History Repeat again.. Anurag slap Prena[All THAPPAD DISCUSSIONS HERE - Page 18

It truly does not look too well especially because of the way Anurag's character was portrayed right from the first episode. Ram Ram Jai Shri Ram kinda character. He was always shown as the perfect man and I personally believe, slapping and hitting is a tendency which you either have or you do not. There is no in between like if it is in yourself, you can hit someone and if not, then no matter what the other person does, you won't raise your hand.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

It truly does not look too well especially because of the way Anurag's character was portrayed right from the first episode. Ram Ram Jai Shri Ram kinda character. He was always shown as the perfect man and I personally believe, slapping and hitting is a tendency which you either have or you do not. There is no in between like if it is in yourself, you can hit someone and if not, then no matter what the other person does, you won't raise your hand.

Unless he/she is a saint

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

It truly does not look too well especially because of the way Anurag's character was portrayed right from the first episode. Ram Ram Jai Shri Ram kinda character. He was always shown as the perfect man and I personally believe, slapping and hitting is a tendency which you either have or you do not. There is no in between like if it is in yourself, you can hit someone and if not, then no matter what the other person does, you won't raise your hand.

It's the result of CVs switching gears midway. Won't be surprised if he turns a psycho aashiq and kidnaps her forcefully. All in the name of forlorn 'love'.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Unless he/she is a saint

Ah not really. One doesn't have to be a saint for the same. Like I said, this is what I believe and I don't expect everyone to agree. There are people who do not go on hitting people on getting betrayed. They do not until it is the life or death situation.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

It's the result of CVs switching gears midway. Won't be surprised if he turns a psycho aashiq and kidnaps her forcefully. All in the name of forlorn 'love'.

From an insane AnuPre lover to someone who is commenting this for one of those.

What a journey, Mahi! 🤣

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

From an insane AnuPre lover to someone who is commenting this for one of those.

What a journey, Mahi! 🤣

Sab paapi CVs ka kaam hai yeh. Yes I used to enjoy their innocence and commitment and perhaps love but now it looks plain stupid.

I am just waiting for even Bajaj to get spoilt so that I can move on finally.

If they were to make Anurag grey, why portray him like the perfect guy in the beginning? This is so out of character. Yuck.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Anu slapped Komo when she was trying to force sex on him. He refused her first but she didn't listen & as a last attempt, he slapped her in self-defence. I would say he was trying to escape forced sex when he slapped Komo in self-defence. Husband owes sex to the wife but he can't be forced to do it against his wish just like how a wife can't be forced to have sex in a marriage against her wish.

Even Prerna has a right to use self-defence of any kind if any man whosoever tries to force sex on her. Physical violence for self-defence is acceptable. No man or woman should be forced for sex in a relationship.

So, Anu slapping Komo & Anu slapping Prerna are two different things. First one was for self-defence, in hatred & he didn't regret it but this one looks to have been an instinctive reaction to something Prerna had said since he falls to her feet apologizing in the next moment & regrets his act profusely & I will have to see what exactly she said to cause Anu to end up slapping her in that heated moment.

Now coming to the rejection part, rejection should be taken with dignity but here Anu hasn't been rejected but betrayed in a relationship. Rejection & betrayal are 2 different things. Rejection is when you approach a person with romantic feelings & he/she refuses, that rejection needs to be accepted without any condition. Party that rejects you owes nothing & thus any sort of violence against this side is a crime. So, acid attack when you are rejected is a crime since other party owed you nothing at all & it was all you assuming things.

In case of betrayal, betrayed party seeks answers desperately since there is a promise from the past & thus betraying party owes answer to the betrayed person as natural human reaction to understand what went wrong & why is this happening. Violence isn't acceptable in this case as well but slapping is often an instinctive reaction in heated moments especially in young people in toxic relstionship when communication fails completely. As for letting go after being betrayed (not rejected), it's impossible thing to do unless there is a compelling closure & Prerna will have to provide it while Anu will have to accept it on his own. Anu will have that by the end of this trip. It's his 5 stages of grief- anger being one of them & will highlight his limitation & flaws as a human.

Violence is never justified but heat of moments in such situations cause instinctive speech & actions that should have never happened at all. He of course should have not slapped her but we still have to see what caused him cross his threshold.

As said, I will have to reserve my final opinion till the scene is aired.

Please see that I am not defending Anu here but trying to understand his psyche in that exact moment.

Anurag as a man is much physically stronger than komolika, who was also drunk. Surely, he need not have slapped her to defend himself. He wouldn't have dared to if she was in her senses. He would have hid in the bathroom instead, like he has done before.

I kind of understand anurag lashing out at prerna as an emotional reaction. But slapping komo was a cowardly act, especially coz she was drunk and he wouldn't have dared to if she was in her senses.

I remember him arm twisting and threatening komo in the past too, out of anger. He comes across as someone who lashes out in frustration. I hope this is not limited to only women. Would he dare to hit bajaj or he only vents out his frustration on women.

Anurag is no way an evil character. In fact his intentions are mostly right. But his actions sometimes make him look like a weak man. Also, coz he is supposed to be the ideal man, his faults are magnified.

Originally posted by: najma123

If they were to make Anurag grey, why portray him like the perfect guy in the beginning? This is so out of character. Yuck.

Isn't that the evolution/devolution. They started with Anu being the perfect guy but overtime we come across his shortcomings & flaws.

They began with Bajaj being this ruthless, arrogant, villain kind of person & even he will go transition in future.

That's how people are, highlight the flaws after flawless first impressions in a long journey which give a black & white image. It's only over time that we find that average human being is overall grey.

I think it's good.

I had already said, Bajaj will bring out a completely different layer from every character he will interact with directly or indirectly, especially AnuPre. He will bring all of these characters to grey zone & prove how right is his understanding about the world with most people being in grey, something these characters never thought before & were dwelling in black-white compass only.

Originally posted by: rhondasa

Anurag as a man is much physically stronger than komolika, who was also drunk. Surely, he need not have slapped her to defend himself. He wouldn't have dared to if she was in her senses. He would have hid in the bathroom instead, like he has done before.

I kind of understand anurag lashing out at prerna as an emotional reaction. But slapping komo was a cowardly act, especially coz she was drunk and he wouldn't have dared to if she was in her senses.

I remember him arm twisting and threatening komo in the past too, out of anger. He comes across as someone who lashes out in frustration. I hope this is not limited to only women. Would he dare to hit bajaj or he only vents out his frustration on women.

Anurag is no way an evil character. In fact his intentions are mostly right. But his actions sometimes make him look like a weak man. Also, coz he is supposed to be the ideal man, his faults are magnified.

I won't call that a cowardly act because if a drunk man was pounding on a woman, then I would have supported the woman beating the man black & blue in that state. Anu did try to escape hard from her but she almost dragged him in that state, opened his shirt & he tried his luck by slapping her to stop her, again an instinctive reaction in such situations.

Anu is indeed a man who can't channel his frustration. He lashed out at Nivi when she confronted him about why was she not informed about Bajaj before. He can't handle multiple things at one time if all of them require his immediate attention & he is impulsive as well with the way he trespassed into Bajaj's house. He doesn't command a authoritative body language that makes people stop at a distance like Bajaj does. I mean even Komo could overpower him, something she would have never been able to do had it been Bajaj. He is not so much physically strong as well on how easily he was captured by the goons when Prerna was kidnapped & how easily Ronit overpowered him in the factory. He is indeed a highly flawed man but just because makers say he is ideal doesn't mean he is without flaws. Him being pinned ideal forces him always to stick to black-white zone where every grey thing becomes non-acceptable to many.