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Love can never be forceful
Today Aru was trying to be too assertive in her rights as his wife and on her sole proprietory haq
on his love.. (which he has not even proclaimed as of yet) bt love can never b so selfish, heartless, self-centric, and so unkind.
Today an ugly side of love surfaced... it wasnt jealousy.. it was plain selfishness and forcefulness..
If Aru loves Mukhi.. truly.. she wudnt have felt the need to go begging for his love or asserting herself as his wife in front of Saanvi..
i m sure many wud think tht Saanvi wasnt too open to Aru abt Mukhi's likes and dislikes.. bt thn Aru never asked.. and she is not someone who wud again want to interfere betn a pati patni after being warned and insulted once already...
Sure Aru can make halwa.. way better than Saanvi perhaps.. bt then it didnt occur to her tht she is not considering Mukhi's likes here.. she didnt bother to inquire abt what he actually likes.. from anyone.. thr were lots of ppl.. apart from Saanvi.. Uma, Mastana.. even Rami who she cud've asked..
bt she jst went ahead and did everything as she liked and expected Mukhi to like it..
I m not saying tht Mukhi wasnt at fault here.. of course.. he didnt consider Aru's feelings here.. while cutting the cake..
How hard it was for Aru to make tht cake in cooker.. for the very first time.. at the crucial day of his birthday.. he cud've appreciated her hard work a bit...
this i extremely dislike abt Mukhi.. he never really praises Aru for her merits.. She is beautiful, simple, childlike, good and clean at heart, immature at times.. agreed bt she is also resourceful, brave, smart, intelligent, largehearted, deep, and extremely wonderful girl.. how many instances wud Mukhi need to realize the real Aru? No dbt Aru feels so insecure abt her love.. abt him.. he has never really verbally appreciated Aru for all the good qualities that she has as a person really...
on the other hand, there is Saanvi.. who he knows in and out.. bcoz thy r childhood buddies.. have been together for long.. and share a different kinda relation than Aru-Mukhi who till now mostly shared a nok-jhok wala and leg-pulling wala relation..
thy have never really had a heart-to-heart conversation.. thr is such huge lack of communication betn thm.. which Mukhi-Saanvi dont have..
and thts the reason why Aru is feeling suddenly so left out from Mukhi's life. she is again beginning to see herself as a complete stranger in Mukhi's life. No dbt he appreciates her.. bt she might think tht its jst his kindness.. and tht his real affection still lies with Saanvi.
I m sure its Saanvi's birthday too.. thts y he says Saanvi deserves the first piece.. bt Aru doesnt know tht..
and although she apologizes genuinenly to Saanvi for her earlier behavior she cannot completely shed off this feeling of being not the one so close enuf to Mukhi as Saanvi is.
So this is not really jealousy.. its a strange feeling of being not in the world of the man you love.. its really painful and very hurting to realize tht the one who u deeply love doesnt share the same feeling..
bt really you cannot keep pulling him towards you if he doesnt want.. its jst going to hurt you more..
and thts what's gonna happen with Aru..
she is being too forceful with Mukhi.. and in the process.. is going to be very rude to Saanvi (which is really not her intention..) and Mukhi is not going to like it..
the problem with Mukhi is though he reads and appreciates deep thoughtful writings.. he really doesnt understand people.. and thts the case of him with Aru from the beginning.. he has not tried to understand the real Aru.
Poor girl.. she really needs to learn and know what true love really is.. you cannot command true love, u jst recieve it with gratitude and humbleness.. and not until u have given yourself completely to that person tht u deserve tht love..
But Aru will learn.. in a bitter and harsh way.. bt she will learn.. tht Mukhi is not the kind of person who will come running after her on her demands.. of course he will love her.. bt not on her terms.. bt on the terms tht she truly deserves..
tommorrow we are going to see worse of this relationship... not bcoz of Saanvi or Raami bt bcoz of thy themselves..
bcoz thy still dont understand each other even after coming this far in thr relationship and sharing so much.. facing so much.. the distances betn two ppl r not covered physically, thy r covered mentally..
Today's epi also highlights the fact tht communication is very very imp for any relationship to foster..
To be open to each other.. to be considerate abt each other's feelings, likes, dislikes, mood swings, temperament.. its all part and parcel of being in love..
Love has always been and will be an "action form" and not jst a feeling.. you constantly need to dig deep within urself and keep reminding urself y u love this person so much and what on earth can u do to make him/her comfortable, at ease, happy, and content.
Live Love, dont jst proclaim it.
Song of the Day
Pyaar ka dard hai
Meetha meetha pyaara pyaara
Yeh hasi dard hi
Do dilo ka hain sahara
Thoda thoda, chain bhi hain
Thodi thodi, bekarari
Aur bhi ho, pyar jawa
Aarzoo hain, yeh hamari
Pyaar ka dard hai
Meetha meetha pyaara pyaara
please do hit the chaska meter if u loved the epi..
Further observations.. after I ponder over the epi.. 😛
Till thn enjoy..
its a wonderful journey of love.. ❤️ and really this ArMu relationship teaches us a lot abt love, relations, feelings, and kindness..
afterall..
Saanson Se Nahin
Kadmon Se Nahin
Mohabbat Se Chalti Hai Duniya❤️❤️
Daulat Se Nahin
Taakat Se Nahin
Mohabbat Se Chalti Hai Duniya Duniya❤️❤️
btw.. Where is Cora ? We are missing u dear.. jaldi se aa jao.. the fun at the forum awaits u eagerly... 😳
Today Aru was trying to be too assertive in her rights as his wife and on her sole proprietory haq
on his love.. (which he has not even proclaimed as of yet) bt love can never b so selfish, heartless, self-centric, and so unkind.
Today an ugly side of love surfaced... it wasnt jealousy.. it was plain selfishness and forcefulness..
If Aru loves Mukhi.. truly.. she wudnt have felt the need to go begging for his love or asserting herself as his wife in front of Saanvi..
i m sure many wud think tht Saanvi wasnt too open to Aru abt Mukhi's likes and dislikes.. bt thn Aru never asked.. and she is not someone who wud again want to interfere betn a pati patni after being warned and insulted once already...
Sure Aru can make halwa.. way better than Saanvi perhaps.. bt then it didnt occur to her tht she is not considering Mukhi's likes here.. she didnt bother to inquire abt what he actually likes.. from anyone.. thr were lots of ppl.. apart from Saanvi.. Uma, Mastana.. even Rami who she cud've asked..
bt she jst went ahead and did everything as she liked and expected Mukhi to like it..
I m not saying tht Mukhi wasnt at fault here.. of course.. he didnt consider Aru's feelings here.. while cutting the cake..
How hard it was for Aru to make tht cake in cooker.. for the very first time.. at the crucial day of his birthday.. he cud've appreciated her hard work a bit...
this i extremely dislike abt Mukhi.. he never really praises Aru for her merits.. She is beautiful, simple, childlike, good and clean at heart, immature at times.. agreed bt she is also resourceful, brave, smart, intelligent, largehearted, deep, and extremely wonderful girl.. how many instances wud Mukhi need to realize the real Aru? No dbt Aru feels so insecure abt her love.. abt him.. he has never really verbally appreciated Aru for all the good qualities that she has as a person really...
on the other hand, there is Saanvi.. who he knows in and out.. bcoz thy r childhood buddies.. have been together for long.. and share a different kinda relation than Aru-Mukhi who till now mostly shared a nok-jhok wala and leg-pulling wala relation..
thy have never really had a heart-to-heart conversation.. thr is such huge lack of communication betn thm.. which Mukhi-Saanvi dont have..
and thts the reason why Aru is feeling suddenly so left out from Mukhi's life. she is again beginning to see herself as a complete stranger in Mukhi's life. No dbt he appreciates her.. bt she might think tht its jst his kindness.. and tht his real affection still lies with Saanvi.
I m sure its Saanvi's birthday too.. thts y he says Saanvi deserves the first piece.. bt Aru doesnt know tht..
and although she apologizes genuinenly to Saanvi for her earlier behavior she cannot completely shed off this feeling of being not the one so close enuf to Mukhi as Saanvi is.
So this is not really jealousy.. its a strange feeling of being not in the world of the man you love.. its really painful and very hurting to realize tht the one who u deeply love doesnt share the same feeling..
bt really you cannot keep pulling him towards you if he doesnt want.. its jst going to hurt you more..
and thts what's gonna happen with Aru..
she is being too forceful with Mukhi.. and in the process.. is going to be very rude to Saanvi (which is really not her intention..) and Mukhi is not going to like it..
the problem with Mukhi is though he reads and appreciates deep thoughtful writings.. he really doesnt understand people.. and thts the case of him with Aru from the beginning.. he has not tried to understand the real Aru.
Poor girl.. she really needs to learn and know what true love really is.. you cannot command true love, u jst recieve it with gratitude and humbleness.. and not until u have given yourself completely to that person tht u deserve tht love..
But Aru will learn.. in a bitter and harsh way.. bt she will learn.. tht Mukhi is not the kind of person who will come running after her on her demands.. of course he will love her.. bt not on her terms.. bt on the terms tht she truly deserves..
tommorrow we are going to see worse of this relationship... not bcoz of Saanvi or Raami bt bcoz of thy themselves..
bcoz thy still dont understand each other even after coming this far in thr relationship and sharing so much.. facing so much.. the distances betn two ppl r not covered physically, thy r covered mentally..
Today's epi also highlights the fact tht communication is very very imp for any relationship to foster..
To be open to each other.. to be considerate abt each other's feelings, likes, dislikes, mood swings, temperament.. its all part and parcel of being in love..
Love has always been and will be an "action form" and not jst a feeling.. you constantly need to dig deep within urself and keep reminding urself y u love this person so much and what on earth can u do to make him/her comfortable, at ease, happy, and content.
Live Love, dont jst proclaim it.
Song of the Day
Pyaar ka dard hai
Meetha meetha pyaara pyaara
Yeh hasi dard hi
Do dilo ka hain sahara
Thoda thoda, chain bhi hain
Thodi thodi, bekarari
Aur bhi ho, pyar jawa
Aarzoo hain, yeh hamari
Pyaar ka dard hai
Meetha meetha pyaara pyaara
please do hit the chaska meter if u loved the epi..
Further observations.. after I ponder over the epi.. 😛
Till thn enjoy..
its a wonderful journey of love.. ❤️ and really this ArMu relationship teaches us a lot abt love, relations, feelings, and kindness..
afterall..
Saanson Se Nahin
Kadmon Se Nahin
Mohabbat Se Chalti Hai Duniya❤️❤️
Daulat Se Nahin
Taakat Se Nahin
Mohabbat Se Chalti Hai Duniya Duniya❤️❤️
btw.. Where is Cora ? We are missing u dear.. jaldi se aa jao.. the fun at the forum awaits u eagerly... 😳
Ishaani
Cricket
