Ratan's trust - Page 3

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

in waht ways she does not like him

what does she want to change in him

in my experience men after 30 yrs never change ..they r the way they are tahts it

so i think she is committing another blunder in waiting or him to mend his ways

better she move on and marry some one or adjust to his ways and stay with him

Originally posted by: Charusaxena

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Originally posted by: Doc.love

Ratan hai tou buht hi sweet waise... No doubt.. 😳

Apne naam per fit bethta hai.. He is a gem of a person indeed.. ❤️

Aur phir role play kia hai mere pyare bholu ne.. tou aur chaar chaand lag gaye iss character ko... ❤️

Akanksha, Lisa, Nancy...may God bless you with partners even better than Ratan..ameen..😃

Now coming to the part that 1 year is needed atleast to judge a man. I think a little differently. Kisi movie mien yeh dialogue tha, jis se mien 100% agree kerty hun : "Kabhi kabhi kisi ko jaannay aur samajhne k liye sari zindagy bhi kamm par jaty hai. Aur kabhi kabhi kisi ko samajhne k liye bass aik lamha kafi hota hai!"

Doosri baat yeh hai ki aik acchay admi ko jaannay k liye kuch cheezein zarur dekhna:

1) Does he lie on small small things?

2) How does he behave with his elders?

3)How does he behave with younger people?

4) How does he treat beggars/waiters in restaurants wagera? Does he treat them kindly? Is he rude towards them...etc

5) Does he keep his promises? Koi chhoti baat...koi chhoti si commitment? Can his word be valued?

6) Look around. Do people like him or are they afraid of him? Best criteria is to find out how this man is with his family members, like parents, siblings wagera. Kyunki baahir girl friend ya date ke sath tou Changez Khan bhi buht accha behave kere ga.. 😛 Asal gawaahi tou ghar ke ander ke loag dete hain... 😊

7) Check out if this person is Munaafiq (Hypocrite)...yani woh jo ander se kuch aur baahir se kuch aur hote hain. Munaafiq ki 3 signs hote hain:

- Jab bolay ga tou jhoot bolay ga

- Jab promise kere ga tou usko break ker de ga without any remorse...aur phir usko cover kerne k liye jhoot bolay ga.

- Ager uske pas koi amaanat rakhwai jaye, yani uski care mien apni koi buht precious cheez rakhwai jaye, tou munaafiq insan uss amaanat mien khayanat kere ga...yani he will not take care of your precious item. It wont be important for him at all.

MAJOR WARNING: Yeh signs nazar aajayein tou aisa admi gold ka bhi bann ker ajaye tou uss se shadi naa kerna!

Originally posted by: nancy505

Aisa farishta duniya main hota hai kya ? Farishta to jannat main hi hoti hai...

Thank you Ayesha for your advise, I think it is hard to observe someone when you are very close to that person.