Don't Forget Minne is also a Victim - Page 2

Originally posted by: guddi01

No you are wrong and Mini is a drama queen with her fake smile and laugh.

Yes she is a Katha Kottage fascination subject and it is amazing that you have a one sided blind vision of just poor and great Mini but forget to see the full picture that they have deliberately butchered Babita as a Mother to justify Mini the bacheri and now they have butchered HS as a evil stepfather, if you can't see that than its sad.

You can cannot say Mini the bacheri when the for the last 3 months its being nothing but Mini this and that.

Babita is reality not wrong in stopping her from meeting the Khuranas as they are playing with mind and that is already seen and Mini is getting affected by them.

So on one hand you say take and leave with the Khuranas and ignore your Mother how sick is that. So you want Mini to be there Carer like she did with Babita how stupid.

There have been times and it has been shown that when Babita wanted tk do things her way, Mini laughed at her and out her down and made her fo things her way.

Who says that Babita should not think if herself as well and have it all around the ungrateful Mini is crazy.

Yes and she totally forgets her her Babes is the one who has been making her Birthday's special for her and not the Khuranas or her lovely Father who has not even wished her. Babes is ill and Madam dramas start again.

Instead of saying “you are wrong” why don’t you try saying I DISAGREE. There is no right and wrong here, it’s all about perception. Just as you have a venomous hatred for mini’s character, so to do others identify or not identify with characters. It is called opinion

OP I agree and perhaps the mistake of the writers was showing mini as being so mature and together in the beginning, that all sympathy went to babita and very little went to mini. Yeah, they’re focusing on mini right now (by totally changing the characters as we know; which is wrong and points to a writing error) however at some point We were always going to see the impact of it all on her. We’ve seen babita’s story, hs story so it’s only normal to see mini’s. The problem is the writers could do it in a much better way, without totally changing the core characters who they’ve introduced.

Although I personally feel for babita, still still the adult, and if she’s been shown as having stunted maturity and emotional awareness, then how much more can mini’s maturity be questioned? She’s still only got limited knowledge of the world. The courage and maturity they’ve shown her to have could have easily been achieved in school where kids today are taught a lot more about freedoms and entitlement than ever before.

As for babita stopping mini see her grandparents, that ofc is wrong, but it’s not uncommon for single mums to suddenly stop their kids seeing their fathers/fathers family so I guess they’re portraying this in a real way.

For some reason very few ppl seem to identify with mini, even on twitter- some of the abuse is actually quite shocking (over a fictitious character might I add )

Originally posted by: deefy89

Instead of saying “you are wrong” why don’t you try saying I DISAGREE. There is no right and wrong here, it’s all about perception. Just as you have a venomous hatred for mini’s character, so to do others identify or not identify with characters. It is called opinion

You said what i wanted to say. I saw all her post and found that she hates minnie and khuranas from the bottom of her heart.

Well Ashok has moved on without anyone. Selfish to the core.

Babita hasn’t moved on without Mini. She is moving with Mini. Both Babita and Hanuman will give up everything for Mini. They love her so.

Yes they are making errors but no way they can ever be comparable to what Ashok did.

Ashok wanted Mini to take back Cyber Bullying case coz he was having a business deal with the culprit’s dad. Now that’s like a her blood related father who was ok with his daughter’s character being assassinated for his gain.

Whereas Babita and Hanuman stood like rock with Mini. During her fight for her dignity. And also in her stress and anxiety problems.

I am never gonna agree that Babita and Hanuman don’t love Mini. They love her very much. She is a teenager and they are little bit indulgent at this moment in their own web, but given a situation, they both will give an arm to see her happy.

For me, all 3 is a victim of their past. And at the same time, all 3 have come a long way supporting each other.

No the only Victim here is Mini, who has been spared with the butchered characters of Babita and HS, to justify Mini the Great, but they are not happy with that so now wo have the Bacheri tag as well.

Forget Babita as a Mother and is getting so much abuse and its down to the CV, not the Characters fault.

Interesting to see if Babes or HS will be a part of even more Mini dramas in season 2.

Originally posted by: deefy89

OP I agree and perhaps the mistake of the writers was showing mini as being so mature and together in the beginning, that all sympathy went to babita and very little went to mini. Yeah, they’re focusing on mini right now (by totally changing the characters as we know; which is wrong and points to a writing error) however at some point We were always going to see the impact of it all on her. We’ve seen babita’s story, hs story so it’s only normal to see mini’s. The problem is the writers could do it in a much better way, without totally changing the core characters who they’ve introduced.

Although I personally feel for babita, still still the adult, and if she’s been shown as having stunted maturity and emotional awareness, then how much more can mini’s maturity be questioned? She’s still only got limited knowledge of the world. The courage and maturity they’ve shown her to have could have easily been achieved in school where kids today are taught a lot more about freedoms and entitlement than ever before.

As for babita stopping mini see her grandparents, that ofc is wrong, but it’s not uncommon for single mums to suddenly stop their kids seeing their fathers/fathers family so I guess they’re portraying this in a real way.

For some reason very few ppl seem to identify with mini, even on twitter- some of the abuse is actually quite shocking (over a fictitious character might I add )

In my opinion it was other way around. Initially I liked Minnie a lot. It was easy to relate with her especially during depression phase. And how she joined online chat rooms- those things do happen in real life. And that therapist also suggested that her sudden bursts of happiness and optimism are actually abnormal. She is still doing that, but writers completely forget about that mental health issue and they're now showing it as her innate goodness. Remember how she was pissed off about HS' feelings for babita and how she confronted him, or when he said that he wouldn't love anyone but imarti? She also confronted babita when she wanted to leave haveli after court summons. I do not see that anymore.

They can focus on Minnie but don't expect us to believe that she started emotionally mothering babita from age of 4-5 years and that she goes to college and handles catering business and arranges weddings successfully. And the most annoying part is she cries inside all the time but has big smile on the face at the same time (which reminds me of her depression but writers show it as sacrifice). I would rather have her shouting and fighting that this pitiful state of mind.

The only serious complaint I have about Minnie is her opinion that babita is equally at blame and that her grandparents and lovely aren't that bad- they're not bad to Minnie but they awfully exploited babita. And her guilt trapping was seriously so wrong at so many levels. That was legit gaslighting and victim blaming.

The drastic change in the behavior of these characters is abrupt and unrealistic and somehow everything ends with Minnie in tears and rest of the people don't care at all (rather their opinions or concerns are not being shown). Honestly the writers have gone insane and screwed up so bad that people are now hating either Minnie or babita. And writing is clearly skewed in favor of Minnie but I am having hard time believing that babita and HS could be so stupid.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

In my opinion it was other way around. Initially I liked Minnie a lot. It was easy to relate with her especially during depression phase. And how she joined online chat rooms- those things do happen in real life. And that therapist also suggested that her sudden bursts of happiness and optimism are actually abnormal. She is still doing that, but writers completely forget about that mental health issue and they're now showing it as her innate goodness. Remember how she was pissed off about HS' feelings for babita and how she confronted him, or when he said that he wouldn't love anyone but imarti? She also confronted babita when she wanted to leave haveli after court summons. I do not see that anymore.

They can focus on Minnie but don't expect us to believe that she started emotionally mothering babita from age of 4-5 years and that she goes to college and handles catering business and arranges weddings successfully. And the most annoying part is she cries inside all the time but has big smile on the face at the same time (which reminds me of her depression but writers show it as sacrifice). I would rather have her shouting and fighting that this pitiful state of mind.

The only serious complaint I have about Minnie is her opinion that babita is equally at blame and that her grandparents and lovely aren't that bad- they're not bad to Minnie but they awfully exploited babita. And her guilt trapping was seriously so wrong at so many levels. That was legit gaslighting and victim blaming.

The drastic change in the behavior of these characters is abrupt and unrealistic and somehow everything ends with Minnie in tears and rest of the people don't care at all (rather their opinions or concerns are not being shown). Honestly the writers have gone insane and screwed up so bad that people are now hating either Minnie or babita. And writing is clearly skewed in favor of Minnie but I am having hard time believing that babita and HS could be so stupid.

But Mini is Protecting Babita ... babita told in one scene before ashok betrayal too... mini used to answer another if someone say something to babita... and babita secretly liked it... so Mini is trying to protect her as much as her age allowed.... and taking her mother and leave the house for babita respect was such a huge step for a 16-17 yrs old ... than when her mamu.. turn back to them... she doesn't broke down... so she is doing everything... yes Writers messed up whole story line....

maybe I found mini Smile with tears is so real.... she is still leaving in a dream of future happy family... and she is scared that if she complaint about anything that hope will be tarnished.... someone time we hold hopes for no reason.... because there is nothing and everything is so shallow.... so we keep ignoring realityfor one and another reason....

Mini has her own way to keep relations... infact she doesn't mistrust or left hs too... but babita left hs.... Mini knows to balance relationships unlike babita.... tell me 2-3 incident... where u find babita as matured motherly figure for Mini

there is no denying that Babita suffered but this is also reality she was exploit by others because she doesn't have a backbone.... no self respect just ego... which is coming very clearly nowadays.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

In my opinion it was other way around. Initially I liked Minnie a lot. It was easy to relate with her especially during depression phase. And how she joined online chat rooms- those things do happen in real life. And that therapist also suggested that her sudden bursts of happiness and optimism are actually abnormal. She is still doing that, but writers completely forget about that mental health issue and they're now showing it as her innate goodness. Remember how she was pissed off about HS' feelings for babita and how she confronted him, or when he said that he wouldn't love anyone but imarti? She also confronted babita when she wanted to leave haveli after court summons. I do not see that anymore.

They can focus on Minnie but don't expect us to believe that she started emotionally mothering babita from age of 4-5 years and that she goes to college and handles catering business and arranges weddings successfully. And the most annoying part is she cries inside all the time but has big smile on the face at the same time (which reminds me of her depression but writers show it as sacrifice). I would rather have her shouting and fighting that this pitiful state of mind.

The only serious complaint I have about Minnie is her opinion that babita is equally at blame and that her grandparents and lovely aren't that bad- they're not bad to Minnie but they awfully exploited babita. And her guilt trapping was seriously so wrong at so many levels. That was legit gaslighting and victim blaming.

The drastic change in the behavior of these characters is abrupt and unrealistic and somehow everything ends with Minnie in tears and rest of the people don't care at all (rather their opinions or concerns are not being shown). Honestly the writers have gone insane and screwed up so bad that people are now hating either Minnie or babita. And writing is clearly skewed in favor of Minnie but I am having hard time believing that babita and HS could be so stupid.

Agree . I dont like the way mini is being shown as mahaan. i would liked to have seen mini standing up and asking babita to not have so many nakhras during the wedding preps only. instead she took everything with a smile.I would have wanted her to lash back at HS because he doubted her during the CD fiasco and ask him why he thinks so. This is how mini is in actual not that sacrificial lamb who will tell Its okay HS uncle said this in anger. She was the one who told beeji off not to emotionally blackmail babita, now the same miniis ready to leave babita and move in a different house to take care of them. Again this is a sacrifice on her part. its okay to care for your grandparents when no one is there but mini needs to get her priorities right in this case. I actually liked mini when she lashed out at babita and sarcastically called her out for calling her the other woman. Now when babita has forgotten her b day she will be the one who will be its all okay when she is not. Whereas mini was always very blunt and upfront. if she dint like anything she has said it and demanded for her rights.

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Originally posted by: naq5

Agree . I dont like the way mini is being shown as mahaan. i would liked to have seen mini standing up and asking babita to not have so many nakhras during the wedding preps only. instead she took everything with a smile.I would have wanted her to lash back at HS because he doubted her during the CD fiasco and ask him why he thinks so. This is how mini is in actual not that sacrificial lamb who will tell Its okay HS uncle said this in anger. She was the one who told beeji off not to emotionally blackmail babita, now the same miniis ready to leave babita and move in a different house to take care of them. Again this is a sacrifice on her part. its okay to care for your grandparents when no one is there but mini needs to get her priorities right in this case. I actually liked mini when she lashed out at babita and sarcastically called her out for calling her the other woman. Now when babita has forgotten her b day she will be the one who will be its all okay when she is not. Whereas mini was always very blunt and upfront. if she dint like anything she has said it and demanded for her rights.