Arjun can NEVER love or cure Maya

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have always argued this fact, now it is being proven. I agree a mentally ill could have been cured by a right person's love and medical care. But it was always shown Arjun is not that sensible, he is an over ambitious immature selfish brat. He is not a character like Harman (Shakti), Siddharth Khurana (Jamai Raja), Prem Juneja (Kis Desh). Only such strong selfless considerate husband's can cure and accept flawed persons. Arjun can never, he don't even seemed to love Maya genuinely apart from her wealth.
Now he will feel jealous seeing Saanjh happy with someone else & would want her back. He only loves himself, Maya can never be cured being with him.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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At one time, it seemed that Arjun loved Maya genuinely. I said that possibly he can cure her which was doubtful as somewhere in my subconscious I did doubt about it. However, one thing is for sure that she needs someone who can understand her better. We want the cvs to give justice to her character since she is gray. The only negative character in this show is Ashwin. Arjun may or may not be negative. It depends on the cvs.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with u, seems like Maya has to realise many things herself.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Arjun is Maaya's obsession...NOT her doctor...
How on Earth can he cure her? 😲

If he could cure her, there would be no mental hospitals in this world, as every patient's loved ones would cure them.

He left his entire family, who he thought didn't accept her, n genuinely wanted to be with her...

That is y Jhanvi had kept insisting to Maaya that she ought to tell her truth to Arjun...but Maaya refused...

I know some people on the forum like to make other characters as punching bags for all of Maaya's problems...

But the fact remains, Maaya's problems are only Bec of her illness...Period.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

Arjun is Maaya's obsession...NOT her doctor...

How on Earth can he cure her? 😲

If he could cure her, there would be no mental hospitals in this world, as every patient's loved ones would cure them.

He left his entire family, who he thought didn't accept her, n genuinely wanted to be with her...

That is y Jhanvi had kept insisting to Maaya that she ought to tell her truth to Arjun...but Maaya refused...

I know some people on the forum like to make other characters as punching bags for all of Maaya's problems...

But the fact remains, Maaya's problems are only Bec of her illness...Period.

just imagine khushi, I our parents follow us everywhere,if our parents keep a camera on the car and look at us 24/7,if our parents spy on us and always control us, if our parents urge us to be house arrest and give us everything we needed how do we feel...isn't that cruel...gosh!! I can't imagine that life...what was arjuns sin !! To chose Maya over everyone...I really feel pity for arjun...more than arjun, look at Maya, trying to make a prisoner happy, she thinks her presence could make arjun happy!! The real happiness comes when we have freedom,she has taken away every bit of happiness around her and wanted to be happy...alas,she needs treatment now...
So her next move would be taking arjun back to his house but that will be the start of Maya's fall...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .bluebolt

I have always argued this fact, now it is being proven. I agree a mentally ill could have been cured by a right person's love and medical care. But it was always shown Arjun is not that sensible, he is an over ambitious immature selfish brat. He is not a character like Harman (Shakti), Siddharth Khurana (Jamai Raja), Prem Juneja (Kis Desh). Only such strong selfless considerate husband's can cure and accept flawed persons. Arjun can never, he don't even seemed to love Maya genuinely apart from her wealth.

Now he will feel jealous seeing Saanjh happy with someone else & would want her back. He only loves himself, Maya can never be cured being with him.

sorryy to disagree,she has taken away arjuns soul he is not shallow but lifeless,he is not hating Maya alone he hates every tiny cell of his own. How do you expect someone in that state could help others,to cute Maya first of all Maya should be honest which is lacking in Maya,she didn't ask for help,instead she turned arjun helpless,she didn't give him a chance to understand him instead made himself like a loser,use didn't give him any chance to sympathize with her ( probably!! After she seperated him from his parents,& saanjh),instead he is empathize about himself. She has torned him into pieces and those pieces can't cure someone like Maya
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

sorryy to disagree,she has taken away arjuns soul he is not shallow but lifeless,he is not hating Maya alone he hates every tiny cell of his own. How do you expect someone in that state could help others,to cute Maya first of all Maya should be honest which is lacking in Maya,she didn't ask for help,instead she turned arjun helpless,she didn't give him a chance to understand him instead made himself like a loser,use didn't give him any chance to sympathize with her ( probably!! After she seperated him from his parents,& saanjh),instead he is empathize about himself. She has torned him into pieces and those pieces can't cure someone like Maya


The simple point is if Arjun is sensible enough he should understand Maya has some psychological problem & give her medical help. How would taking revenge on a mental patient help?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

sorryy to disagree,she has taken away arjuns soul he is not shallow but lifeless,he is not hating Maya alone he hates every tiny cell of his own. How do you expect someone in that state could help others,to cute Maya first of all Maya should be honest which is lacking in Maya,she didn't ask for help,instead she turned arjun helpless,she didn't give him a chance to understand him instead made himself like a loser,use didn't give him any chance to sympathize with her ( probably!! After she seperated him from his parents,& saanjh),instead he is empathize about himself. She has torned him into pieces and those pieces can't cure someone like Maya


Maya wanted to tell her truth to him but Arjun at that time told her that he isn't interested in her past. He is only concerned about her present & future. I don't blame Maya or Arjun completely. Both are at fault. Yes, Maya has been dishonest but what about Arjun when he said Iove you Saanjh and had got intimate with her? What about him allowing Saanjh to smear color on him before he smears that on Maya? What about the PDA dance? If anyone says that had spiked, I won't buy that excuse Sorry. There were many people who consumed bhang but they never behaved like that. I am saying this over & over again because this has been the turning point. I had sensed that Arjun does not have that much maturity to understand Maya and handle her but gave the benefit of the doubt when he proposed to her and was successful to calm her and convince her. Maya is not a saint and so is Arjun. Maya has done 10001 wrong things but she has never shown her infidelity towards him. Normal or not, she is attractive and that is what men look at. She could have easily attracted many persons of opposite sex, be it for timepass but she didn't do that. So she has been loyal.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

just imagine khushi, I our parents follow us everywhere,if our parents keep a camera on the car and look at us 24/7,if our parents spy on us and always control us, if our parents urge us to be house arrest and give us everything we needed how do we feel...isn't that cruel...gosh!! I can't imagine that life...what was arjuns sin !! To chose Maya over everyone...I really feel pity for arjun...more than arjun, look at Maya, trying to make a prisoner happy, she thinks her presence could make arjun happy!! The real happiness comes when we have freedom,she has taken away every bit of happiness around her and wanted to be happy...alas,she needs treatment now...

So her next move would be taking arjun back to his house but that will be the start of Maya's fall...


Exactly, Bharati...Arjun is paying such a big price for falling in love with Maya...He left his entire family to be with her...His only mistake was to stand up for her against Ashwin...
N she fell in love with him...

What people need to understand is that it's not actually Maaya's fault also...It's not that she's evil...She's ill...N she does what her ill mind tells her to...

So instead of trying to find scapegoats for her wrong acts, it's high time we understood that all major characters of the show are actually victims of Maya's illness, n Maya herself is a victim of Ashwin's evilness & Jhanvi's mental problems...

Yes, Saanjh , Arjun, Vandana have been insensitive to an extent, but they cannot be blamed as they are not aware of Maaya's mental state..

The biggest casualty of the whole thing is Arjun...He will pay a very big price for it...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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No body's love can cure Maya. I agree to khusi's comment if love was the cure to mental sickness we don't need mental hospitals and psychiatric professionals. Mental illness like physical illness needs medical help. The problem with Arjun is he is too lost on himself and his tragedy that he is not seeing Mays's struggle and he is not getting her the help she needs.

I think once Sanj comes into the picture she will make Arjun see how maya needs help and Arjun will finally stand by her and will help her get cured. We will see Maya getting cured and finding that peace and happiness within herself. At that point she won't need an Arjun to be happy.
Edited by BIaddict - 8 years ago

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