Self effacing person called names

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ravish stood by Vividha at all times though he knew she does not love him.

But his love is selfless and self effacing. If people call him sevak, doormat and low, then it means that goodness is not valued if it comes from a wrong person from their point of view.

Ravish was always selfless. He took Atharv and cared for him until he got well and then let him go.

The only fault of Ravish is loving Vividha and standing by her. He could have said no to Vividha but he knows she will be devastated if she hears a no from him. He can marry her and be a guardian until she chooses what she wants when Atharv returns.

Ravish, you have become a true hero and the other hero sucks by playing games without realising the impact. Vividha could have committed suicide.

A doormat, a sevak etc. is far better than a selfish person who play games and runs away to escape responsibility and is afraid of facing the truth with his loved one and hurts his mother as if she is nothing.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yaaay, Leaves...the people who were bashing you yesterday won't bash you today as you are back to liking Ravish!😳 - I of course won't say you wrote this to please them...😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _innocent_

Yaaay, Leaves...the people who were bashing you yesterday won't bash you today as you are back to liking Ravish!😳 - I of course won't say you wrote this to please them...😛



How can you call him doormat and sevak? Just because he is competition to Atharv.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



How can you call him doormat and sevak? Just because he is competition to Atharv.

Competition from which angle?😆

You agreed he was a doormat yesterday! So why are you changing your stance? You scared of those bashers kya?😛 Also if my post pinched you so hard, can't help it! Truth is a bitter pill to swallow!😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Ravish stood by Vividha at all times though he knew she does not love him.

But his love is selfless and self effacing. If people call him sevak, doormat and low, then it means that goodness is not valued if it comes from a wrong person from their point of view.

Ravish was always selfless. He took Atharv and cared for him until he got well and then let him go.

The only fault of Ravish is loving Vividha and standing by her. He could have said no to Vividha but he knows she will be devastated if she hears a no from him. He can marry her and be a guardian until she chooses what she wants when Atharv returns.

Ravish, you have become a true hero and the other hero sucks by playing games without realising the impact. Vividha could have committed suicide.

A doormat, a sevak etc. is far better than a selfish person who play games and runs away to escape responsibility and facing the truth with his loved one and hurts his mother as if she is nothing.


leaves i agree wid u.
yes i was expecting viv 2 propose ravi 2 get mrd & ravi mite said yes .but 1st i was thinking he"ll say no then after sum persuasion he"ll agree.and i know even if he doesn't say no like he did 2day i knew he will do that bcoz of his selfless nature not bcoz hes doormat or an opportunist .2day after viv's proposal & his acceptance din't luk like him as a n opportunist .

but she asked him do u luv me & asked him so many times & begged him 2 marry her.so that was also kind of persuasion i.e emotional blackmailing and rembr wat she said she said 2day my faith has shaken on luv & trust. then she proposed.
and its not ravi instantly get agreed he was hesitating but wen she begged & said abt being sad 2day then he said he"ll get mrd 2 her.

and yes wat type of hero is the prsn who left her GF & mom watever his reasons r w/o letting them know the truth esply his GF. lets he din't want viv 2 spend her life as widow then he cud'd openly said like katori said in one of her post viv i luv u but don't trust u.

and now hes cuming back bcoz his reports r fine.wow now say now i"ll & can marry u viv bcoz my reports r fine & i went bcoz i din't want 2 see u as widow.

@bold so true.
Edited by tiny15 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Leaves I don't consider him competition TBH and Ravish as a character is unimpressive to me I only speak for myself when I say this.
I Like Vividha at her Best & Worst the same goes Atharv too. I like Impulsive characters who can go wrong too! I have always found Ravish's Character to be one dimensional that's all!


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Acc to these persons ,ravish can't ever be a nice man ...Atharav himself ran from the Mandap as he sincerely want V to move on with R even though after knowing she don't love him but as he knows ravish loves her selflessly so sure happy with him .
But after knowing he is allrite ,he started running towards her again so he could stop the marriage and get ready to marry with her
So what about ravish ?

But here ravish ,still assured V that A sure be come back ,it was V who pleaded him enormous time to get marry with her ,he was in dilemma how to react bcos he knows ,she loves A but rite now she needs me as a friend ,so I can't back out rite now

And for his slefless nature people started calling him doormat ,sewak and usd u said ,he is actuallay 200 times better than this spineless and selfish A
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If he was actually doing any of this for her, his thoughts would reflect that. He would've tried to reason with her and said I will always be your friend and support regardless. We don't need to marry for it. THAT is the kind of sensible advice one is supposed to give a distraught and irrational person.
Instead his first thoughts were FBs of his own (apparently romantic😕) time spent with her. So it is clear that he is doing this to pursue his OWN forlorn hopes.

Just because the character enjoys lying to himself and others, let's not all kid ourselves. 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@leavesandwaves I'm disappointed with Ravish at personal level 😕
Baki show hai aise hi chalta hai 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _innocent_

Competition from which angle?😆

You agreed he was a doormat yesterday! So why are you changing your stance? You scared of those bashers kya?😛 Also if my post pinched you so hard, can't help it! Truth is a bitter pill to swallow!😛



Did I call him doormat?? When? I said something else.

As for competition, if he is not competition and nothing, why you people are devoting every second line, second post for him?

You have become so insecure that you started calling him names and making fun of him instead of discussing properly.

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