The difference between Atharva n ravish's reaction towards vividha

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Posted: 8 years ago
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The difference between ravish and Atharva reaction is that ravish never felt like he had any right on vividha. The right I am talking about is the freedom to be in her personal space. Even from the beginning he knew she did not gave him that right. This guy found it wrong even to sleep in the same bed. She was always rude and even said that he was no husband of hers. Him saying she never loved him during the breakdown further proves it. Just like suman, he felt that vividha was never his to begin with. But that was not the case with Atharva. He felt that only he himself had a right to claim vividha as a man claims a woman in every aspect. And this right was given to him by vividha itself. Though I found the 'bed' dialogue harsh, I can see why he said that. Because it is vitharv, their love story was always either hot or cold. There were never a middle ground for them. It was same as vividha coming to conclusion that Atharva cheated on her. They both behaved irrational when faced with same situation. I can almost see Atharva begging for forgiveness when he learns the whole truth. The second difference is that ravish never found himself worthy enough to ask why vividha did this to him. Him saying "am I that bad" proves it. He is good man but these were the sole reasons why he never questioned vividha. On the other hand Atharva was always aware of his self worth. Him rejecting vividha's proposal at the cliff proves it.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's laughable that they're comparing Ravish and Atharv here because Atharv has FULL RIGHT over her, just like she has. They are each other's belonging in a way, they have the HAQ to question each other where as Ravish never had that right to cross the line.

The dynamics are completely different. Being a 'husband' does not give him the right that Atharv just innately has with Vividha (and vice Versa)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is what I responded to the other topic, but since that TM refused to answer it, I am going to post here. Hope to get any response here.

I have to say a lot, but I am just going to say two things for right now:

- Ravish-Vividha's marriage was for 1 month; Atharva-Vividha's relationship was for more than 1 year.

- Ravish got to know about Vividha-Atharva truth from Vividha herself; Atharva got to know the truth about Vividha-Ravish on his own.

Now just think about this Ravish got to know about the truth on his own or If Vividha-Ravish were married Atleast for a one year and even if she wasn't able to move on from Atharva how would he have reacted?!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

It's laughable that they're comparing Ravish and Atharv here because Atharv has FULL RIGHT over her, just like she has. They are each other's belonging in a way, they have the HAQ to question each other where as Ravish never had that right to cross the line.

The dynamics are completely different. Being a 'husband' does not give him the right that Atharv just innately has with Vividha (and vice Versa)

Yes, And the accusations where never him disrespecting her but him venting out his hurt feelings. Although those accusations were cruel I can understand why he said it.It is just that His accusations had the same intensity of his love for her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: princess2507

This is what I responded to the other topic, but since that TM refused to answer it, I am going to post here. Hope to get any response here.

I have to say a lot, but I am just going to say two things for right now:

- Ravish-Vividha's marriage was for 1 month; Atharva-Vividha's relationship was for more than 1 year.

- Ravish got to know about Vividha-Atharva truth from Vividha herself; Atharva got to know the truth abotut Vividha-Ravish on his own.

Now just think about this Ravish got to know about the truth on his own or If Vividha-Ravish were married Atleast for a one year and even if she wasn't able to move on from Atharva how would he have reacted?!


Exactly my point. I don't know about ravish's fans but we could be Happy that at least ravish is mature enough to understand our point. 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What's a man to do.
Some ppl were saying if Atharv did not question y vividha did not consider ravish feeling about breaking marriage then his ideals are wrong.

Now when he did that. Ppl are nor ready to look at it.

All they are bothered is about how he said some really obnoxious words. But he was hurt. He took his anger upon her.

The same ppl are cursing Atharv saying he is pathetic.

Only shows few ppl need a reason to accuse. Not understand the character.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetygirl28

What's a man to do.

Some ppl were saying if Atharv did not question y vividha did not consider ravish feeling about breaking marriage then his ideals are wrong.

Now when he did that. Ppl are nor ready to look at it.

All they are bothered is about how he said some really obnoxious words. But he was hurt. He took his anger upon her.

The same ppl are cursing Atharv saying he is pathetic.

Only shows few ppl need a reason to accuse. Not understand the character.



They just need a reason to prove Ravish right.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: jonjimmy

Exactly my point. I don't know about ravish's fans but we could be Happy that at least ravish is mature enough to understand our point.😃



Well I am not going to comment about Ravish here, but what I know is that Atharva's reaction on what he saw, what he heard, what he feed upon was justified. He was most angry at Vividha because he trusted her more than Anything. He trusted her not to lie, but she did.

Atharva and Vividha are wrong but they are right also.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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yup atharv has full rights to vent out on Vividha, their relationship is such that these things will make them even strong, he raised from death again and again for her and only her, his anger, jis frustration is expected, i thought he wld slay ravish, he has just controlled himself
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am silent watcher of this show and watch is mostly because it is interesting story. But I had to say this today:

I think anyone who is saying that ravish did not have any rights over vividha and that is why his reaction does not count does not know anything about marriage. I am all for feminism and women's rights but that does not change the fact that ravish got married to a girl believing that she wanted to marry him and when he found out the truth his reaction showed that he is a good man who knows how to respect a woman and her choices.
Being a boyfriend for a year does not give a man a right over you to accuse and abuse. That is not how it works. I understand Atharv's anger completely and the fact that he feels betrayed but his reaction showed the difference between him and Ravish. He also needs to understand that being an adult is all about thinking before you react in a situation and if not trusting then at least giving the woman you claim to love a chance to say a couple of words in her own defence.

I think if you put yourself in Ravish's place and imagine the man you married loves someone else how would you feel? Do you think you would have the RIGHT to feel betrayed or just because he loves someone else the vows you took when you got married cease to matter?

I am not saying Vividha does not have a right to chose who she wants to be with but the fact remains that at the time she did get married to Ravish and his reaction to the betrayal he faced proved him to be a better man than the man she loves who has known her for a year or more and should know better than to call her a gold digger.

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