Are Men better than Women?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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This is the biggest issues in all parts of the world. Even in this century, men are considered more superior than women....can someone explain why? Girls can do just as much as guys can and even more at times. I find it really disturbing at the thoughts that in some religions, women get an abortion done because they found out from their ultrasound report that they are going to have a girl? What is there in guys that girls don't have? We are just as strong, capable, powerful, intelligent. Then why is it that women's abilities are always neglected and men are always chosen over women?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Yh I don't understand why some people think boys are better than girls... God created both man and woman... so both are equal... both have a heart, a brain, eyes, ears, nose etc... so what makes a man better than a woman... a woman is who gives birth to man in the first place... so without a woman there is no man...

Both should be treated equally...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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One of myy ever famous topic on debate!!! 😳 😃

In today's world women do almost evrything that man can do.We arent behind men for nething.
Tere are many personalities out in world who hv created name for themslevs without the help from man.

Women can understnd problms of othrs bettr than men.In today's world husband n wife have equal rights and responsibilities.Both take almost th same degrees,so in no way can a man be ahead of women.They need to fight for it if they want to go ahead f us.

Many religions teach like women should always be under men.But i simply cannot agree to tis fact.

Men need to think,if they are in the world today,its only bcoz of a women.If th women had decided to not bring the baby to the world,thn men cud hv done nothing.

If its a girl child the family cant go on it seems.I am th only girl child of my parents.So wen people talk they say 'ek hi bacha he kyaa,ab yeh family yahaa se kathm".
How disgustin people are at times.My mom is the best,she snaps them with her ever ready answers!!! 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Wait ...Wait..... if woman does,nt think....that (her man) is not superior than her ..then she won't call herselves.........Mrs Salman Khan...Mrs George Clooney....Mrs shiney ahuja.......

or alteast..she will not tag the name of her man at the end of her name😉😆 ..Like Mrs Mallika Mahesh.......or atleast Meerabhai_krishnan

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Posted: 17 years ago
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😊

Women are given equal importance in indian society..even in mythology😊....infact

Lord Ram is called Seetha pathi

Lord Vishnu is called Lakshmi pathi.....et al....

...We might not have seen Razia sultana's Rani Lakshmi Bai...Rani Rudrama....

or Sarojini Naidu.....or Indira....if women were'nt important😛

Edited by mythili_Kiran - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: love_iqbal_khan

This is the biggest issues in all parts of the world. Even in this century, men are considered more superior than women....can someone explain why? Girls can do just as much as guys can and even more at times. I find it really disturbing at the thoughts that in some religions, women get an abortion done because they found out from their ultrasound report that they are going to have a girl? What is there in guys that girls don't have? We are just as strong, capable, powerful, intelligent. Then why is it that women's abilities are always neglected and men are always chosen over women?

You'll find some husbands who will totally disagree with you 😆😆😆

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Posted: 17 years ago
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No one is better than the other!! They need to understand that both are equal!! Ardhanarishwarar is a god who is half shiva and half parvati.. Its a proven fact that without men women are not complete and vice versa!!
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Understanding Indian Women: Love, History and Studies
Abstracts of the Lectures (up to 20-25 minutes each, followed by a discussion of 5-10 minutes: 30 minutes tot). For detailed information on the symposium date, location, and participants please see here.

The Ladies of Kambujadesha: Indian tradition jewels in the Khmer land
by Marilia Albanese

The Khmer empire, flourished between the 9th and the 13th century with its heart in Kambujadesha, now Cambodia, was deeply influenced by India, and its sovereigns highly embodied the cakravartin's ideal.

Their queens, princesses and women of noble birth were cultivated exponents of the Sanskrit culture and played a determining role in politics and arts. From Hyang Pavitra, spouse of Jayavarman II, first king of the unified Khmer reign, to the most known Jayarajadevi and Indradevi, wives of the last great emperor Jayavarman VII, the Ladies of Kambujadesha were "oceans of wisdom", as quoted by the inscriptions. Some of these inscriptions were even composed by the noble women theirselves.

Due to this precious epigraphic patrimony we learn the importance of the female component in the field of the royal sacredness: indeed it seems that the matrilineal descent was determining in the succession and nearly always an usurper used to legitimize his power through a marriage with the widow or the daughter of the preceding king. Furthermore a myth tells that the ancestors of the Khmer royal families were the Indian brahman Kaundinya and the Nagini Soma, daughter of Naga's king. The Nagini, the women of these mythical water creatures, partly cobra, were in India the ancestors of many royal lineages.

Heroines and Anti-Heroines: Resourceful Widows in Ancient Indian Literature
by Fabrizia Baldissera

This study explores different figures of Indian widows found in eleventh century Sanskrit literature. The traditional image is that of the inauspicious and at best wanton widow, but some texts suggest that she can also be considered successful as such.

This inverted image will be contrasted with women of different social classes who even in widowhood manage successfully to both preserve their dignity and support their families.

La donna nella letteratura religiosa jainista, il difficile equilibrio fra restrizione e realt' monastica femminile e il dibattito sulla liberazione
(Women in Jaina Literature, the Difficult Equilibrium between Female Monastic Restriction and Reality, and the Debate on Liberation)
by Carlo della Casa

Il giainismo condivide con la generalit' della cultura indiana antica una non celata diffidenza verso la donna, considerata fonte di discordie, soggetto di tentazioni che allontanano dalla concentrazione e dalla castit', inevitabilmente connessa con il mendacio e l'inganno, come anche traspare dall'episodio di Melli, unico Th'rtha'kara di sesso femminile. Da questa diffusa sfiducia, la limitazione di alcuni diritti liturgici, le regole pi' strette, la preclusione alle cariche pi' alte, lo stesso dibattito secolare sulla possibilit' di raggiungere la liberazione nella condizione femminile. Tuttavia, storicamente il numero delle monache ' stato ed ' superiore a quello degli uomini, la qualit' morale delle monache non ' mai stata in discussione (a differenza di quanto successe per altre comunit'), ' stato riconosciuto che ' il karman a determinare il destino, n' ' mancata l'esaltazione della donna (Samadeva S'ri). Sembra dunque che anche nel controverso rapporto uomo-donna il gainismo tenti un faticoso e difficile equilibrio tra esigenze diverse, che sembra essere la chiave di lettura pi' vera per quel movimento che non vuol essere soltanto espressione d'un ristretto gruppo di asceti, ma vuole proporsi come interpete universale e valido attraverso i secoli.

Glorification of Women's Heroism in Indian Patriotic Songs
by Donatella Dolcini

In the long struggle for the indipendence of India women played a very
important role since the beginning: the name and deeds of Lakshmi Bai, the
Rani of Jhansi, who was one of the main leaders in the out-break of 1857-58,
are famous all around the world. Then came Swarn Kumari, Sarla Devi,
Sarojini Naidu, Kasturba Gandhi and others, each of them offering her own gift of heroism to Mother India. After them came more women, whose names remained unknown, but whose actions strongly contributed to make India free. In the large amount of patriotic songs, which people go on cherishing so far, these heroines are celebrated with great love and admiration. Verses and tunes are often very naive, nevertheless they help very well in keeping the memories of these brave women alive and stimulating till now.

Karnidevi the Shakti of the Charans
by Enrico Fasana

Karniji is not only the Kuladevi of the Charans, but she has also become the Kuladevi of many Rajput clans. She represents as a whole the female power in Rajasthan. Due to her, all kingly authorities are legitimated. In fact, thanks also to many studies, including those of the noted Udinese linguist Luigi Pio Tessitori, we can see her fame spread by Charans, Bhats, Bhopas, Takhurs, and the Rajas.

Representing women: images in the arts of ancient India
by Cinzia Pieruccini

In the visual arts of ancient India, from the first Buddhist works down to the temple sculptures of the Middle Ages, the female body (of goddesses, nymphs, human ladies...) is depicted according to a very constant ideal of beauty. This same ideal is reflected also by Epics and classical poetry, through metaphors and similes. The woman's body evokes sensuousness, fertility and auspiciousness; and it is often connected with vegetation and natural phenomena, as shown by literature, iconography and cult.

Shakti and womanhood in Tagore's criticism of nationalism
by Mario Prayer

Rabindranath Tagore considered nationalism as contrary to India's cultural heritage in several respects. He was also a critic of modernism. Its mechanical operation and lifelessness, he thought, constrained the free expression of man's spirituality. He contrasted these imports from the West with the richness of Indian civilization, which he saw as simbolyzed by the shakti, the divine female energy giving life and sustaining the world. He criticized the nationalist interpretation of shakti and projected the predicament of Indian civilization through the unhappy story of some of his female characters. In the famous novel Ghare-baire, Bimala, wife of the noble landlord Nikhil, is attracted by the energetic nationalist leader Sandip, who sees her as an embodiment of Indian patriotism. As the object of a masculine theorization of power, Bimala is transfigured into an abstract entity. At first she feels exalted, but gradually grows disillusioned with Sandip's hollow, violent insincerity. In the end, Bimala realizes her mistake, and innerly rejects the nationalist shakti - only too late to avoid tragedy. Tagore's morale is that Indian identity and the richness of Indian civilization are bound to perish because of the amoral use of physical power as commanded by intellectual abstractions and the mindless exaltation of Mother India.

Women as a source of bliss and as an obstacle to renunciation
by Daniela Rossella

As is well known, in the kaavya love is unhesitatingly defined as the most important of life's experiences (and as an essentially aesthetic one). Moreover, it is explicitly stated that this experience is best described and understood by means of typical female characters, or naayikaas. Thus woman, neglected and despised in almost every other area of the Indian literary tradition, in the kaavya becomes the object of the poet's worship and the pivot of his Weltanschauung, as he describes the charm, by turns delightful and disturbing, that she exerts on her lovers. But it also often happens that a poetical anthology is subdivided into monothematic sections: for instance, 'earthly wisdom', 'love', 'grief', 'spiritual peace', and so on. A strange fact about these anthologies is that these various themes are juxtaposed without being synthesised to reflect a consistent hierarchy of values. Therefore, after a section in which the love of women seems to be the unique source of bliss, we find another in which women are despised and condemned as an obstacle to renunciation. In these sections, exactly as in religious, ethical, and legal texts, woman is not herself, but the embodiment of the abstract idea of "womanliness", in which , not surprisingly, the stereotyped vices of ungovernable temper and lustfulness are predominant. The 128 stanzas of the RasikaraNjana, which I now present in its first Italian translation (R. Schmidt's 1896 German translation is the only other into a European language), can be read as both a paean of love, and a glorification of renunciation. This text is thus a unique masterpiece, which leads the reader simultaneously along two paths: the way of bhukti and the way of mukti.

Love's Labors: Love and Narrative in the Plays of Bh'sa by Sally J. Sutherland Goldman

The paper will examine how the early Sanskrit playwright known as Bh'sa constructs the narratives of his love stories in his plays with an eye towards understanding the attitude of this author/composer towards women and love. While the authorship and the date of these plays can be questioned, it seems very likely that they, or at least the large majority of them, were composed by the hand of one person. The collection of plays, known as the B'san''akacakram, or "Circle of Plays of Bh'sa," is unusual not only in quantity but in the handling of its subject matter and characters. There are thirteen plays, a relatively large corpus, of varying lengths; and the main focus of the vast majority of the stories is either martial valor or love. The latter, love, is the central motivating factor of longest, most developed, and most famous of the plays. Of particular interest in this cycle of plays is the prominent position that women play in a number of them, especially in those that focus on love. The heroines of these plays, especially Vasantasen', V'savadatt', Karu'g' and Padm'vat' are active and vibrant characters in their respective plays, while S't', Kausaly', G'ndhar', and Hi'imb', are perhaps less visible, but, nevertheless, play pivotal roles. The way in which Bh'sa gives voice to these women and how they are positioned within their narratives can provide us with insights into the manner in which Bh'sa and the traditional society he represents viewed women. In turn, we can use Bh'sa's treatment of women to further understand the playwright, his period, and his audience.

Female Form in Indian Sculpture [with slides]
by Kapila Vatsyayan

The paper will deal with the attitude to the female body in Indian thought and art, and it will offer a comparison between Indian sculpture and Ancient Greek sculpture.

Female Rishis and Philosophers in the Veda?
by Michael Witzel

It is a traditional but common misconception that a considerable number of Rgvedic hymns were composed by women. Though female authors and interlocutors are not entirely absent from the Vedas the role of 'literate' women in the Rgveda will have to be re-evaluated. The traditional names given for female Rgvedic authors include those derived from the wordings of the hymns but also personified Belief, Speech and a bitch.

http://www.asiatica.org/symposium/abstracts.php
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Posted: 17 years ago
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/1632413.stm (old article)

Could men become extinct?

Men find it difficult to communicate their fears
A leading expert on men's health predicts that his sex risk becoming extinct unless their basic approach to health issues changes. Professor Siegfried Meryn, from the University of Vienna in Austria, believes that over the past 25 years men's role in society, in the home and at work has dramatically changed.

Women now have a higher emotional intelligence and better social competence then men and are much more in control of their own lives than they used to be

Professor Siegfried Meryn
And women have become the more dominant members of society. "What will be the implications of the redefinition of men's roles within the family, work and society on their health?," wrote Professor Siegfried. "Will there come a time when they may not be needed at all?" With the advent of sperm banks, in-vitro fertilisation, sex sorting techniques, sperm independent fertilisation of eggs with somatic cells, human cloning and same sex marriages it is a distinct possibility, he argues. His editorial in the British Medical Journal coincides with the first World Congress on Men's Health in Vienna, where experts are examining the impact men's altered role in society is having on their health. Threat to masculinity Professor Siegfried, president of the congress, said: "Women now have a higher emotional intelligence and better social competence then men and are much more in control of their own lives than they used to be. "Men are not necessarily at the top of the hierarchy in their work-place and their role in the family has completely changed. But he says men are trying to hang on to the past and cannot accept the increasing threats to their masculinity. 😆 Professor Siegfried stresses that unless there is a fundamental change to their approach to fit in with today's society, problems will ensue. He calls for a new approach in the advertisement and promotion of men's health in a positive way and the creation of more anonymous 'men-friendly' advice lines. Loss of control Ian Banks, president of the European Men's Health Forum, says that men are put off going to the doctor because they see it as losing control. They find it difficult to express their fears about their health and their knowledge of health matters is often poor. Information on men's health is not as widely available as that on women's issues. And men are also less likely to respond to health promotion information from leaflets and advertising.

He believes that anonymous, confidential services such as NHS Direct Online, which has already proved a success with men, should be expanded.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Godblessyou Deepak 😛
Some points in the article you shared are interesting...

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