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Nefetina

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Posted: 8 years ago

Beautiful episode. 👏 I had written a lengthy post earlier on my expectations for Rikara and now all has gone "tai tai phiss". 😛 😆 No matter, as in the end I wanted a reboot on their relationship and we have got that hopefully. One major misunderstanding has been cleared and that has changed a lot of things in their relationship.

Coming to the episode, I loved the protective Omkara shielding Gauri from Bua maa although it was a brief scene. I want to see more of the protective side of Om in future. 😳 And the final Rikara scene was beautifully shot and acted. 👏

Calm and quietly remorseful Omkara and the dabang Gauri from the initial episode. This was the Gauri before the Kali misunderstanding- the one who bulldozed his car and in the same day also returned his phone to him reminding him to call his family. 😆😆😆 The duet Saathiya was the icing on the cake.

Gauri asked all the right questions. You don't accept this marriage, so why do you want me to stay back? What is our relationship, that I may rightfully stay back?

And Omkara has no answer to this, he can't define what his feelings towards Gauri are, maybe they need no name at this point. He just wants her to stay. He wants to unravel the puzzle that is Gauri, resolve the conflict between what he saw and heard then and what he sees and feels now.

Thank God they didn't show that he has accepted the marriage as he was shown to be commitment phobic. Even Gauri's feelings are largely dominated by the fact that he is her husband and savior. Gauri should not love "husband Omkara", instead she should fall in love with the real Omkara, flaws and all. I hope it is a gradual journey of love and acceptance for both of them.

PS: I have a lot of questions regarding logic, continuation and reactions (or lack of),😕 but I'll let it slide as the tracks were wrapped up hurriedly for the merger. 🤔

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Posted: 8 years ago

Ok I am blind Om fan so will praise him because no one else does that. Om again proved that he is best character with all flaws still the best and really strong. He is known as truth lover and emotional person still everytime he is shown as a person who handles his emotions nicely. He immerse himself completely when he takes up a responsibility fulfill it with full loyality and diginity but didnt break down when he is cheated. He takes cheating, heart breaks, allegations in most dignified manner. Yes he get angry, hurt but doesnt breakdown. Today. he proved once again this he really loved his BM with complete heart became her son and always tried to reduce her pain but after knowing truth he was angry but not broken he handled BM in most dignified manner who actually tried to kill him still caring about her pain and do what was best for her health.

He also understood Gauri's intentions above her lie even though it must have hurt him and didnt accuse her for cheating and lies. He took the news that he is not becoming father too very decently. He is person understand the intentions he dont accuse them rather see the other side of coin.

Only 2 things that had broken him till date his mother's pain and his own guilt of doing some crime but others betrayal or lie cant break him yep he can be angry, hateful but still strong enough to handle himself.

Om is very firm and know how to handle situations he decided it is for best interest for BM to get treated he handled dadi and Janvi in most nice way. Forgivness and understanding is good thing but sometime firm decisions are need to be taken not only to protect family but person himself. Janvi and dadi were inclined about how he should understand BM or Let her stay in house but Om rightly told that BM should accept the truth and need the treatment. He showed it is good to love and forgive someone but it is also necessary to show them right path.

Today Gauri was right about her self respect and I loved it and her intentions were also right and she indeed showed that how his rudeness hurted her and he felt guilty and apologised to her. I agree whatever she did for Oms life but hooefully in future she also understand how lies can be hurtful and not all problems can be solved with lies. She should now love and understand real Om not because he is her pati but because the kind of person he is. I want to see the respect from Gauri for Om as person not Om as husband. Hopefully it happens in future. Om has taken his first step to understand and respect Gauri as person i wish Gauri to take first step to understand and respect Om as person.

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Nefetina

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Dilbole_ShiOmRu
Ok I am blind Om fan so will praise him because no one else does that. Om again proved that he is best character with all flaws still the best and really strong. He is known as truth lover and emotional person still everytime he is shown as a person who handles his emotions nicely. He immerse himself completely when he takes up a responsibility fulfill it with full loyality and diginity but didnt break down when he is cheated. He takes cheating, heart breaks, allegations in most dignified manner. Yes he get angry, hurt but doesnt breakdown. Today. he proved once again this he really loved his BM with complete heart became her son and always tried to reduce her pain but after knowing truth he was angry but not broken he handled BM in most dignified manner who actually tried to kill him still caring about her pain and do what was best for her health.
He also understood Gauri's intentions above her lie even though it must have hurt him and didnt accuse her for cheating and lies. He took the news that he is not becoming father too very decently. He is person understand the intentions he dont accuse them rather see the other side of coin.
Only 2 things that had broken him till date his mother's pain and his own guilt of doing some crime but others betrayal or lie cant break him yep he can be angry, hateful but still strong enough to handle himself.
Om is very firm and know how to handle situations he decided it is for best interest for BM to get treated he handled dadi and Janvi in most nice way. Forgivness and understanding is good thing but sometime firm decisions are need to be taken not only to protect family but person himself. Janvi and dadi were inclined about how he should understand BM or Let her stay in house but Om rightly told that BM should accept the truth and need the treatment. He showed it is good to love and forgive someone but it is also necessary to show them right path.
Today Gauri was right about her self respect and I loved it and her intentions were also right and she indeed showed that how his rudeness hurted her and he felt guilty and apologised to her. I agree whatever she did for Oms life but hooefully in future she also understand how lies can be hurtful and not all problems can be solved with lies. She should now love and understand real Om not because he is her pati but because the kind of person he is. I want to see the respect from Gauri for Om as person not Om as husband. Hopefully it happens in future. Om has taken his first step to understand and respect Gauri as person i wish Gauri to take first step to understand and respect Om as person.

Om as a character is a sensitive soul with a strong moral conscience and character. He is flawed but has no qualms in accepting them. One of the greatest strengths of Om's character is his ability to view things from other's perspective and lack of ego when it comes to matters such as apologizing when in wrong. Due to bad writing in this show his core character was butchered horribly but now we can finally see the old Om resurfacing.

He is known for being level headed and he took the correct decision with regards to Bua maa, something his elders couldn't do. As for the pregnancy, the whole matter was not addressed in anyway. 😕

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NESRIA

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Posted: 8 years ago

yes I FELT WE GOT THE OLD GAURI AND OM BEFORE all the drama they have gone through

i HOPE THEY give each other a chance to khnow each other as person

they are more than freinds but they are not lovers not yet

their story still longgg

even gauri she still not in love with her omkaraa

and he he doesnt even who she is how she lived before him what her background what are her life scars bcz every one does have a painful memory in his life...

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Nefetina

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: NESRIA
yes I FELT WE GOT THE OLD GAURI AND OM BEFORE all the drama they have gone through
i HOPE THEY give each other a chance to khnow each other as person

they are more than freinds but they are not lovers not yet

their story still longgg

even gauri she still not in love with her omkaraa
and he he doesnt even who she is how she lived before him what her background what are her life scars bcz every one does have a painful memory in his life...

True they are at an uncertain stage in their "relationship", there is a bond, an attraction but not love..yet. 😳 Gauri's past is a mystery for the viewers as well and i feel there is more of Om's past to explore as well.

This makes for an interesting journey ahead if written well.

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NESRIA

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Nefetina

True they are at an uncertain stage in their "relationship", there is a bond, an attraction but not love..yet. 😳 Gauri's past is a mystery for the viewers as well and i feel there is more of Om's past to explore as well.
This makes for an interesting journey ahead if written well.

lets hope so 😉

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