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Supercommandodh

@Supercommandodh

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Posted: 8 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

@bold: I wanted to say d same any ur rapist line. Also, if terrorists threaten to attack India then instead of stopping them send some girls 4m India to marry n change them wid their love. After all, they too may have bad past or brainwashed into becoming terrorists. If Saumya cud not have been able to save Rudra 4m being married to Romi then wud Dado tell Rudra d same dat is to accept d marriage?

No..then dadi would have said something opposite..ki "zabardasti ke rishto se khushi ni milti roomi,mangalsutra agar dil se naa bandhaa jaaye toh woh toot jaata hain..aur kisi cheez ke tootne par zyada dard hota hain bajai usko aaraam se utar ke rakhne par"( but aise dialogue abhi apne case pe ni maaregi)..i am still unable to grasp that a channel which has a new tagline of "nayee soch" is showing such a regressive action..you wanted to show shivaay anika together..you could have chosen n number of ways..

1. Shivaay not marrying tia and then after 100 episodes of drama..finally shivaay and anika together (normal track though stretched)

2. Shivaay marrying tia without the drama but tia divorces him and then he lose s 50% property or even 100% property (tracks of many ekta's 2000-10 serials)

3. Tia dies ..but leave a daughter and remorseful diary (kuch kuch hota hain, body guard)

All the above 3 things arcs stupid ..but they are still better than what shivaay actually did..either we are too desensitise in seeing a violence against women or we think that romance should win no matter whatever the path..that was no romantic..cute..intense..or something moment for me when shivaay threatened anika..it was nauseating that how the maker have suddenly turned a protagonist into such a person..

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shanry

@shanry

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#82

It's indeed disappointing to think that in order for women to feel modern, empowered and able to stand tall without a man's support, we have to forget our culture, traditions and upbringing.

I'm educated in the west and am considered 1 of the most modern, forward thinking women in our multinational organisation but that does not mean I forget the importance and respect that is due to my mangal sutra, sindoor and all that marriage entails.

Shivaay knew exactly what he was doing, he was not the one forced into this marriage. Having forced a wedding, he cannot now arbitrarily decide he doesn't want to acknowledge it. To allow him to do so would be insulting to our traditions and even more regressive as it connotes a man in power can do anything he wants with the life of a helpless middle class girl.

Whilst Annika, yes, the marriage was forced, and yes she should be able to decide whether to acknowledge it or not, but if she chooses not to, she should not be labelled as regressive. Nayi Sochi is also about allowing a woman to decide her life for herself without the society around her dictating her actions.

Edited by shanry - 8 years ago

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Supercommandodh

@Supercommandodh

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Posted: 8 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: shanry
It's indeed disappointing to think that in order for women to feel modern, empowered and able to stand tall without a man's support, we have to forget our culture, traditions and upbringing.
I'm educated in the west and am considered 1 of the most modern, forward thinking women in our multinational organisation but that does not mean I forget the importance and respect that is due to my mangal sutra, sindoor and all that marriage entails.

Shivaay knew exactly what he was doing, he was not the one forced into this marriage. Having forced a wedding, he cannot now arbitrarily decide he doesn't want to acknowledge it. To allow him to do so would be insulting to our traditions and even more regressive as it connotes a man in power can do anything he wants with the life of a helpless middle class girl.

And Annika, yes, the marriage was forced, and yes she should be able to decide whether to acknowledge it or not, but if she chooses not to, she should not be labelled as regressive. Nayi Sochi is also about allowing a woman to decide her life for herself without the society around her dictating her actions.

Culture value and tradition define us but as ambadekar (and today is his death anniversary) commented 70 years ago that culture, value and tradition are not 100% correct..it cant be..because society change and so does the change in culture and values..while marriage as an institution, nangalsutra and all those things are held highly in our culture..this specific case is not about disrespecting culture, tradition. This case is about the process one takes to forcibly attain that status. What shivaay did is a crime.this is almost equivalent to that if I have some lusty thoughts for a girl I should threaten her..and kidnapped her brother with intention to kill him (bomb explosion) and then marry her..and then my grandmother will come and lecture my wife that you should put nangalsutra, marriage etc highly and then girl "characterisation" is done to appease me..and then people will say..okay girl want to stay with me..no problem..issue solved..this is seriously regressive for me atleast..and i don't want any characters on tv as well in real life to be like shivaay or anika..

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Jaya Devi

@Aphrodite88

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#84

Awesome post lachu!

That lady is just damn biased.

Put anyone else in Anika's place, i want to know will she even give this same irritating dhyaans 😡

She likes Anika hence her freaking love for her and she can taunt her own bahus. God's sake Anika's mother in law is Pinky, if Pinky herself doesnt accept Anika who the hell is Dadi 😡

I never wanted her to die in this show ever but her forcing Shivaay and Anika into a marriage where they hate each other is making me lose my sanity with this lady.

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