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Posted: 7 years ago
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yes STOP , that's the main focal word when troubling /bullying is the issue.
Knowing when to stop and continuing to trouble someone when you see that the other person is not taking it well is the difference here.

Bullying is a very serious issue all over the world. There are many who have died not able to withstand it. it affects them mentally and results in behavioral changes

From the outset it may look trivial and not that serious what they are doing, but every person acts and reacts differently. If a person can see that their actions/words is hurting/troubling another , you should stop. Its very important to know when to stop what you are doing to avoid serious situations that may or may not happen because of your actions.

what Shilpa did today may look funny to some, may look trivial to some, may look serious to some but what matters most is what Vikas felt and definitely he felt uncomfortable. That's when Shilpa should have stopped , if she continued knowing that the other person is not taking it well and is having an adverse affect, she is in the wrong.

If vikas did the same previously, he was wrong too.




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Posted: 7 years ago
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Manipulation king, the master mind of this season couldn't take two people singing songs which were hurting his ego. Oouch.
He said to Bb " sab mere against hai" 😆 Bhai khud corner ho gaye toh ansu aa gaye? Kuch der pehle aap hi shilpa k ansuo ko nautanki bolre the.
Tit for tat, ye toh Vikas ne hi establish kiya hai BB house me.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I bet people like Shilpa Shinde dont even stop at stop signs.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: tina59

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">yes STOP , that's the main focal word when troubling /bullying is the issue.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">Knowing when to stop and continuing to trouble someone when you see that the other person is not taking it well is the difference here.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">Bullying is a very serious issue all over the world. There are many who have died not able to withstand it. it affects them mentally and results in behavioralchanges</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">From the outset it may look trivial and not that serious what they are doing, but every person acts and reacts differently. If a person can see that their actions/words is hurting/troubling another , you should stop. Its very important to know when to stop what you are doing to avoid serious situations that may or may not happen because of your actions.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">what Shilpa did today may look funny to some, may look trivial to some, may look serious to some but what matters most is what Vikas felt and definitely he felt uncomfortable. That's when Shilpa should have stopped , if she continued knowing that the other person is not taking it well and is having an adverse affect, she is in the wrong.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">If vikas did the same previously, he was wrong too.</font>





Agreed with your each word! 👏
Well said. Thx 4 the post
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I've read many time before that if bullies knew the affect they were having on the individual, they would stop. But I disagree. It's not always the case - not always so clear cut. There are people out there that are well aware of the impact their words and actions have on an individual, and yet they will not stop because they gain sadistic pleasure from it.

I have experienced bullying, so when I watch an epi like this, I feel uncomfortable. Can't believe I'm reading comments at the forum where people are saying they enjoyed it. Since when has mental torture become a past time? Sorry but the world is becoming more and more twisted with time.

A thoughtful post, TM.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Shilpa shindey is a cheap fake woman.
She just wants 2 defame vikas
But she is an awsm actress thats y iski asli chehra logo ko nai dikh rai
Lekin asli nagin shilpa shindey khud hai
Vikas ne actually career nahi barbad ki hain
Par he is connected with that gang n production house islie shilpa bas apni bhadas nikal rai hai vikas pe
Kyu ki use pata hai vikas is actually innocent
There is a problem with the world jo chez abhi shilpa vikas k sath kar rahi hai wahi chez agar vikas ne shilpa k sath ki hoti toh dunia uthal puthal ho jati
So much hypocrisy !
2nite episode has made me sad so much that i came 2 this forum 4 the 1st time
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Posted: 7 years ago
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STOP over analyzing the issue...BB team aren't stupid not to figure out the seriousness
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angry_Birdie

Manipulation king, the master mind of this season couldn't take two people singing songs which were hurting his ego. Oouch.

He said to Bb " sab mere against hai" 😆 Bhai khud corner ho gaye toh ansu aa gaye? Kuch der pehle aap hi shilpa k ansuo ko nautanki bolre the.
Tit for tat, ye toh Vikas ne hi establish kiya hai BB house me.



Kya faida iska? Even if you are enjoying it, She is only losing fans and nothing else 😆
I think before leaving BB she will make sure to make Vikas the hero of this season , just like Karishna Tanna made sure Gautam Gulati to be hero and herself the vamp 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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shilpa did this shilpa did that.how conveniently people forget how guptaji with his chamchas harassed shilpa in first week .even threw water on her .even bigg boss edited that footage and didn't telecast it on TV. just because shilpa didn't cry at that time.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SuPeRNaTuRaLs-



Kya faida iska? Even if you are enjoying it, She is only losing fans and nothing else 😆
I think before leaving BB she will make sure to make Vikas the hero of this season , just like Karishna Tanna made sure Gautam Gulati to be hero and herself the vamp 😆

😆 A few might think that VIKAS is a hero lolwaaa but, at least i dont. People who really are her fans are still with her.

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