Growing problem of rape cases

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Just few days after the Nirbhaya rape accused got punished with Death sentence, rape cases haven't lessened at all instead another girl got raped and murdered brutally. It's just psychic when they even go on to take out your womb and food pipe and smash your head.
What do you think what can stop such rape cases in India? We see even the fear of death doesn't really stop them, instead they become more brutal like if that was their answer to the Punishment of Nirbhaya rapists.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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they should enact islamic laws...especially for gangrapes and gruesome rapes... something like instant beheading in the public square... total zero tolerance... law should be changed since woman and especially girl child, are horribly insecure in india... and i really feel for them... no debate or anything.,... there was a nirbhaya like incident reported yesterday in haryana... are we idiots to let these guys go to prison... !!!
Its the fear of consequences that should be the deterrent not just punishment... beheading would be so gruesome... would scare sh*t off many!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Fear of death is nothing TBH. I've seen guys in my college who used to race bikes, they used to say that they loved racing so much and if they die it was bound to happen anyway.

Death, that too punishment by hanging(which is said to be done in a painless way unless something goes wrong), is never a deterrent.

I have different opinion on punitive measures for convicts but that's a different issue.

What are we going to get by punishing after the crime has happened? It does serve justice and is necessary, but the girl has gone through hell, if survives, is scarred in ways unimaginable and in ways that her pain/trauma cannot be taken away from her.

The rape cases will come down when people change from within. No punishments will stop them. Society has to change, we are all responsible if a crime - esp like molestation takes place. It is an indicator that the society has not been successful in instilling some values in it's children who grow up to commit such inhumane acts. I am ALSO including clinically mental men who commit such crimes.

All over the globe, men are taught to be a 'gender' rather than a human. (and the way they are taught about being a gender is skewed)

Firstly, every child on a planet since the moment they are born should be taught to be a human.

I am not glossing over the fact that even women have perpetrated sexual harassment/assault - that is why every one should first learn to be a human.

~~~ Whatever has been said till now, is idealistic and a faraway dream(though, it is when we aim for ideals do we see changes.) , what can be done NOW until the long time people change??


- Increased police surveillance and monitoring, police patrolling at particular hours, and a proper network of communication between police and police stations.
- Hot spots or areas should be indentified for increased surveillance.
- In Telangana there is an app for women safety, and also a helpline for immediate reaction upon receiving a complaint - "she teams". They've done a good job so far.


..so such proactive, preventive measures are only reasonable solutions IMO.

Also, increase in the number of female police. The strength of women police is very very low in India, it has to change. Police reforms are a priority.
Edited by Angel-likeDevil - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I also think a death penalty is like a gift, no, they should be tied to piles naked and not given food and water
I am aware about human rights but I think if people who go on to such heinous crimes and don't even spare small babies, they don't deserve to be called humans.

Unfortunately waiting for people to change their mindset in India is a process that will never happen or will take Another 2000 years
The problem is not only that men aren't taught to respect women but also because women aren't given freedom to go out at anytime and anywhere whenever she wishes whereas most parents have no idea what their grown up or juvenile sons are doing at the moment and where they are. Too much strictness on girls and too less on boys resulting in streets filled with boys and in between them walks one girl alone. Mostly at nights because parents keep their girls locked in at nights instead of their sons and those same sons rape others' daughters
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArshiS.Raizada

I also think a death penalty is like a gift, no, they should be tied to piles naked and not given food and water

I am aware about human rights but I think if people who go on to such heinous crimes and don't even spare small babies, they don't deserve to be called humans.

Unfortunately waiting for people to change their mindset in India is a process that will never happen or will take Another 2000 years
The problem is not only that men aren't taught to respect women but also because women aren't given freedom to go out at anytime and anywhere whenever she wishes whereas most parents have no idea what their grown up or juvenile sons are doing at the moment and where they are. Too much strictness on girls and too less on boys resulting in streets filled with boys and in between them walks one girl alone. Mostly at nights because parents keep their girls locked in at nights instead of their sons and those same sons rape others' daughters


Yes I agree!

While we may want to look after our safety considering the ugly reality, yes, the root for this lies in the conditioning done in EVERY house - "don't go out after dark". Yes, it is understandable that parents only want their daughter's safety who may not be able to fight off a group of guys.. But I feel parents should also be the ones to encourage and build a confidence in woman. Because, if each household was strongly encouraging their daughter's human rights, wouldn't men be checked??

But instead, they have taken a defeatist stance, fear is instilled in girls and are locked up, and this is also made a norm, that when a bunch of men spot a woman walking by herself, they take her for being inviting and what not.

Healthy conditioning along the lines of daughter's human rights would've worked wonders for most women across the planet.. Because every male would know that it's a right of his mother/grandmother/sister to go out, that he should infact be protecting of their human rights.

The kind of boundaries drawn have resulted in so many perverse mentalities, it's just sad.


It would've made sense to keep boys locked up after 6 pm everyday, since they are the ones who are physically stronger than women anyway.. JK JK 😛


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Posted: 8 years ago
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But the reality is reality, no matter how I feel regarding this issue, I do get scared to go out after dark, or to walk past a bunch of men on the road even during daytime.

I feel world has come to a place beyond repair.


We can only give healthy parenting to our children... like my parents did, but despite the courage they gave me, I still get scared, I also think, wouldn't I be going mad with stress if my daughter was walking down the street after 8 pm?


...It all comes back to society changing. Only God knows when it'll happen.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

But the reality is reality, no matter how I feel regarding this issue, I do get scared to go out after dark, or to walk past a bunch of men on the road even during daytime.

I feel world has come to a place beyond repair.


We can only give healthy parenting to our children... like my parents did, but despite the courage they gave me, I still get scared, I also think, wouldn't I be going mad with stress if my daughter was walking down the street after 8 pm?


...It all comes back to society changing. Only God knows when it'll happen.




This is so sad... hope the indian society recognize the value of women and truly respect them like equals... agree with all the gruesome punishments for rapists...dont patronize a girl child... she deserves respect and equal rights..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's not just Indian society. Rapes have been increasing all over the world, but yes, in Asian societies it's higher because of gender discrimination that is so rampant in society.

First of all, laws should be stricter and more brutal. While I'm happy that the people responsible for Nirbhaya case were given death sentence, I am not happy it took this long. Punishments against rapists should be instant, no questions asked and no delays. When the law is so lax against rapists, people think they can get away with anything, and thus there is no fear of law. When rapists (be they man or woman) are executed immediately after the crime, then people think twice before committing such an act against someone else.

This should be the same against any forms of abuse. Men or women who physically abuse each other, who beat each other to death, should also receive no mercy.

When laws are stringent and harsh in cases of crimes, like they are in other countries, then rapes and abuse crimes will automatically decrease.

Of course, mindset of society is also important, but to change that will take years and generations. It is so ingrained in current mindset that it wont' change overnight.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

It's not just Indian society. Rapes have been increasing all over the world, but yes, in Asian societies it's higher because of gender discrimination that is so rampant in society.

First of all, laws should be stricter and more brutal. While I'm happy that the people responsible for Nirbhaya case were given death sentence, I am not happy it took this long. Punishments against rapists should be instant, no questions asked and no delays. When the law is so lax against rapists, people think they can get away with anything, and thus there is no fear of law. When rapists (be they man or woman) are executed immediately after the crime, then people think twice before committing such an act against someone else.

This should be the same against any forms of abuse. Men or women who physically abuse each other, who beat each other to death, should also receive no mercy.

When laws are stringent and harsh in cases of crimes, like they are in other countries, then rapes and abuse crimes will automatically decrease.

Of course, mindset of society is also important, but to change that will take years and generations. It is so ingrained in current mindset that it wont' change overnight.


Although rape is despicable and gruesome in any culture.. indian culture stands out since women are culturally subjugated and suppressed. they are manipulated...within cultural values and beliefs.. and then they are gang-raped because they offended the ego of some A-holes... by confronting them!!!?..to top it off she gets blamed for crimes against her and then ostracized... that's horrible...not sure what kind of values we have!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The biggest reason for this is of course the lack of strict laws and penalties...well according to me ,a person who has accused any woman must b let to go into the public...the public will "look after him"...😛...am not joking...we saw how our country took the nirbhaya issue...not thousands but lakhs of ppl were protesting for getting justice...so let the govt leave that accused man into the public and keep mum...thats it...👍🏼

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