Originally posted by: Rhimjhimsawan
I always think about this when I watch the show. For me, absolutely no. The only time I worried about Mauli's self respect was when she was begging Kunal to be with her and she was still desperate to be with him. Didn't hold it against her although I definitely didn't agree with it.
Coming to the over all track I think Mauli is exactly like Kashi Bai. She didn't run to Kunal's arms to be with him or put up with his drama. She did give him out of my bedroom treatment. After the leap, even after realizing time and time again she had feelings for Kunal she chose to move on. She did everything right. She didn't keep in touch with him. She cut him off. She chose to marry another man. She left Kunal out of Mishti's life. Kashi Bai continued to love Bajirao and stood by him when he needed her, she just cut off the romantic relationship. Mauli did the same. Mauli loves Kunal. It would've been so easy to just give in and be with him. She always held herself back.
It's different than those wives who wait and do seva for the husband hoping one day they will come back to them. Here Kunal always knew who the real Mauli was and even as he was dumping her he told her she was the most wonderful woman he had known. Except for that last bit where he momentarily lost his mind he respected her throughout and returned to respecting her almost immediately after the leap. As for Mauli she gave Kunal hell for betraying her. Only two things kept bringing her back whenever she walked away. Her love for him and his family. I think she juggled that love beautifully with her self-respect.
It would've been so easy to just give in and be with him. She always held herself back.
The only reason she did that is because Kunal wasn't ready to accept her.😆.Its because Kunal was in love with some one else and busy with his new wife and post leap also Kunal didn't give any indication that he wanted to be with Mauli.Did he give any indication? No I don't think so.Hence Mauli had no choice because Kunal only wasn't interested and now that he is interested in Mauli again she is ready to accept him back right. That is my point whenever Kunal wants to come back in Mauli's life , Mauli accepts him immediately .She did it post leap and pre leap.Kashi bai took herself out of the equation .No matter if Bajirao wanted or didn't want to come in her life she said as far as I am concerned my door is closed of you.Mauli didn't do that.She has been waiting for Kunal to love her and accept her back.Now that he is ready to do that ,Mauli has immediately accepted him. Mauli had accepted him back even after her called her a 'giri hui aurat'.
even as he was dumping her he told her she was the most wonderful woman he had known.
What are you talking about😆.He threw divorce papers on her face on Karwa chauth when she had forgiven him and kept a fast for him as he thought she is the kind of woman who traps men via kids. Its not momentarily.This is how there divorce happened.This is a fact.This how their relationship ended.So I don't know what you are trying to say here.
returned to respecting her almost immediately after the leap.
Did he apologize to her for mistreating her ? Did he apologize to her for doubting her pregnancy? No he only accepted the apology.He has now apologized to her when she has done his 'seva',Which is what I have said in my post.
As for Mauli she gave Kunal hell for betraying her
How ? The only thing she did was not tell about he pregnancy.Other than that how.Pre leap she was always desperate for Kunal to come back, had Kunal not thrown the divorce papers on her face she would have continued with him. Post leap i don't see her giving him any hell only confessing love to him and felling jealous of Mehek.
I think she juggled that love beautifully with her self-respect.
How ? The fact is she could never stop loving a man who had brutally humiliated her.Where is self respect in that.
Edited by Sabhayata - 6 years ago