Dev was kept in the dark, not Sona. - Page 3

Originally posted by: kar08

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If after all this horrifying treatment, would you still go back and keep on giving chances to such a man and such a family ? Because its the 'right' thing to do and society expects it?

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

All the wrong reasons you mentioned there for him to be termed as Monster. Below are the reasons -

1. For breaking up with Sonakshi without batting an eyelash when his mother lied to him about accepting Sonakshi. Non-Monster way would be to discuss and breakup amicably instead of breaking up so ruthlessly.

2. Stalking her - a criminal offence. Monster check.

3. Not doing anything and turning a blind eye on Sonakshi's insults from his own family members. This is not so monstrous though.

4. Leaving her at midnight in a restro and celebrating cutting birthday cake with family - breaking promise and endangering a girl's safety. Monster check.

5. Hurting wife's sentiment by calling her mother as Aunty.

6. Lying about Pregnancy. Monster check.

7. Hiding about infertility.

8. Forcing her to sign infertility for his Momma. Oh before that, thinking to fraudulently start treatment on her body. Monster check in BOLD.

9. Slapping (accidentally ?) his FIL. Monster check. Not working on apology on his own until Sona was not coming back.

10. Saying Getout to Sonakshi. Monster check.

11. Calling her out on motherhood, gold-digger and mocking her profession. Monster check.

Against all these monstrous act, when I put a drunkard bevda's words like 'I chose you between you and maa', it is as shallow a pile of puddle to me. The same drunkard insulted sona on Point# 11. Which one is true ?

Welcome to you and it is such a delight to know your views. Whatever you observed of the way this forum functions is absolutely correct. Except a few of us none raises a voice against Sonakshi even if she is terribly wrong. In contrast you will come across umpteen posts bashing Dev left and right. Even if he did right he will be bashed. Leave it any way I agree with you hundred percent. Thanks for your post. Such a relief indeed.

i agree with the author of this post. but dev also has not been a gentleman atleast sometimes. thanks to bijoy n ishwari.

Waah u echo many viewers who avoid this forum bcs of logic less negativity..
This forum is blinded by woman empowerment term n they accept any fault of sona but even good deeds of dev r projected as ngtive
From t day wen sona left with bijoy n asha till she finally broke up she never e1 once attempted to speak to dev it was only dev who kept attempting till end
In fact from first day of wedding either she was fighting or attempting to b best bahu but she is still not at fault

Perfect post on yesterday's episode.

I won't say that a father doesn't have the right to be with his daughter at the same time I can't blame Sonakshi for not informing Dev that she gave birth or she got conceived because the separation/divorce was not done amicably.
Even though Dev was not involved in prenup he is responsible for whatever clause mentioned in prenup .He could have at least read it thoroughly before delivering a drunk speech in the presence of Sonakshi . Isn't it clearly mentioned in the prenup that the children will be Sonakshi's responsibility if ever divorce happens.

Forget about prenup but if I were in Sonakshi's place I would never forgive him for what he said just before they decide to part ways . I won't call him a monster , but he is a spineless man who can only empathize with his Maa. He is a good son, brother but not a good husband . The guy who was supposed to keep the dignity of wife intact was silent whenever his family members taunted her . This guy didn't consider it relevant to discuss with his wife regarding the infertility issue , the treatment which he already decided to start without her consent , when his Maa declared that she want grandchildren he decided to implement it without even discussing it with his wife .

Trusting Vicky over Dev , tell me a single incident which could have assured her that it was not done by Dev . He used the same strategy in Ranveer's case as well . Trust cannot be achieved in one fine day it should be earned . Dev in bad temper slapped his FIL , an angry Dev asked Sonakshi to leave his house , after, all these incidents how will she refuse to believe that Dev was not behind the eviction notice.

I agree that it is not fair to blame Dev only , Sonakshi did wrong in denying father's affection to Suhana , I feel bad for the kid . But if Dev suffered ,it was absolutely his fault , he should have set a priority in his life. No, I am not saying that he should have opted Sonakshi by avoiding mother, but he should have balanced both relationships.

And of course in this case Dev was kept in Dark not Sonakshi , unfortunately Dev cannot give birth to a baby ,if he could with his mother's emotional blackmailing and manipulation he would have kept Sonakshi in dark too . But there will be one difference if the kid was socialized by Dev and his mother , the kid would have developed only bitter knowledge regarding her maa.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

All the wrong reasons you mentioned there for him to be termed as Monster. Below are the reasons -

1. For breaking up with Sonakshi without batting an eyelash when his mother lied to him about accepting Sonakshi. Non-Monster way would be to discuss and breakup amicably instead of breaking up so ruthlessly.

2. Stalking her - a criminal offence. Monster check.

3. Not doing anything and turning a blind eye on Sonakshi's insults from his own family members. This is not so monstrous though.

4. Leaving her at midnight in a restro and celebrating cutting birthday cake with family - breaking promise and endangering a girl's safety. Monster check.

5. Hurting wife's sentiment by calling her mother as Aunty.

6. Lying about Pregnancy. Monster check.

7. Hiding about infertility.

8. Forcing her to sign infertility for his Momma. Oh before that, thinking to fraudulently start treatment on her body. Monster check in BOLD.

9. Slapping (accidentally ?) his FIL. Monster check. Not working on apology on his own until Sona was not coming back.

10. Saying Getout to Sonakshi. Monster check.

11. Calling her out on motherhood, gold-digger and mocking her profession. Monster check.

Against all these monstrous act, when I put a drunkard bevda's words like 'I chose you between you and maa', it is as shallow a pile of puddle to me. The same drunkard insulted sona on Point# 11. Which one is true ?

Originally posted by: KK84

I don't come to this forum and perhaps I should keep it that way because there is nothing but negativity here.

Now that Dev knows about Soha, everyone here is out to call him names once again- Why? Because he wants to show love to his Daugher. A daughter he did not ignore but a daughter he wasn't told about. He was kept in the dark to the point that Sona's dad is willing to move back to Kolkata just so she is 'hidden' from Dev and Sona is pretty much reacting the same way otherwise she wouldn't have agreed about not saying anything to Elena about Soha.

Oh but that's ok for you guys because Dev is such a monster that he doesn't even deserve to know he has a daughter. He is a monster because in the cross fire of daughter in law and mother he was trying to please them both.

He is a monster because even tho he told Sona that he chose her, she still didn't believe him and chose to leave. What a great person Sona is who believed a scum like Vikki but not the words of the man she loved.

Dev has every right to be angry and claim his right over Soha. Sona left Delhi, Dev didn't. Sona knew where they lived so she could've easily told him about Soha 7 years ago. He hasn't every right to know and be a part of his daughters life so those who think Sona is a saint, time for a wake up call.

P.S. bash all you want as that's what this forum mostly does when it comes to Dev. Am used to it and that's why I mostly stay away from here but someone should defend Dev atleast.

Originally posted by: Kamala05

I won't say that a father doesn't have the right to be with his daughter at the same time I can't blame Sonakshi for not informing Dev that she gave birth or she got conceived because the separation/divorce was not done amicably.
Even though Dev was not involved in prenup he is responsible for whatever clause mentioned in prenup .He could have at least read it thoroughly before delivering a drunk speech in the presence of Sonakshi . Isn't it clearly mentioned in the prenup that the children will be Sonakshi's responsibility if ever divorce happens.

Forget about prenup but if I were in Sonakshi's place I would never forgive him for what he said just before they decide to part ways . I won't call him a monster , but he is a spineless man who can only empathize with his Maa. He is a good son, brother but not a good husband . The guy who was supposed to keep the dignity of wife intact was silent whenever his family members taunted her . This guy didn't consider it relevant to discuss with his wife regarding the infertility issue , the treatment which he already decided to start without her consent , when his Maa declared that she want grandchildren he decided to implement it without even discussing it with his wife .

Trusting Vicky over Dev , tell me a single incident which could have assured her that it was not done by Dev . He used the same strategy in Ranveer's case as well . Trust cannot be achieved in one fine day it should be earned . Dev in bad temper slapped his FIL , an angry Dev asked Sonakshi to leave his house , after, all these incidents how will she refuse to believe that Dev was not behind the eviction notice.

I agree that it is not fair to blame Dev only , Sonakshi did wrong in denying father's affection to Suhana , I feel bad for the kid . But if Dev suffered it was absolutely his fault , he should have set a priority in his life. No, I am not saying that he should have opted Sonakshi by avoiding mother, but he should have balanced both relationships.

And of course in this case Dev was kept in Dark not Sonakshi , unfortunately Dev cannot give birth to a baby ,if he could with his mother's emotional blackmailing and manipulation he would have kept Sonakshi in dark too . But there will be one difference if the kid was socialized by Dev and his mother , the kid would have developed only bitter knowledge regarding her maa.