Ratan's trust - Page 2

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Ratan hai tou buht hi sweet waise... No doubt.. 😳

Apne naam per fit bethta hai.. He is a gem of a person indeed.. ❤️

Aur phir role play kia hai mere pyare bholu ne.. tou aur chaar chaand lag gaye iss character ko... ❤️

Akanksha, Lisa, Nancy...may God bless you with partners even better than Ratan..ameen..😃

Now coming to the part that 1 year is needed atleast to judge a man. I think a little differently. Kisi movie mien yeh dialogue tha, jis se mien 100% agree kerty hun : "Kabhi kabhi kisi ko jaannay aur samajhne k liye sari zindagy bhi kamm par jaty hai. Aur kabhi kabhi kisi ko samajhne k liye bass aik lamha kafi hota hai!"

Doosri baat yeh hai ki aik acchay admi ko jaannay k liye kuch cheezein zarur dekhna:

1) Does he lie on small small things?

2) How does he behave with his elders?

3)How does he behave with younger people?

4) How does he treat beggars/waiters in restaurants wagera? Does he treat them kindly? Is he rude towards them...etc

5) Does he keep his promises? Koi chhoti baat...koi chhoti si commitment? Can his word be valued?

6) Look around. Do people like him or are they afraid of him? Best criteria is to find out how this man is with his family members, like parents, siblings wagera. Kyunki baahir girl friend ya date ke sath tou Changez Khan bhi buht accha behave kere ga.. 😛 Asal gawaahi tou ghar ke ander ke loag dete hain... 😊

7) Check out if this person is Munaafiq (Hypocrite)...yani woh jo ander se kuch aur baahir se kuch aur hote hain. Munaafiq ki 3 signs hote hain:

- Jab bolay ga tou jhoot bolay ga

- Jab promise kere ga tou usko break ker de ga without any remorse...aur phir usko cover kerne k liye jhoot bolay ga.

- Ager uske pas koi amaanat rakhwai jaye, yani uski care mien apni koi buht precious cheez rakhwai jaye, tou munaafiq insan uss amaanat mien khayanat kere ga...yani he will not take care of your precious item. It wont be important for him at all.

MAJOR WARNING: Yeh signs nazar aajayein tou aisa admi gold ka bhi bann ker ajaye tou uss se shadi naa kerna!

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Ratan hai tou buht hi sweet waise... No doubt.. 😳

Apne naam per fit bethta hai.. He is a gem of a person indeed.. ❤️

Aur phir role play kia hai mere pyare bholu ne.. tou aur chaar chaand lag gaye iss character ko... ❤️

Akanksha, Lisa, Nancy...may God bless you with partners even better than Ratan..ameen..😃

Now coming to the part that 1 year is needed atleast to judge a man. I think a little differently. Kisi movie mien yeh dialogue tha, jis se mien 100% agree kerty hun : "Kabhi kabhi kisi ko jaannay aur samajhne k liye sari zindagy bhi kamm par jaty hai. Aur kabhi kabhi kisi ko samajhne k liye bass aik lamha kafi hota hai!"

Doosri baat yeh hai ki aik acchay admi ko jaannay k liye kuch cheezein zarur dekhna:

1) Does he lie on small small things?

2) How does he behave with his elders?

3)How does he behave with younger people?

4) How does he treat beggars/waiters in restaurants wagera? Does he treat them kindly? Is he rude towards them...etc

5) Does he keep his promises? Koi chhoti baat...koi chhoti si commitment? Can his word be valued?

6) Look around. Do people like him or are they afraid of him? Best criteria is to find out how this man is with his family members, like parents, siblings wagera. Kyunki baahir girl friend ya date ke sath tou Changez Khan bhi buht accha behave kere ga.. 😛 Asal gawaahi tou ghar ke ander ke loag dete hain... 😊

7) Check out if this person is Munaafiq (Hypocrite)...yani woh jo ander se kuch aur baahir se kuch aur hote hain. Munaafiq ki 3 signs hote hain:

- Jab bolay ga tou jhoot bolay ga

- Jab promise kere ga tou usko break ker de ga without any remorse...aur phir usko cover kerne k liye jhoot bolay ga.

- Ager uske pas koi amaanat rakhwai jaye, yani uski care mien apni koi buht precious cheez rakhwai jaye, tou munaafiq insan uss amaanat mien khayanat kere ga...yani he will not take care of your precious item. It wont be important for him at all.

MAJOR WARNING: Yeh signs nazar aajayein tou aisa admi gold ka bhi bann ker ajaye tou uss se shadi naa kerna!

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

👍🏼 yes MAINLY OBSERVE family members opinion about him.prob is in front of u they will hide and he will also hide in 2 or 3 meetings

thats why i said 1 yr ..if u start going to his family more often u will notice asli behaviour of family and hiim.

yes i agree with u ayesha how he behaves with orphans and beggers ..IS HE A MAN OF WORD i.e will he take his promises lightly or will he keep it up at any cost and MOST IMP LIES.never trust a man who easily lie

these three r the traits of a gentle man

Originally posted by: Doreman

This is not true for all. We cannot judge by their behaviour with the family. Some behaves very nice with their family members but with the wife they will not . My friend's is love marriage, they dated for 3yrs and after convincing their families they got married. He used behave so lovingly and friendly with everyone, but after marriage she suffered a lot and at last she broke with him. He is a very good son , brother and friend but couldn't become a good husband.

Originally posted by: Doreman

This is not true for all. We cannot judge by their behaviour with the family. Some behaves very nice with their family members but with the wife they will not . My friend's is love marriage, they dated for 3yrs and after convincing their families they got married. He used behave so lovingly and friendly with everyone, but after marriage she suffered a lot and at last she broke with him. He is a very good son , brother and friend but couldn't become a good husband.

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

strange in those 3 years did nt she know that whether he loved her or not ..did,nt he ever behave lovingly towards her

Originally posted by: Doc.love

mujhe bhi yeh baat samajh nahi aayi. 3 yrs is a very long time to know someone to some extent, if not completely. I think people ignore many things when they are in a love relationship. Kyunki itne time mien kuch na kuch us banday ki koi buri baat saamnay tou ayi hogy. Girls usually ignore or let things go...and they forgive men easily too...men are also usually careful and pretentious when they are in a love setting, but when the person's true colors reveal after marriage, things fall apart...

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Ratan hai tou buht hi sweet waise... No doubt.. 😳

Apne naam per fit bethta hai.. He is a gem of a person indeed.. ❤️

Aur phir role play kia hai mere pyare bholu ne.. tou aur chaar chaand lag gaye iss character ko... ❤️

Akanksha, Lisa, Nancy...may God bless you with partners even better than Ratan..ameen..😃

Now coming to the part that 1 year is needed atleast to judge a man. I think a little differently. Kisi movie mien yeh dialogue tha, jis se mien 100% agree kerty hun : "Kabhi kabhi kisi ko jaannay aur samajhne k liye sari zindagy bhi kamm par jaty hai. Aur kabhi kabhi kisi ko samajhne k liye bass aik lamha kafi hota hai!"

Doosri baat yeh hai ki aik acchay admi ko jaannay k liye kuch cheezein zarur dekhna:

1) Does he lie on small small things?

2) How does he behave with his elders?

3)How does he behave with younger people?

4) How does he treat beggars/waiters in restaurants wagera? Does he treat them kindly? Is he rude towards them...etc

5) Does he keep his promises? Koi chhoti baat...koi chhoti si commitment? Can his word be valued?

6) Look around. Do people like him or are they afraid of him? Best criteria is to find out how this man is with his family members, like parents, siblings wagera. Kyunki baahir girl friend ya date ke sath tou Changez Khan bhi buht accha behave kere ga.. 😛 Asal gawaahi tou ghar ke ander ke loag dete hain... 😊

7) Check out if this person is Munaafiq (Hypocrite)...yani woh jo ander se kuch aur baahir se kuch aur hote hain. Munaafiq ki 3 signs hote hain:

- Jab bolay ga tou jhoot bolay ga

- Jab promise kere ga tou usko break ker de ga without any remorse...aur phir usko cover kerne k liye jhoot bolay ga.

- Ager uske pas koi amaanat rakhwai jaye, yani uski care mien apni koi buht precious cheez rakhwai jaye, tou munaafiq insan uss amaanat mien khayanat kere ga...yani he will not take care of your precious item. It wont be important for him at all.

MAJOR WARNING: Yeh signs nazar aajayein tou aisa admi gold ka bhi bann ker ajaye tou uss se shadi naa kerna!

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

yeah now when i think about it ..i think its possible.she might not be in a live in relation ship with him for 3 yesrs obviously .

so he may be meeting her may be in wek ends go out together for some time.

so its is easy for men to hide their personality in that 4 or 5 hours per week .

yes I AGREE WITH U AYESHA luck plays a major role too in relationships especially .

iam happy she was able to divorce him atleast and not stuck thank god

Originally posted by: Doreman

They were not in live in , but used to meet thrice or four days in a week. In those days actually he never moved closer to her or took advantage. He was very caring and really we friends were happy for her and helped but now we regret for it.

May be as Ayesha said it's her bad luck .

She is living away from him with her kid but not divorced. She still loves him a lot ,and ready to move on with him if he mends his ways.