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Posted: 5 years ago
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So, for the past few episodes, I have been absolutely mad at Prerna because of her inconsistencies. Do I think Prerna owes Mr Bajaj loyalty? No. Yes, he treats her with respect but that doesn't automatically mean she has to be loyal to him. Maybe if she gives him the same courtesy would be enough. Not because she owes him.

Now coming to the whole accident thing. (Before we found out what happened). When she confronted him about the accident he told what happened. So just because he told her doesn't make it any less crime(hit & run). Yes, he was angry & wasn't thinking straight but that doesn't excuse what he did (before we found out what happened).

Now coming back to Prerna on one side there is someone who she still loves in critical condition but she can't show to others she still loves him because they don't know about the deal and on other hand, it's her husband (only in name). When grieving, hurt, angry or upset they sometimes tend to become irrational & lash out at people. When Anurag gets up and blame Mr Bajaj for what he did (or didn't at the same time). Prerna is no longer grieving, she is angry. Maybe at herself for standing with someone who unintentionally hurt Anurag that made him almost lose his life (Mr Bajaj himself confessed) or Mr Bajaj for his actions or both. I'm not trying to justify her actions. I'm just trying to say this is where she is coming from. Now finding out that Anurag is the one who staged everything why didn't she went against him? Because of a few reasons. Like she still loves him. She feels responsible for Anurag current stage. Until she doesn't stop blaming herself for everything Anurag is going she would protect him. It's mixed with both guilt and love.

What I truly think both Prerna & Anurag needs is therapy. I'm saying from experience it does help a lot. Not saying as to make fun of them or bash them. I'm having therapy for depression/suicidal tendencies. It was probably the best decision of my life.

Tell me what you think. Do you agree or disagree? I want to know.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I was telling someone this today, I think it was Moni. That counseling and therapy is needed.

I myself used to go during a rough patch in my life and it was a very good decision. I used to have these sudden high and low phases.

That's when I was detected with Mild Bipolar disorder, but thankfully it was the beginning stage, so I was cured.

Now my behaviour, personality, everything has changed for the best. I used to be frustrated and aggressive once but look at me now, always calm and, composed

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

I was telling someone this today, I think it was Moni. That counseling and therapy is needed.

I myself used to go during a rough patch in my life and it was a very good decision. I used to have these sudden high and low phases.

That's when I was detected with Mild Bipolar disorder, but thankfully it was the beginning stage, so I was cured.

Now my behaviour, personality, everything has changed for the best. I used to be frustrated and aggressive once but look at me now, always calm and, composed

I'm glad you are ok now. I used to get panic/anxiety attacks every month sometimes more than once. My friends later told me that I used to have a blank face all the time. That how I use to feel inside-nothing & once in a while all suppressed emotions used to come out either in anger or frustration or panic/anxiety attack. I once told my bestfriend about my suicide attempt, she got so angry and worried. She ask me to call her if I feel like this ever again. She was the one who suggested the therapy session.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArShiFever.

I'm glad you are ok now. I used to get panic/anxiety attacks every month sometimes more than once. My friends later told me that I used to have a blank face all the time. That how I use to feel inside-nothing & once in a while all suppressed emotions used to come out either in anger or frustration or panic/anxiety attack. I once told my bestfriend about my suicide attempt, she got so angry and worried. She ask me to call her if I feel like this ever again. She was the one who suggested the therapy session.

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I have never even contemplated suicide. I was a shy girl but happy go lucky kind.

It was 6 years back when I felt a little different .

there would be days when I would be bubbling with energy, very creative and extremely happy , and then it is consequently followed by emptiness and loneliness and sadness.

Of course I brushed it off as PMS mood swings but during counseling I came to know.

Passing hugs to you. Stay safe :)

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Cvs shouldnt have made her say those sahi galat dialogues and plenty from.mr bajaj too which shows their hypocrisy clearly ..since when did prerna always stood for what's right? She forgave bajaj for the deal marriage also ..was it right or wrong ? Whatever..


The accident , when I saw yesterday's episode bajaj overheard every single detail of anurags planning, how he will carefully come in front of bajajs car to just get a little hurt but bajaj confessed that he had speed up his car due to which the accident was severe and life threatening. So why didnt prerna ask him this? This accident plot was so bizarre that discussion over it is useless now. Intentional unintentional , police ..everything was bakwas. So discussion over prernas stand also doesnt make sense..but I am happy she owed up to her mistake that anurag did this for her and she won't stand against him . In a way understood where he is coming from, why he is doing all this but the problem is she doesn't do anything . She just waits for the next siyappa. In the next episode I hope she has an heart to heart with bajaj and anurag both n ask them to stop..bec the same challenge story is being repeated again in sharma house.


Yeah all the three can go for therapy..dunno about them but they are giving their families severe depression

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Three of them need theraphy prerna for being most useless dumb character ever anurag for risking his life fir the sake of so calked love bajaj for falling for women who did nothing but only pain

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Posted: 5 years ago
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makers, writers n ekta needs that therapy the most

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Prerna is a hypocrite. She is the root of all problem. She needs some personality development course or woman empowerment course. 😆

She is like a cow who needs to be pushed always. When Mohini babbled the only option she found was to marry Mohini's bro buddha Navin Babu. She was so annoyingly irritating at that time. Anu riusked his life, drugged her, locked her to put some senses in her blank demag. But batti abhi bhi nehi jali. So I guess whatever crap Anu is going through is created by Prerna. Anu ko mental patient bana diah. I guess if Baju stays with this disturbed woman very soon he would also turn in to a psycho. 😆 Yes! Right now he is showing symptoms. smiley36 As per S1 he did ended up in mental asylum. All credit goes to this mental case Prerna.

So yes! I agree with you. Prerna needs some psycho therapy. As it has already effected Anu he too needs one and with him he should take Baju as Baju is also a bit effected by Prernamesia. smiley36smiley36smiley36smiley36

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Prerna needs to be loyal to bajaj.....yes she owes him loyality because that was a part of the deal. Bajaj did asked for her loyality......and now when he is keeping his promises.....prerna needs to keep them too.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

Prerna is a hypocrite. She is the root of all problem. She needs some personality development course or woman empowerment course. 😆

She is like a cow who needs to be pushed always. When Mohini babbled the only option she found was to marry Mohini's bro buddha Navin Babu. She was so annoyingly irritating at that time. Anu riusked his life, drugged her, locked her to put some senses in her blank demag. But batti abhi bhi nehi jali. So I guess whatever crap Anu is going through is created by Prerna. Anu ko mental patient bana diah. I guess if Baju stays with this disturbed woman very soon he would also turn in to a psycho. 😆 Yes! Right now he is showing symptoms. smiley36 As per S1 he did ended up in mental asylum. All credit goes to this mental case Prerna.

So yes! I agree with you. Prerna needs some psycho therapy. As it has already effected Anu he too needs one and with him he should take Baju as Baju is also a bit effected by Prernamesia. smiley36smiley36smiley36smiley36

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