Bollywood gay designer on surrogacy

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Posted: 8 years ago
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While Karan Johar opts for surrogacy, designer Wendell Rodricks explains why he's against the idea of having kids!



Karan Johar is a happy man today. He is an incredibly successful producer and now has been blessed with twins - Yash and Roohi. The filmmaker who opted for surrogacy is now a proud father of two.

While Karan and the whole industry is kicked about it, designer Wendell Rodricks who's openly gay, is against the whole idea of surrogacy. He explained in an interview to Deccan Chronicle, "To be brutal, in my head, surrogacy is an ego trip. There are too many children in India that should be adopted. This hire-a-womb is not my thing. But I don't hold it against those who opt for it."

Wendell is married to partner Jerome Marrel. He also admitted that there was a time he thought of adopting kids but eventually he didnt. Why? He tells the portal, "I do not want to leave behind orphaned teenagers or kids in their 20s. I am glad I have a partner who told me flat out when I was thinking of adopting, That child will be spoilt rotten. From day one she will be in Wendell couture with a Dior feeding bottle. At school, she will be teased for having gay g***u fathers. She will be bashed, slammed and shamed for having uncles and aunties who are in fashion or film. She will be a spoilt brat as she will walk a ramp at age four. So forget it. Let us work for the children of our village and state. Or children of parents with AIDS, children born to battered women, physically challenged children. Offer scholarships to the persevering, the underprivileged and truly needy'. I took his advice. And I'm eternally happy. Just as those who resort to surrogacy are."

But he quickly adds, "Everyone deserves happiness and it takes all types. I don't want to judge others. I can only judge myself and my decisions. Karan Johar has made a decision and we should not judge his decision. As for the LGBTQ community, let us focus on Section 377 being amended so that future generations of LGBTQ children have the freedom to live a wholesome, non-judgmental life in this great country."


http://www.dnaindia.com/entertainment/report-while-karan-johar-opts-for-surrogacy-designer-wendell-rodricks-explains-why-he-s-against-the-idea-of-having-kids-2348741

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Posted: 8 years ago
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It is sad the reason why he is not adopting even though he wants to. But if everyone backs down like this how will change happen? They all have to adopt or have surrogate kids and then the homophobes and the bullies will be tired and move on.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wendell Rodricks is openly gay living in India! Then why can't Kjo come out!??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't understand why he would call surrogacy an ego trip? I think instead of adopting, why people go for surrogacy is because they want their own kids right? Somebody who has similar DNA...
Otherwise I appreciate his thoughts and choices, seeming to be coming from a noble place.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The reasons for him not having biological kids are immature .
Though I agree that doing charitable things to kids who need it can be fulfilling for them as individuals.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Betty---

Wendell Rodricks is openly gay living in India! Then why can't Kjo come out!??

Because he has to use his "not being able to come out" as a victim card. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with everything he said.👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ---Betty---

Wendell Rodricks is openly gay living in India! Then why can't Kjo come out!??

In WR's case his eco-system n his immediate family is OK with his decision n choices whereas karans family never warmed up to the idea be it his late father or his mom. Hence kjo doesn't declare it. But I see that he doesn't try to hide it too..just that it's not spelled out.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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his partner is right..
n so is he..bt only for the cases of normal gay parents..
its foolish to think the world is mature n tolerant enough to
children of normal gay parents.
bt ppl of his n kjo's stature has the benefit that their children
will be not accessible to general public ..they will only mix
with the creamy society ..n that society will always bow before
kjo's riches n influence so his children shall be put in pedestal too so
kjo could afford to take the risk ..n has reaped its dividend ..n i
support him ..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: MythicalMoth

In WR's case his eco-system n his immediate family is OK with his decision n choices whereas karans family never warmed up to the idea be it his late father or his mom. Hence kjo doesn't declare it. But I see that he doesn't try to hide it too..just that it's not spelled out.



Really? Are you saying his parents didn't want him to come out? I

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