and the forgiveness in her nature makes me love her even more. I love her the most, I'll love the person that she loves too! Its her life, her choice, her happiness that matters to me the most!

Regarding Sid, yes things go ugly between them sometimes, but not always. I watch them very closely. Sid has changed a lot, he does for her a lot. Takes care of her. Pampers her a lot. The way she is, its sometimes way too much for a grown up to take lightly Sid takes it all and does whole heartedly. Shehbaaz in his IV told Sid serves Sana tea first in bed, does all the stupid stuff she asks him to do, considering Sid's image the guy doesn't even take his cup to the kitchen but wo Sana k pair dabata hai. Sure I get angry and disappointed, but from both of them when they over do some things sometimes! But that doesn't change the fact that they love and value each other so much. Sana isn't a fool to stay where there is no commitment,or is one sided, or the person doesn't treat her right or doesn't value.. Paras' example is among us and even her one of past relationship is like that.. If a person genuinely makes effort to make you happy, then Sana is only with Shukla for her happiness, she herself calls him her happiness.. every person has negativity in them.. shukla's temper is his flaw but if Sana can handle him at his worst, then only she deserves him at his best and vice versa for Sid.. when Sana had her break down in front of Salman.. Sana also misbehaved with him a lot pushed him 2 3 times, told him to get out n she doesn't wanna see his face but Shukla didn't give up.. he was there to make her smile, to make her eat food, to take her to bed, to be the first one during morning song to see her, then again wanted to initiate the talk and again went to ask her to shift on the bed and Sana was busy throwing tantrums.. but sid took it all.. you have the examples of paras who gets angry on mahira for just a slap n then talking about the 'aukaat', but sid happily took all of that.. Asim who couldn't take one joke from gupta n khuarana and here Sana was all over gautam n kartik and her paras rant.. they both handle each other at their worst, they both deserve each other at their best.. their equation is very different to be judged.. we are shown 1.5 hrs only and that too footage of entire house, what happens other than that people have no idea about it.. so yeah, i dun like it when they show extreme reactions.. but there is too much to read about it in between those too.. sure sid told her gand thing but sana also accused him of using n throwing her.. which isn't true.. so both are somewhere at fault.. a person can't right always, not wrong always too.. because adult relationships are too much complex to read n judge..

p.s. I do not support any of the negativity that is portrayed by them

Okkk.

I read all your points. I won't go point wise but I'll just say I don't agree.

How can we be so sure there is something essentially in between the lines. There are many relationships where people are not really in love but just like the company. I don't find the necessity to formulate theories and putting up words where there aren't any.Even if I for an instance accept it as a relationship......I don't see it as relationship I would admire or appreciate.

Last year Dipika and Sree too had a very strong bond inside. They cared and did everything for each other. But once outside their bond broke as fast as it was formed.

All said and done if they go ahead and declare their relationships status .....I would accept it for what it is. But still I won't like the relationship.

And one more thing yes relationships are made wid many compromises and many amends but there should always be a certain level of respect for each other whatever be the circumstances.

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I don't expect any Positivity in this thread!! Because it will include mud slinging here which I don't want.

For the topic, I started liking Shehnaaz from day 1, whether she is with Siddharth or Not, doesn't make a difference to me.

I like Shehnaaz for what she is. Pure, innocent, chirpy and bubbly. She is unique and a entertainer. Not everyone will agree but not everyone's opinion matters here.

SidNaaz moments are funny and likeable at times. But the way Shukla treats her and the way she doesn't keep her self respect, I don't like that.

Rest is all good about Shehnaaz. Nobody is perfect. And so as Sana. I'm glad what sana has achieved in Bigg Boss. She has got popularity and damn noticeable personality.

Yaad rakhna chaiye sabko ke, Charcha Ussi Ki Hoti Hai Jismein Damm Hoti Hai 🔥🔥 (चर्चा उसी की होती है जिसमें दम होती है।)

Sana for the Win!!♥️♥️

Originally posted by: BaylorBee

Thank you. Ok this is going to be long.

You misunderstood the first point. I did not speak about people having different opinions about Sidnaaz. That is bound to happen when the subject matter is so controversial.

Here I referred to those who seem to love watching the same on their screens. There are a few who are paid to do so. But based on what I see and read on SM, there are many who go gaga about their chemistry.

Shukla massages her leg, or serves her tea in bed, or maybe calls her baby, meri jaan, darling, or 'guides' her about the game and the real intention of people, and it becomes a reason to cement the opinion that they are in love.

And this is just what we see, along with all the ugly nasty stuff he says or does, and somehow people are convinced that this is a relationship worth rooting for. There must be so much unseen stuff, some good a lot more bad, which Sana is experiencing in daily life.

Most of this population includes well educated people who have had city upbringing. Yet sl ut shaming, body shaming, mocking and demeaning a girl's integrity, dignity and opinions, is not enough to put a dent on the notion that shukla is a kind misunderstood guy and sidnaaz is beautiful.

Sana on other hand, hasn't had the same modern upbringing. She lives this life. She goes through all the bad things that people overlook. And yet, sticks with the bully. It is clear that either she is sucking the sidnaaz angle dry for footage, or has no idea what a good relationship looks like. I do not believe the former anymore because the feedback recently has been along the lines of sidnaaz being dead.

And I can't blame her for the latter because there are so many well educated people who can't tell the difference too.

As for not learning self respect in the last 4 months and from SM- I would say that don't underestimate the power of conditioning. It is not this easy to break.

I've said this before-I did not like Sana either. But in the last few weeks her motivations have become kinda clear. I feel sorry that she has to go through this. She is a victim of abuse too, but is somewhat misguided about, what it actually looks like.

Plus, the lack of boundaries is not easy to tolerate for me as well. It's just that when you realize what a person is going through, it becomes a lot harder to judge their actions based on the previous notions.

Okay I think I got ur point now. Yeah fairly valid point. When so many well educated people after so many posts and arguments still hold someone like Shukla on a pedestal then Sana who spends so much tym wid him and when he does stuff for her....how is she supposed to find him wrong. Yeah point.

I guess I don't know how powerful conditioning is .Maybe you are right dt it's difficult for her to understand the values which we expect her to. Similarly it's kind of difficult for a lot of us to accept her total absence of self esteem.....bcz we aren't brought up dis way.