First night attempt #1 ... 5.6 [CAPs]+ crazy discussion VB note :pg 9 - Page 7

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Posted: 8 years ago
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omggg😆😆 i can't, i just can't get over this thread. reading all these experiences and the helpful *ahem* suggestions am laughing out loud like an idiot😆😆 god bless the corp to have given me a separate room else i swear i would have been admitted to an asylum for the facial havoc, people would have seen me expressing😆
this is the best guide ever😆 thanksss a lottt to all the lovely volunteers out there like navin di, nargis di, anisa di, gouri di, nim_var, asya34 di and others😆

asya34 ur christian wedding 😆 i had dreamt about having such a wedding once upon a time . now although i don't , ur description just made me literally roll over the floor 😆 only u could have done it 👏and whaaattt u weighed only that much?????????? *smiley faints*

navin di ☺️ oh don't be, and please do share such suggestions. this is one of the best outcomes from the forum. i don't have any sibilings, and am sure there are many like me who need such guidance. ur one shot ONS is the very first story i read after coming to IF and i know how passionate yet decent it was written(big time fan of it) 😉 sooo u know what am trying to say😉

if and when i feel like marrying , this will be like my magnta carta😆 wanna say bible but no ive done enough sins already talking about sins😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7


Should I rate this thread as MATURE? 😆


please do😆😆😆my cheeks are burning and am trying really hard not to laugh hard😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7


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<font color="#9900cc">Savi, it's okay. You're a normal girl with desires. We have hormones too. We are allowed to want to feel pleasures of making love with the man we love.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">i believe what you experience quickly is called an orgasm. It's a good thing trust me.😆nothing to be ashamed about. Some people are aroused faster and reach climax faster. i can understand why its awkward being a single girl.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">Trust me you'll be fine post marriage. Get to know your future husband better now and trust will take you a long way. Believe me if he is a gentleman he will enjoy the fact that you arouse easily, makes for a lot of fun in bed for him too.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">i had a friend who had extremely painful experiences with intercourse. She would tell me it was like being stuck with knives over and over. She had something called vaginismus ,which is a medical condition that makes the passage too tight and makes intercourse extremely painful. She had a rough few months of marriage, but eventually it improved and she now has 3 kids, happily married too.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">It's okay, you'll be fine post marriage. If you have dirty thoughts and you trust your guy, he'll have a fun time with you. Just relax and be yourself. Girls are allowed to enjoy sex too, no shame in that.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">Multiple orgasms in women is possible, of course. Some women are done with just the one and it's ok also. As long as you are happy in that moment. Just relax and enjoy the feeling of intimacy with the man you love.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">For me , making love is not about the position or how fast you finished, or how long you lasted, but to feel that intimacy , of being loved , at that point your guy is concentrated wholly on you, so be there and participate like you want to be there. Don't leave him doing everything alone, he gets insecure too. They don't always know what to do.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">Touch back , kiss back, imitate what he does, watch his response, you'll find yourself so pleased that he enjoyed it too. Enjoying it does not always mean orgasm(s) but sharing intimacy.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">If you have specific issues let me know.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">p/s: forget about that guy, he wasn't that into you. focus on your fiance.</font>
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<font color="#9900cc">Should I rate this thread as MATURE?😆</font>



Thank you thank you so much anisa di ( I can call u Di na? )...yes i've pcos problem(polycyst ovary syndrome) ...but my doctor said that it's normal now a days and it won't create a problem... Thing which I not asked to her asked here today and u answered that well...i'm very grateful to u di...

Honestly I'm enjoying this phase of my life despite all the fears and excited too. My in laws are nice and my fiance seems understanding and caring till now ( so much excited guy too 😳 )...hoping for all good 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ Savi1234
I second and endorse everything that Navin and Anisa said and would only like to add this to what they said
We come from a culture where the 'Kamasutra' was written but teach our girls that deriving pleasure from love making is a sin. That is the biggest and greatest lie that one should never tell their daughters.
There is no shame and nothing wrong without enjoying your body (God's creation) and deriving pleasure from it especially with your husband (in a sacred bond blessed by God). And just like any facet in a relationship and marriage the physical side needs TLC as well to grow, nurture and develop. Just be yourself and make sure you love yourself because if you do not it will be hard to love another.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And remember just like every other aspect of a relationship...its a combination of give and take!! You get pleasure and you will learn to give it too!! Like Anisa said...its about being there fore each other...physically, mentally and most definitely emotionally...that is what intimacy is about...and intimacy in a relationship between a husband and wife is the most beautiful experience...and that too not just in bed. You will find small ways to be intimate with each other whether you are alone or in a room full of people...and all of this develops with time and comfort. As long as you are willing to work at this relationship...and give it everything you have...that's all you can give and expect in return! Wishing you all the luck for your upcoming marriage!!😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
#66
Hey guys ,
Discussion regarding personal topics is not allowed in the forum, it is considered as spamming . Please keep this thread only for discussion regarding Ishqbaaaz and kindly move other discussions to chat thread.
-IB DT

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