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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NYCForever


@mads - kya baat hai your big forum debut is here 😉

i agree with everything u said but above paragraph has stuck its cord with me the most. we have known and it seems like so has anika that she is not a priority in his life - just not yet. she is not the number 1 she has always wanted to be in someone's life and she was fine with that as she was in love and would have lived with it too if not for pinky

but i feel good that she said it all - she deserves respect which she doesnt get. shivaay's idiotic all grown up, 18+ sister gets married - blame anika, yell at her, pinky keeps insulting anika - the moment she says something back for 8+ months of insult - shivaay cant take it and the list goes on and on

he shouldnt have to chose, i am not saying that but instead of my family vs u - it should be our family, lets sort it out but no. he just uses her as a big punching bag all the time.

she said nothing but the truth and he throws her out - pinky did the same drama, even tia when she got media involved with pregnancy - none were thrown out! oh the irony - she doesnt have the respect she deserved in the house and thats what she used against him to hurt him where it hurts the most. also, what kind of pot does dadi smoke to say - u have all the respect in this house anika 😆😆😆


lol finally someone put it in the right way what I want to say 100% agree with your words,if he really loves her he would think later with calm mind that anika can never do this particularly regarding omru,he would meet her once atleast after a week to know exactly what is the reason behind all this,he should find something fishy here,she was fine in the room she suddenly changed her words,if he really undertands even her silence & trust her so much then why can't read her mind & heart
He had done much more horrible things to her brother😡 he used her brother & that child knows everything what had happened with him in the force wedding video later,but she forgived him but how can he even think anika can do this even in his dream,he & his family shouted at her so many times,what will happen if she shout at once,can't he forgive her?That old heartattack expression lady😡 always ignores when Pinky shouted at her & didn't even stop Pinky & most of the time she didn't even present in the house to know how much respect she is getting on daily basis.
Wah what a logic that 8 year old boy was insulted by his own mom ,called that child thief & she even tried to call police,then why can't he throw her mom or didn't even shouted at her when Kapoor is not around,what if that child gets affected,So according to him the 8 yr old boy is soo strong than that 28 yr old drug addict brother😡,but he can throw her out now & can move on to get marry other woman,wah what a logic hats off to harneet & gul,i never seen such a sadistic ladies😡,i don't get why some people in Twitter justifying Shivay's behavior & feeling pity at him for rejection of his proposal,it had no meaning if he didn't trust her.Anika is Mahaan sacrificing crying goat for all the stupid Oberoi family,sorry for my rant,i expected him to feel something fishy here.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Nihara...

lol finally someone put it in the right way what I want to say 100% agree with your words,if he really loves her he would think later with calm mind that anika can never do this particularly regarding omru,he would meet her once atleast after a week to know exactly what is the reason behind all this,he should find something fishy here,she was fine in the room she suddenly changed her words,if he really undertands even her silence & trust her so much then why can't read her mind & heart
He had done much more horrible things to her brother😡 he used her brother & that child knows everything what had happened with him in the force wedding video later,but she forgived him but how can he even think anika can do this even in his dream,he & his family shouted at her so many times,what will happen if she shout at once,can't he forgive her?That old heartattack expression lady😡 always ignores when Pinky shouted at her & didn't even stop Pinky & most of the time she didn't even present in the house to know how much respect she is getting on daily basis.
Wah what a logic that 8 year old boy was insulted by his own mom ,called that child thief & she even tried to call police,then why can't he throw her mom or didn't even shouted at her when Kapoor is not around,what if that child gets affected,So according to him the 8 yr old boy is soo strong than that 28 yr old drug addict brother😡,but he can throw her out now & can move on to get marry other woman,wah what a logic hats off to harneet & gul,i never seen such a sadistic ladies😡,i don't get why some people in Twitter justifying Shivay's behavior & feeling pity at him for rejection of his proposal,it had no meaning if he didn't trust her.Anika is Mahaan sacrificing crying goat for all the stupid Oberoi family,sorry for my rant,i expected him to feel something fishy here.

exactly... What if today Pinky is attacking Om instead of Annika..Will he throw her out too???
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He kisses her madly when she apologise even she is not at fault,but throw her out 😡or can't tolerate her if she say something truth this is his so called "love" & "trust" she never get any respect as his wife in that family,he never try to establish it in that house except in his hormonal state,he believe Pinky even if she continuosly spitting venom from her mouth & never warned her loudly to give respect to her as his wife.but anika should repect her even she mentioned about her background 1000 times.😡,he yelled at her in front of whole family & apologised for that in the private pool,then how can others respect her if he is treating her as per his mood
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Posted: 8 years ago
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So glad u had d guts to post this...i was silently enjoying a little guilty pleasure in annikas words today...so true n if not for this track she wouldnt hv had a chance to say it...she is so forgiving but shivaay needed to hear it n so did i ..she has indeed been insulted so many times but she does it once n she gets thrown out,really shivaay? ... love my shivika but yeah it had to said annika ... but what stumps me is again omru n janvi think that this is d way to protect shivaay n actually supporting her in this, seriously this family!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She should have told him all this long time ago, why now when she is also guilty of hiding the biggest truth about him. If Shivaay has no trust on Annika neither does she trust him to handle the harsh truth.
Why should Shivaay dig deeper not his responsibility, it's Annika to tell him the truth after all she looks knows this from long time ago. I am sorry don't not find logic in this. She should have been honest then it would have been on Shivaay whether to believe it or not. Her responsibility would have been over.

I want Shivaay to give Annika and rest of his family piece of his mind when he get to know how they all played with his love and emotions by hiding such a big thing from him. This is his life truth we are talking about. Then leave them and prove to them he is able to handle anything life throws on him by just becoming Shivaay.

I hope for once these cv stop justifying lying of FL, a lie is a lie and no justification will make me think so otherwise.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunflower52

She should have told him all this long time ago, why now when she is also guilty of hiding the biggest truth about him. If Shivaay has no trust on Annika neither does she trust him to handle the harsh truth.

Why should Shivaay dig deeper not his responsibility, it's Annika to tell him the truth after all she looks knows this from long time ago. I am sorry don't not find logic in this. She should have been honest then it would have been on Shivaay whether to believe it or not. Her responsibility would have been over.

I want Shivaay to give Annika and rest of his family piece of his mind when he get to know how they all played with his love and emotions by hiding such a big thing from him. This is his life truth we are talking about. Then leave them and prove to them he is able to handle anything life throws on him by just becoming Shivaay.

I hope for once these cv stop justifying lying of FL, a lie is a lie and no justification will make me think so otherwise.






Here the "trust" refers to trust in their relationship,Anika had done so much to gain his trust that he is numb1 in her life,About she should tell long before-,did he give any chance to her to tell anything?he is witnessing with his own eyes that her mother insulting her constantly,but he never believes if anika say anything & shout at her even if she start the word "Pinky" from her mouth,but Shivay has still more to do to gain her trust that she is numb1 or equal to his family in his life,what if om do similar thing to her & if he still delete him from his life completely?He doesn't believe om can do that even if om pretend something like anika,then why not believe or trust her now.Anika has blindfaith on Shivay in these type of things why not Shivay have even she proved 1000 times?PS:am not justifying anika's behaviour at all,she is dumb,fool & stupid.But how can anika trust him that he himself told that he can't tolerate it if it is him in the place of Anika in NT track,his nkk still there except in anika's case.Here anika has no trust in Shivay how much he loves her,shivay is failed to gain her trust particularly in this track.But the way she is doing is not justifiable either.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am in love with this post.
Adding on to everything you said, yes the SHIVIKA SHIPPER in me cried my heart out for Shivaay. The man was so sure that HIS wife will say yes.NM made me cry for Shivaay.
This track is more like Karma for him which doesn't cares if the person has changed for good.
Despite the fact that he has totally won me with all his husband drool worthy acts lately, he never gave Annika the family wali position.

TBH i dont relate to Annika doing any sort of Mahaan Bahu act. I am ignoring this whole TRP induced drama. But what strikes me the most amidst this is everytime, like literally every time something goes wrong- Any SHIVIKA fight leads to 'get out of MY house'

And this annoys me big time.Its always about his family respect, his image, his NKK, his brother, his mother, his house.
She comes after all of them. And she knows that too or at least she thinks that about her self because Shivaay didnt give her anything to think other wise.

Also assuming Om was illegitimate, which Shivaay still thinks is true. There was literally nothing she said that was not true.
YES Shivaay changed for Annika, he cares for her, he even loves her but not like Om.
He changed his life long belief for him in a sec but with her he did ask for time. Not bashing him but he himself has shown annika her place in his life which is secondary to his family.

Annika is handling the situation in the crappiest way possible but i dont blame her because she is still uncertain about her position in his life

PS- dadi has lost it.😕😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: teehee



OMG 😆 ! YOU'RE STILL AROUND! I thought you quit when Daksh reentered !



hahaha and u are as well. i quit and then came back hun - not watching it much these days just come to the forum but did watch aaj ke anika bajaayongi Oberoi scenes as i always wanted her to stand up for herself 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NYCForever



hahaha and u are as well. i quit and then came back hun - not watching it much these days just come to the forum but did watch aaj ke anika bajaayongi Oberoi scenes as i always wanted her to stand up for herself 🥳


Ruz, chalo one wish of yours came true. time to party. 😆


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mads

Before we get down to ridiculing Anika's idea, let us all consider this - IT WORKED.

So apparently, even the stage Shivaay is at, so irrevocably in love with her...one word against his family makes him directly jump to- mere ghar se nikal jao. No middle ground, no "baith ke baat karte hai"... it's a direct "you insulted my family, you have no right to live here (notice the emphasis on 'my'). So the very person he has claimed to be his family, cannot live with the rest of his family membwrs because she spoke some harsh truths about them. The fact remains that for him, even now.. Anika and his family are mutually exclusive entities. Anf the fact that Anika could use this knowledge so effectively to get the reaction she wanted, just shows that she too knows what her place is in that house, in his life. One cannot help but wonder what would have happened had Anika reacted like this to a normal family matter where according to Shivaay she shouldn't have.

Not that Anika is at any less at fault here... she has been exactly as ruthless as shivaay had been when he'd forced her to marry him. The only difference being, he knew he snatched her identity and beliefs, while she knows she is preserving his. Because it is happening at this stage in their relationship her actions seem harsher but essentially they are the same. They are equals alright.

Once, she had told him "aapko fark padega, jab aapke zindagi ke faisle koi aur lega..." inadvertently, she taught it to him today... although he might not even be aware about it. But that's good. A heartbroken Shivaay (especially if the reason is Anika) is a threat to not only himself, but the people around him...but an angry Shivaay will save his ruthlessness only and only for Anika, coz in his eyes his family has been victimized.

This is not just a journey of shivaay learning to accept Anika as an equal member of his family, this is Anika's journey to finally finding that someone who would consider her as the topmost priority in her life and for once, she wouldn't need to fight for her happiness. This is shivaay's journey of realizing that true love is unconditional and Anika's journey of trusting and not letting go of that true love for any price.



Hello Stranger! 😆

@Bold - This one line summarizes what we are headed for.

Anika knows Shivaay and his weakness.. his brothers, his family. Like Shivaay knew Anika's weakness.. her brother, her family. She knew where to hit him to hurt the most so that he retaliates in the worst possible manner. He used it against her to protect 'his' family, likewise, she used it against him to protect 'her' family - Him.

Anika wasn't prepared for the surprise. She's forgiven him for the wedding already. She's accepted him for what he is and whatever bad memories she had, Shivaay took them away. What she did next wasn't part of her plan, shunning him and belittling his preparations was her using the situation to her advantage. Ruthless Anika! Look at her waiting for him to snap at her after every jibe she made. Of course he didn't react, until it was between them. He knew Anika wasn't like this. That's their growth so far.

Hamare beech jo bhi hai vo hamara hai... They've created their own bubble and learnt to live in it. But they still need to learn to keep holding onto it when any outside force threatens to break them apart. In the jungle they promised to keep changing each other for each other.. that it's going to be a journey and not one day or year. Anika has huge abandonment issues, she does not have a sense of belonging in OM. She's always looked up to Shivaay for fighting for her when it comes to his family. And her fears haven't been wrong. She fully expected Shivaay to choose his family over her, which he ultimately did. But Shivaay can't be blamed here right now. He was intentionally cornered and he got in the trap. Still it raises questions on his priorities. And that is a journey of his own to make. They both need to learn to prioritize themselves. If He needs to tend to her insecurities then She too needs to learn to not make decisions for him and let him decide how he wants to balance his relationships with his wife and family.

This "reboot" isn't going to bring them back to square one. They have months of baggage with them ahead. Back then, Shivaay withdrew in his shell when his feelings for Anika overwhelmed him. Now, He's gonna hurt her using the new girl. That's his hurt making him do it, but watch him get desperate for her reaction.

Like you said to me before, taking one week at a time.. I'm judging their growth, their arc solely on what we get in the episodes and no other random speculations.

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