If Marriage is 'bediyaan' then here comes 'Azaadi'

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Posted: 9 years ago
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A show of a girl, stripped her out, publically humiliated her but at whose wish? On the wish of that 'girl' herself!
If people had to protest then they should have protested when a even disgusting concept of ulte phere was proposed. A marriage ending with lightening and decorations and Vividha directly asking Ravish to make me 'un-married', was that not humiliating for a woman? What would Ravish have done if ulte phera was to be actualized, removing sindoor, taking off MS, walking backwards. Was that acceptable and this is not acceptable just because Vividha suddenly lost her voice? And who stopped Vividha from not opening her mouth; she didn't because she never minded her getting so-called humiliated or whatever. It was her desire to be freed from this marriage and she got her wish.

A friend just told me that there is no divorce in Hinduism, it is a legal way out not religious yet people never got disgusted when a married woman dressed up as a widow. Since the beginning of the marriage it was called a forced one, not acceptable, mockery of women rights and now when it has somehow got it's closure, it suddenly becomes a disrespect to women.
I tell you what is disrespect for a woman- kissing a man while her husband is watching; dressing up as widow, why didn't people object then..if that was called as 'creative liberty' and empowerment of women, then why complaining now. This show has always, always made fun of marriage..if that was drama then this is drama too. Even if I want to feel bad for what happened today, I can't because this is what Vividha wanted; she made un-marriage and her desires so important that now I simply can't see beyond her selfishness. Rejoice the azaadi now Vividha..congratulations.

I might not be replying back..this was just my view point. If you disagree then I don't care.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I totally agree
All the time big big lectures got given on Women Empowerment and Nayi soch but when it's comes to applied on themselves all fussed

He just did wat she wanted
Already told her to removed MS and freed her from every relation long back ,today was only the final closure.

She wanted the freedom ,he given not even doing any OTT drama.
So be happy and stop blaming him again and again as ur dreams of showing him Villian never gonna fulfilled.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I totally agree with you.
what Ravish gone through these days then?
what not he faced? He is the only married one who got to see his wife widowed.
where the humanity went that time?

Ravish slapped vividha silently with her own words. whats wrong in that. I enjoyed whole sequence.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome post.
Whatever Ravish did was only Vivi's wish. She wanted to break her marriage and become free from the marriage. She never respected her marriage or marriage related rituals. She made her husband feel awkward by becoming widow of her boyfriend in front of whole family. She humiliated her husband by romancing with her boyfriend infront of him.She wanted to enjoy intimacy with her boyfriend. So Ravish performed his duty as a loyal husband by breaking this marriage. Ravish is a righteous person but she is a spoilt brute.
Now as per her wish Ravish made her free to do anything she want with her boyfriend.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is funny people expecting what happened to happen behind curtains. They were expecting just a sign on divorce papers and make her free.
Also..I read in one of the posts few days back..hope viv and atharv throw the MS on Ravish's face and just say f*ck off and leave vashist house...yes. .These were the words (The day A came back normal)
Did not bother to reply coz somewhere I knew what makers wud do!
And everyone got the reply today.
So..what does that mean..If this was acceptable...then Ravish was really sweet in doing this to viv.

Viv had always insulted marriage and ravish. Say it by calling it bediyaan or wearing a white saree and doing all drama!

The problem is people were expecting this MS drama from someone else with a lovely religious BG...and OTT dialogues. But it did not happen the way some wanted...

I am sooo proud of Ravish. He has always made me proud through his actions and selective words. Today he gave it back by saying what Viv had said to him to let her free.


Edited by yogs1 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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such well written post.

it was all she wanted...now she got it. so stop cryin V 🤢
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Posted: 9 years ago
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When a woman makes marriage a deal Isnt this insulting the picious institute of marriage and disgusting sinful act of a woman ? Isn't this wrong?
When a woman gambles with an innocent man's life to so called protect her lover ( and she did not save her lover with this It is Ravish who saved Atharva's life and he would have done it anyway if Vividha that day would have told truth to Ravish because he searched for Atharva when his father wrote him a letter Vividha's marriage deal with Kailash did not save Atharva )and to avenge her father Isnt this wrong and a sin of this woman?
When this woman two times She loves Atharva but pretends marriage with Ravish Lie and cheat Ravish , mislead him Is this wrong and sins committed by this woman ?
When a woman expects her husband to protect her honor and fully trusts him in this yet questions his character and blames him for trying to molest her Isnt this wrong and a sin ?
when a woman keeps KC fast for lover while being married to someone else and dont tell him the truth even standing in temple Isn't that insulting and a sin ?What is KC fast ? A prayer , a fast that married women keep for their husbands , show their love and respect for their husband but this woman Vividha keeps KC for her lover , dont tell the truth to her husband . performs pooja with her husband and make him believe she kept it for him but actually she had kept it for her lover Wasn't this insult of women rituals A prayer Mind you This woman tries to cheat God too Isnt this a sin ?
When a woman hugs her boyfriend behind the back of her husband Isn't this wrong and sins ?
When a woman even if tell truth to her husband but does not tell complete truth She made deal with her father She keeps showing herself as she was at gun point which we as viewers know it is a total lie Kailash was almost begging to her not to tell the truth to Vashists in Vashists house and this woman made deal with him and she never told this to Ravish Isn't this wrong?
when a woman tries to leave without closing her marriage Isn't that insulting, wrong ?
When a woman hugs and kiss her boyfriend in front of her husband knowing husbands feelings very well Isn't that Insulting , wrong ?
when a woman keeps falsely blaming her husband yet run to him she needs him She is such a selfish person who otherwise cares a damn about her husband but uses him for her interests Isn't this wrong?
when this woman makes mockery of prayers too She says to priest i am doing this pooja for both moms and later she says to her lover i only did this for you Isnt this wrong Sinful ?
when this woman dresses up as widow and calls herself as widow of her lover in front of her family and inlaws without ending her marriage Isnt that insulting ?
When this woman begs ulte phere from her husband because his commitment is her bediyan according to her Wasn't that insulting ?
Today when the husband freed her to go to her lover it became insulting to her ?Wow in front of same family this woman is announced herself as widow of her lover , in front of same family and some more people she wanted ulte phere Today in front of same family if Ravish removed her sindoor and mangalsutra it became public humalition of her Her spectacle Amazing logics
I tell you siddy These people wanted Atharva to remove her MS she is not anyone's slave Throw it on Ravish's face and take her away but it did not happen as their wishes Atharva was leaving Vividha because she is Ravish's wife but Ravish send Vividha with Atharva Reunited her with the man she claims to love now these people are burning at it They cannot digest Ravishs goodness because their obsession is nothing in front of him
Edited by RayofHope_ - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If you were forcefully married to a person whom u didn't want to or if your husband cheated on you hence u decide to walk out or end a marriage

Infact forget the above examples but I have witnessed three marriages last year where the couple's have got divorced because they simply fell out of love so you are saying these couples have ridiculed a 'scared' marriage - no I don't think so because getting divorced isn't a sin.

Vividha dressing as a widow was ott but it was her choice. Yes ending her marriage is her choice then why is she put on display like she is committing a crime.

The ulte phere if a ritual then fair enough I personally didn't see it as such a bad thing because if it is a real ritual then we should respect it but today they have shown how men are portrayed to hold some sort of power over women.

A man has to do all this to show that he has set the woman 'free'. That is ridiculous.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lols this woman dresses as widow but does not remove her MS and announces in front of her husband she is widow of her lover Wasn't that insulting to husband ? When she asks for ulte phere from her husband What would have happened in that ? All the mantras chanted in reverse ,Phere in reverse , removal of sindoor and mangasutra in front of same sasural wale but an addition of priest and Wasnt that insulting to husband and public humilation of Vividha ji and it would have been more insulting when outside people would come to know about it but she was ready for this because she wanted dedicate her life for Atharva Today when Ravish removed her MS and sindoor and the bridal bangles so that she can be Vividha Atharva sujata behind the closed doors of the house It became her public humilation ?Before it was woman empowerment ?
Amazing logics😆 These so called 21st century modern women never cease to amaze me with their double standards Vividha and Atharva whatever wrong they do is justified for them but Ravish even if does right and it benefits their favorites its wrong for them So much jealousy from a fictional character and an actor who is doing his job Amazing 😆
Edited by mahi12 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: nitha

I totally agree with you.

what Ravish gone through these days then?
what not he faced? He is the only married one who got to see his wife widowed.
where the humanity went that time?

Ravish slapped vividha silently with her own words. whats wrong in that. I enjoyed whole sequence.



In Ravish's own words- what they had was not a marriage so how has Ravish seen his 'wife' as a widow. Do u guys really think a marriage is when someone does a religious ceremony or signs a piece of paper- u call that a marriage? Like seriously?

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