Anika giving a wrong message wid her insaan-halaat dialogue

Anika stopped Sahil saying insaan galat nahi halaat galat tha aur koi insaan bura nahi hota or sumthn like dat. Why she has to stop him wen his own family was not stopping him? Why be so mahaan yaar wen u have chance to get back at Shivaay? Wud she stopped Sahil n said d same dialogue if it was Daksh in place of Shivaay? Now others will say dat Anika is seeing d good in Shivaay n she wants Sahil to be a good man. Wat good she wants to see in a man who only abused her n did not even felt a bit ashamed abt it? If dats d case then no criminals will be arrested by d police as d police will see only good in them n let them go. Wat she is teaching Sahil is also wrong? Yaa he is small Anika dear but he has more brains than you. 2mrw if someone does wrong wid him will she tell him stand up for himself n fight back or give him d same lecture dat no person is bad? No wonder why so many victims of abuse don't walk out of marriage. They have d same stupid belief as Anika. D heroines seen on TV really has a affect on people in real life who thinks dat their abuser may change if they r nice to them. Anika is clearly justifying Shivaay's actions d same way some victims justify their abusers wid circumstance card n wat not. I think she has not seen d real world till now. Me too have not seen much of d real world but knows dis much dat d world is a bad place where there is no place for mahaanta like Anika is showing. She is just teln d thousands of victims of abuse dat their abusers r not bad person but their circumstances r bad. I know many will dis is just a fiction show but many people actually take inspirations 4m such shows. I don't care if anyone calls me feminist or anything but Anika did 2day was wrong.

First of all dear getting called a feminist is something I would feel proud about. That means you believe in equality of all the sexes. The word has fem of female in it bcoz women have been the one on the lesser weighing end of this equality scale, nothing else in it says that you have to always support women even if they are being wrong.

Now have you ever been terribly hurt when you were nothing but nice to ppl. You sure were. We all have been there. Sometimes when terrible things happen to us we tend to believe the whole world is bad. We lose all hope in goodness of the world. Some people become cynical & some people become depress.

Anika here is talking to a 6 year old boy, who might think that the whole world is bad bcoz someone who he thought was just annoying did something terrible to the only person that matter to him.

Anika here is not justifying Shivaay. She is just telling Sahil that even though Shivaay has been a bad person, not everyone will be like him. Most of the time they are just ignorant & just sometimes they are in terrible circumstances.

Telling this to her little brother is important to her not bcoz she wants him to think good of Shivaay but bcoz she wants him to not lose faith in his goodness & the goodness of the world.

You might think that I am justifying Shivaay. No I am not. I have met terrible people in my life ( not as much as SSO ofcourse), I have lost my hope in goodness of people. And I have later met good people again who made me belief that not all are like those bad people.


I think Anika is just trying to protect Sahil's beliefs. She here is not justifying SSO.

I agree with you...Annika is justifying Shivaay...i know she was making understand sahil the situation but still then Shivaay is very brutal and cruel... IN the name of khoon khandaan he will stoop to any level...😡

Originally posted by: poemssyndrome

First of all dear getting called a feminist is something I would feel proud about. That means you believe in equality of all the sexes. The word has fem of female in it bcoz women have been the one on the lesser weighing end of this equality scale, nothing else in it says that you have to always support women even if they are being wrong.
Now have you ever been terribly hurt when you were nothing but nice to ppl. You sure were. We all have been there. Sometimes when terrible things happen to us we tend to believe the whole world is bad. We lose all hope in goodness of the world. Some people become cynical & some people become depress.
Anika here is talking to a 6 year old boy, who might think that the whole world is bad bcoz someone who he thought was a annoying did something terrible to the only person that matter to him.
Anika here is not justifying Shivaay. She is just telling Sahil that even though Shivaay has been a bad person, not everyone will be like him. Most of the time they are just ignorant & just sometimes they are in terrible circumstances.
Telling this to her little brother is important to her not bcoz she wants him to think good of Shivaay but bcoz she wants him to not lose faith in his goodness & the goodness of the world.
You might think that I am justifying Shivaay. No I am not. I have met terrible people in my life ( not as much as SSO ofcourse), I have lost my hope in goodness of people. And I have later met good people again who made me belief that not all are like those bad people.
I think Anika is just trying to protect Sahil's beliefs. She here is not justifying SSO.

i dont think Anika gave a wrong message today

I didn't feel it's wrong on Anika in fact she is good in teaching that to a kid that situations only make things worse and a person to act bad ( not saying sso is right I hate what he did to Anika)
But we need to teach good things no matter how bad things are around us we shouldn't add ghee to the kids anger instead pour water and calm them that's what Anika did .
Fights should be internal not open to kids otherwise kids are so delicate u need to say things to calm them and try to keep them away from such arguments/ fights .
So Anika not wrong she is indeed a great sibling/ mother figure to sahil

Originally posted by: poemssyndrome

First of all dear getting called a feminist is something I would feel proud about. That means you believe in equality of all the sexes. The word has fem of female in it bcoz women have been the one on the lesser weighing end of this equality scale, nothing else in it says that you have to always support women even if they are being wrong.

Now have you ever been terribly hurt when you were nothing but nice to ppl. You sure were. We all have been there. Sometimes when terrible things happen to us we tend to believe the whole world is bad. We lose all hope in goodness of the world. Some people become cynical & some people become depress.

Anika here is talking to a 6 year old boy, who might think that the whole world is bad bcoz someone who he thought was just annoying did something terrible to the only person that matter to him.

Anika here is not justifying Shivaay. She is just telling Sahil that even though Shivaay has been a bad person, not everyone will be like him. Most of the time they are just ignorant & just sometimes they are in terrible circumstances.

Telling this to her little brother is important to her not bcoz she wants him to think good of Shivaay but bcoz she wants him to not lose faith in his goodness & the goodness of the world.

You might think that I am justifying Shivaay. No I am not. I have met terrible people in my life ( not as much as SSO ofcourse), I have lost my hope in goodness of people. And I have later met good people again who made me belief that not all are like those bad people.


I think Anika is just trying to protect Sahil's beliefs. She here is not justifying SSO.

You are absolutely correct.

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

It's dat whoever speaks against Shivaay is called a feminist n told to do social service in a mocking way. No I did not found u justifying Shivaay. I am not dat much dumb to misunderstand u. But Anika told him clearly dat indian gala nahi haallaat gala the n then O Jaana music played on Anika n Shivaay. So it have d wrong impression dat Anika is justifying Shivaay's deeds to Sahil. She sudhave said sumthn like not all people r bad like Shivaay if Sahil thinks there is no goodness in people or said sumthn like not to dirty his hands n crutch by hitting a dirt like Shivaay. She cud have given him right information widout whitewashing Shivaay.

Ok, first of all I didn't know people do that.M y bad.Well they should go & search Feminist on Google first then. I pity them if they are women & think so even then.
I said that just to be on the safer side. You know I don't want u to think that I wanna start a fight or something.
See that's what they are doing wrong here. Not every scene where they are standing together needs 'O jaana' in the background. Even when he was forcing her for marriage, they played it. I think they don't get how music sets the mood.
About Whitewashing SSO, children are impressionable & yet wise. They sense what's right & what's wrong. I feel that she wants that hating Shivaay shouldn't be a large part of Sahil's existence. May be that's why she didn't. But I feel we should wait. May be they have scene talking about it tomorrow!

Originally posted by: poemssyndrome

Ok, first of all I didn't know people do that.M y bad.Well they should go & search Feminist on Google first then. I pity them if they are women & think so even then.
I said that just to be on the safer side. You know I don't want u to think that I wanna start a fight or something.
See that's what they are doing wrong here. Not every scene where they are standing together needs 'O jaana' in the background. Even when he was forcing her for marriage, they played it. I think they don't get how music sets the mood.
About Whitewashing SSO, children are impressionable & yet wise. They sense what's right & what's wrong. I feel that she wants that hating Shivaay shouldn't be a large part of Sahil's existence. May be that's why she didn't. But I feel we should wait. May be they have scene talking about it tomorrow!