Sona is wrong. Bijoy had liked Dev - Page 2

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This wS just to show issueworry as mahan
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Yeah ur right. Yesterday's shirtless scene just reiterated ur theory. U know what. Sona u know why she's so good to ish it's just coz she wants to b in Dev's good books. She is pathetic as a daughter. I realize today how good were the Ekta Kapoor leads. Sona is a pathetic, weak, inferring, self-respect less push over. Nw she will confess her live. Another sign of push over. So conveniently she blamed bijoy, maami ke saamne bhigi billi ban jaati hain. So convenient.


A protective father is not a bad father and Bijoy a step ahead--he is a progressive dad. He talks to Sona. He has understood her love for Dev many times in the past and backed off. He has given in to her way of living and her choices. But he often said Sona is his pride and he does not want her humbled again and again because of Dixits. My god to see you child make the same mistake the thrid time is a bit much for any one. Besides Sona has said repeatedly that she has no feelings for Dev, so why should he not stand firm on his decision
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: bashingHater2

Bijoy never supported Dev. He was always against him no matter what. It was not Bijoy who went to Dev's office and got impressed by his good nature. It was certainly not Bijoy who supported Dev when he came with the cake at Asha's birthday. It was not Bijoy who had readily accepted Dev after knowing his daughter loves him. It was certainly not Bijoy who wanted to quicly fix their alliance because he really liked Dev. It was certainly not Bijoy who for his daughter's happiness was ready to accept Dev after their first breakup and give him second chance. It was certainly not Bijoy who sided with Dev during dinner at Boses' house. Bijoy did not support Dev when Sonakshi was upset that Dev was mamma's boy who did not know how to fold clothes. Bijoy never supported Dev and he was not the one who favored Dev during the Masoori track

It was Asha who disguised as Bijoy by wearing a fake wig and plastic replica of Bijoy's face. She was doing all this for her beloved Dev.🤢🤢

On a serious note, Sonakshi knows that love is more than sexual attraction which is why she is hiding her fears in pretext of Bijoy's promise. She might confess her love and her feelings but wont jump in relation with Dev. (If CV's dont plan to change her role)

She has rescuer syndrome so she wants to act as a martyr by selflessly helping people especially those who have personality disorders (Ishwari and Dev). Since Bijoy did not have one, so she is not inclined to help him.

Today we saw Bijoy's anankastic disorder reaching its peak because he has been left out in all the family decisions. He got so angry with feeling of being left out that he wanted to make sure that Dev goes ahead with this wedding. So who is at fault here? If this continues, he might have a nervous breakdown. So he needs to either let go off Sonakshi and live her life (because she wants Dev) or leave for Kolkata, marry that woman he was flirting with during the infertility track and live happily ever after.

With this, it is definitely wrong of her to shout at her father since she has been the one keeping things from her father. She is acting strong in front of him and showing him that she has moved on but is not sharing her pain with him. He is a protective father who needs assurance that his daughter wont get hurt. He will make sure that Dev does not hurt his daughter if she conveys that she still loves him. Unlike last time, he will make sure Dev right fully gets his daughter if he wishes to live his life with her.

No matter what the CV's do with his character, I wont buy that he was jealous of Sonakshi and Dev's relation. And even if he was, he has never been hypocritical about it unlike Ishwari who acted to like Sonakshi but behind Dev vehemently insulted her.

Regarding Asha, she is repsonsible for Sonakshi's rescuer syndrome which stops Sonakshi from being strong and independent.

Devakshi were one couple I always liked Their love was pure, blissful and intense. But Wednesdays shirt scene was a bit too much. To show a 33 woman lust over a 35 year old man's biceps was a bit hi school. It looked like a hi school girl crush thing. I mean i strongly blue love makes u get lost in the person that u love but that scene looked like she was crushing on him. Something abt the scene I don't know.
I think the first half of the scene was very badly directed.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i may be an odd man out here, lets face it. who is the one who constantly thinks that Sona is totally flawless? isn't it bijoy who keeps on reiterating that Sona is a strong, independent woman?
People like bijoy may be a rock solid support to look at, but to be growing under such a parent, we cannot expect the kids to not get influenced or overshadowed by their parents.

He is like a banyan tree, it grows strong and protects by its shade, but reality is it will never let anything grow within its shade.

he might be a strong father, but the reality is, it is SONA's LIFE, her story, her mistakes, her learning and her shortfalls. As a parent all he can do it hold her when she tumbles or lend her a hand to lift her up after she tumbles, but he cannot prevent her from tumbling.


Edited by randomramblings - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg

as much as I adore Bijoy and love Sonakshi... today was a bit tuff. to me, both are messed up right now.. Thanks to maa beta, yet again. Bijoy, whom I've love, is refusing to see the pain behind his daughter's smile. and sonakshi, is taking her anger/frustration/hurt/pain on one person she loves the most.. her dad! both are allowing the past to see the present clearly and deal with it. I've read some comments that Sonakshi is worse daughter... I don't agree with that. She is going through a lot, her own doing.. granted. and she took it out on one she loves the most!!!! and looking for excusing to justify the situation, any which way. That doesn't make her bad... just human. to make matters worse, Asha/Ishwari/Dev are playing games, manipulating situations and involving kids😡

just hoping to make Dev and ishwari mahaan, they don't make Bijoy, the villiain.


You have put it so well. I agree with your thoughts

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