Originally posted by: Alohomora_
Madzi we will have to agree to disagree here coz mai thoda differently dekhtu hu iss cheez ko.There cannot be ANY scope for a third person ,whether its a third wheel or in-laws or whoever to break into your personal space. And in-laws coming and third person coming in is very very different dear. In-laws toh aayenge hi unko koi control nahi kar sakta.But cheating is a choice which lies in your hands.Like I said for me loyalty and love go hand in hand. Its purely my view. I still believe if your love is true and pure nobody can infiiltrate it not even God. And if it isnt then we can blame everyone else but most of the fault lies in the partner that strayed. Temptaions will always be there around.Its all how you handle and control yourself from straying and what keeps one from straying is love. For me if my partner cheated on me my relationship is over then and there. Thats a betrayal of trust and it wouldnt have happened if he truly still loved me .Thats the way I look at it. Offcourse everyone is free to have their own takes to it but this will remain my take on it.😊
Ok let's agree to disagree. And of course, I do believe what you are saying applies to many couples like if they have love, they won't break and all. At the same, I do believe many times it doesn't apply as issues and people any anything will still come even if there's a lot love. So IMO, I can't think one way for all couples and all cases. Each one has their own context for me to see and make opinion of what fits. Just recently someone I know who's crazily in love with her boyfriend but couldn't take anymore after all issues and decided to breakup despite taking all on herself for years, but then boyfriend tried to commit suicide realizing she had left him even though he was the one who keep telling her to go away and try to break up all the time. but anyway after that suicide attemp they got back because they are in love. But still there relation isn't stable as no matter how much they love on another, they can't stay stable either and keep deciding to break up and getting together another moment. Then there's another similar case of a married couple I know who are also extreme this way and no matter how much love their is, people and issues still come between them and has gone to the point of divorce many times too and the cycle getting repeated. That's what I see around me and there there are stable couples too. And I do believe God has the power to break couples, but I don't believe He would because everyone has free will. So just as a couple can save marriage or the relation, same as third person, or the partner in the relation can break too. It depends who try the hardest and use their free to cause what reactions, actions and make the future. It's people's actions which make the future so depends who try the hardest. So even if there's love but at the end of the day I do believe people's actions has impact too to break relationship.
Edited by _Darling_ - 7 years ago
