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I am copy pasting this from other post. Sorry for long post if you manage to read till the end will like to read your reply.😆
Ok first of all hi to all 😊this is my first post in this forum I have been a silent member in this forum. Coming to topic of Guddan being a joker and immature to the point that it looks unreal and plain stupid I would have agreed had I not known this women who is married and has 2 sons both doing graduation. You would expect her to be matured and all that stuff but well she does end up reminding me of Guddan or rather Guddan reminds me of her in ways. At times this lady says or ends up doing stuff which will make you wonder exactly how dumb, stupid and childish this woman can be but she also has a heart of gold never says bad about anyone, is good to even those who don't deserve it and don't value her, is innocent & nave and lacks practicality hence people often take advantage of her and make fun of her. One would expect for her to change after marriage but even after years she didn't and one cant blame her because surroundings, circumstances and up bringing does matters in shaping up a person and his/her personality. Here I am seeing something similar between this lady I know and Guddan yet there is difference.
Here before marriage both the women had been surrounded by people who had put them down, been doubted, questioned, looked upon and made feel useless and unworthy difference being Guddan had her father and sister who believed in her and supported her no matter how weak the support looks to us but the fact remains whatever confidence, positivity, maturity and strong personality Guddan has is because of these two people (of course she has he own inherit goodness and positivity just like this lady) unlike the lady whose mother though loved her but was too weak to take stand for her or support her.
After marriage both lacks the acceptance and respect they deserve as DIL of the house and are still struggling with same issues just people has changed still those taunts are there in-laws don't except or support her husband does not support her here difference is though AJ doesn't love Guddan but will always stand by her at the time of need so unlike this lady we know Guddan will have gradual changes in her but it will take time.
You and I we all have not been in situation like these two women and surrounded by people who has been continuously doubting us and saying "tumse na ho payega" on regular basis. Hence to us it looks unreal even I would have agreed here had I not come to know this beautiful and sweet woman who is childlike with beautiful heart.
Anupamaa
