Dev was kept in the dark, not Sona. - Page 5

Originally posted by: KK84

Glad I have some supporters, for the rest - why watch a show when you hate the male lead character so passionately. Really amazes me!

Can't wait the day Devakshi get together to all your dismay- Cos that day all this analogy about what a pathetic person Dev is will go in the bin and these Same people will be like 'oh Dev is so amazing'

It's called being a hypocrite- a little like what Sona is because on one hand she tells Soha oh ur 'allowed' to meet your father but has shown no efforts because a 6 year old who has never met this person is supposed to make such a big decision.

She is also a hypocrite cos she listens to everything her dad says but Dev listening to his mum(who I agree isn't right) he becomes spineless. We should be proud of our culture because when I hear how kids where I live are charged rent by their parents or the way their parents treat them like 'outsiders' once they are adults, it makes me proud that we have our Indian roots where we will look after our parents till their last breath and not dump them in some nursing home etc.

Your parents make your decisions when you are growing up but once u have a partner, it doesn't mean they should be sidelined.

Anyway I am not sure why I am wasting my time here.

Originally posted by: KK84

The funniest part is in all of this, 7 years later he has shown he still loves Sona but Sona has shown nothing but hatred but this won't be seen as stone hearted but rather oh she is a strong woman cos Dev 'tortured' her so much.

he locks her up at night in his own office and walks away yet he loves her so he comeback to carry her out in his own hands the next night . how romantic right?. how very convenient of us to forget that Sona who hate him ( according to some of you) will take a cab, keep tracing his mobile via gps and then drive his own car to make to hospital in time so that he doesn't scumb to the injuries. if this is not hatred, then what can it be.. right???

NO! She wasn't tortured. He did his best. If he was such a selfish self absorbed man he wouldn't have married her inspite of knowing she couldn't be a mother.

GET this out of your minds , he did not do a favour on Sonakshi by marrying her after knowing that she cannot conceive. according to this kind of logic, agar shaadi ke baad pata chalta ki dev kabhi baap nahi bansakta , yah fir sona ka such samne aati, toh kya dev to sona ko chod dena chahiye?

They both married, because they wanted to lead a life together. dono ne ek durse peh ehsaan nahi kiya ek dusre se shaadi karke. they is absolutely no need to glorify Dev here. it is not a virtue. he did not sacrifice!!!! for heaven's sake stop feeling that it is a sacrifice to marry someone who has a medical condition related to progeny, it sucks !!!!!!!!

They split up due to his mother and yes he has faltered there but she knew this is his nature from the beginning, he is weak because that's how his mum has made him...but could she tolerate when her family were mistreated? No she couldn't so I still don't think her blindly believing Vicky can be justified.

she did not believe vicky that's why she went to confront him, but the prenup was thrown at her face. do you even realise what is a prenup ? it is a document that states how much you trust your marriage to last forever. Like you said, in our indian culture we dont have a prenup because we believe in life long marriages. Dev signing the prenup ( let me warn you sona does not know he was tricked, all she can see his glaring signature!!!!!) was an indication that he never believed that marriage will last . under such circumstances, koyi bhi insaan waise hi react karta jaise sonakshi ne kiya ho.

He didn't intentionally sign the pre nup and that's a fact and yes, I do wish post the leap Dev had gone completely distant with ishwari even now but you know in reality no matter what, you will always care for your parents. Just how parents always forgive their kids, kids do always forgive their parents and trust me I am talking from experience.

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Agree with u...let me tell u there is hypocrisy running in this forum...dev did wrong and am not defending him

But sonakshi she has also done Many mistakes... But people hesitate to accpet her mistake.

All talk about stand that dev didn't take for her but let me tell them...sonakshi also didn't took stand for Dev in front of bijoy when he accused him. Atleast. Dev took stand for her sometime but sonakshi never took stand not a single time and stop bijoy

Dev maybe not a good husband but he is good man and Sonakshi know that and bijoy accused many times about dev as person and human being also but still she don't took stand for him...

If sonakshi never took stand for him then why u all r expecting from Dev to stand for her...

Even I feel surprised sometimes seeing comments of some members asking dev to take stand for her even after leap.

In one post, i saw someone saying dev is still same old dev actually, that member problem is that how he talk with sonakshi like that by seeing yesterday precap that the way dev was saying that he will decide about time and location to meet.

I mean why people r expecting him to be nice with her...she hide the.truth about his daughter. From 7 years and people r expecting him to be nice with her 😆

Another Post, I saw that someone saying dev is spinless because he didn't take stand for Sonakshi when ishwari was accusing her and this happened after leap.

Then same goes with sonakshi also we r seeing after leap track, bijoy accuses dev many times still sonakshi didn't took stand for him...and am not surprised with sonakshi for not taking stand now because first look at.their situation and circumstances that where they both stand.

They r not more husband wife, they have their reasons to hate each.other and so if not standing for each other then, It's fine as looking their situation, there is no need.

So why all r expecting From dev to be nice with her or stand for her even after leap...let First them to solve their problems and misunderstanding then expect Anything..

I sometimes get surprised by such post, people know the story now, understand their situation and still talking and arguing over these illogical things 😆

Originally posted by: viji2111

I don't know if Sona is right I Dev is wrong or vice-a-versa. But one thing is clear that too much interference of their parents in their personal life spoiled everything. I am not including Asha in it because she was always sensible.

Dev and Sona were married for only 5 to 6 months at max. It's true they loved eachother. But being lovers and being husband and wife are two different things. Both of them needed time to figure out how will their relationship works which unfortunately they didn't get.