The difference between Atharva n ravish's reaction towards vividha

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princess2507

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Posted: 9 years ago

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@Gina:

I actually wanted to talk to you in detailed about the questions you have raised, but I am in a rush so I can't. I am just going to address only on one point that why Ravish and Atharva behaved differently to the same situation.

Ravish knew that Vividha was trying to say something to him, but situation did not permitted him to listen to her, or her trying harder to tell him.

Whereas, with Atharva it was different. Vividha did everything to hide the truth about her marriage to him, despite her knowing that how much he hates lies. He saw both of them dancing together.

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*Reemz*

@*Reemz*

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: wickedangel
@ Reemz
I agree that is exactly what Vividha is saying but that's not what she is doing. That is what I find to be so interesting about her character. It is definitelyher right to make that choice and she should just make a clean break remove the sindoor/MS sign divorce papers and get the heck out. Which is what I would do. Divorceis not easy in any situation but the least she should do is move out of the house and keep the process going. Whether she then decides to be with Atharv after that is her decision. But then why is she hesitating in leaving with Atharv? And people cant say that it is because she does not want to be selfish about this. That is ridiculous. You cant have it both ways. If she cared about what that she would not have kept her relationship with Atharv going while she was wearing a mangalsutra. She obviously did not care about it then so why now? Obviously something is stopping her even if it is not very obvious at this time. As an impartial observer I feel like in time things are going to change but that is my pov.

And marriage is not a TAG. It is a legal institution that should be respected. I am not saying that does not give a right to a woman to make her choice about who she wants to live with. In this case, Vividha was forced to get married but the fact remains that Ravish is also an innocent victim in this situation. It is not his fault either but his reaction in this matter makes me like him more as a viewer. Same goes for Atharv who is also innocent in the situation life has dealt him, just like Ravish and Vividha, but his reaction to it is not something I liked at all. Not as a viewer and definitely not as a woman who would not stand for any man treating her like this.

p.s. I did not like HDDS at all not because it was cliched but because I love my SK. I did not understand where Aish's character was coming from at the time but then I was really young when I watched it. Now as an adult I can say that life is so much more complicated and cannot be decided based on a few kisses. As important as passion as, sometimes you need a man who would think and react rather than accuse and abuse. In HDDS my SK was amazing and still makes me cry when I watch him cry in the end.

Gina, as I know probably more than the average viewer about the show - I'll tell you why the hesitation (if it can be called that) - it's DRAMA! This is what the audience feeds off. Did you see any hesitation when she brought up divorce or when Ravish did? Or when she told Uma that she divorce is the best option and that Ravish should get a nice girl? Why was the mangalsutra kept on? Because Atharv had to find out dramatically. There's certain things which the audience gets fooled in to. They're already shooting episodes where Vividha is without the MS & Sindoor, in Ajmer with Atharv. So her decision has been made. But on the way the writers smartly inject the right amount of drama so the normal viewer is like hmmm, will she or won't she but they don't compromise on her stand.

Anyway things will become more clear as the episodes go by.

I loved SK & Aish's chemistry in HDDCS, neither love stories in hindsight were convincing

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Mahi369

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Posted: 9 years ago

#23

This whole atharva vividha romance is insane ...there has to be some sanctity to marriage what are we as responsible citizens teaching our children that it is ok to cheat on your spouses ... disgusting

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jonjimmy

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: anjs
hahaha... Yeah you can all it that...by all means...
but its down right insulting to dis-respect the woman that you love, by implying that she slept with her husband and she is a gold digger.

And before you say any thing about ASR, I am not gonna give explanation for his behavior here, for that you have to open a topic in IPK forum.

And please dont bother to reply, cause i am out of here 😆

firstly, even though the nature of secret is same the situation and feelings of the people concerned are completely different. So to compare Atharva's reaction with that of ravish is not fair.

Secondly, this is not a case of Atharva disrespecting woman. This is a spat between two lovers. I am sure , if Atharva was gay, he would have reacted in the exact same way. This is him venting out his hurt feelings to his lover not a woman specifically.

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jonjimmy

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Posted: 9 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: soniadutta
I never know that calling ur girl friend cheap and greedy shows sign of true love ?
He was pointing towards on her character ? And u all saying it was his right
Waoo great
When it comes to ravish ,u all searched all possible way to degrade him and give lectures of women empowerment and nayi soch and when comes to fav
Sab gaya tel Lene

I never said his taunting and harsh words were right. But pinning it down as him disrespecting woman is not fair. This is a spat between lovers. He never called her cheap,. He accused her of marrying another person. And sleeping with ur husband doesn't u r cheap. He felt betrayed that after all her promise she married another guy. And we all know how a married relationship is like. So he accused her of that because he felt betrayed of her claim that she won't be able to even think of another guy. After all her claim of loving him she still married another guy. Since he does not no the whole truth he went with best possible logical solution. Because at the party he saw her dancing with the other guy and the 'push'. To him, vividha seemed like she moved on. When she claimed that she still loved him but was hesitant when he asked her to leave with him. So his irrational and impulsive mind jumped to the next possible logical situation. because he loved her so much his reaction to her betrayal too had same intensity.

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jonjimmy

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Posted: 9 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Mahi369
This whole atharva vividha romance is insane ...there has to be some sanctity to marriage what are we as responsible citizens teaching our children that it is ok to cheat on your spouses ... disgusting

The sancity of the marriage was already destroyed when vividha was forced to marry ravish. Marriage is not only about MS and sindoor. It should also involve two people who were ready and willing enough to keep the sancity of the marriage. This story is telling or redefining the correct sense of sancity of the marriage. There is nothing disgusting in it if you willing view it in that sense.

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