Will the roles ever reverse? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Roseymi

I'm sick seeing his actions...now the new one that he has come up with Selling her house ...come on enough of torture...and i have no idea why Annika is bearing this ...why?

Originally posted by: ...Tanu...

Agree with everything! Even I want Anika t control Shivaay's decisions once. Why not? Its very irritating to see him dictating everything to her and even more after marriage. Shadi karna hain to Sivaay ki marzi, divorce dena hain to Shivaay ki marzi, ghar chodna ya nahi chodna hain to shivaay ki marzi. Hadd hain. Then we get dialogues like takkar ka ishqbaaazi. Like really? . Anika is mute and Shivaay is dictating. mute hokar she is bearing everything. 😆

Originally posted by: chottekikhushi

I always love reading your posts because I love the crystal clear way that you present your points.

If you think about it, before the whole marriage fiasco, even with all his money and power, Anika has won every argument and Shivaay has never been able to savour a sweet victory after a fight with her. She has made him feel terrible or made him apologize or eat his own words after every spat they have had. Right from her trashing the windshield of his car and slapping his own money back on his face , to challenging him the very next day after he left her crying on the street after giving her a cheque worth 'her price' are examples of this. However, I agree that he has made her suffer terribly in the process.But she does nothing but just breathe and still he loses!!

Now the marriage and the other convoluted tracks running alongside it have just started and the writers have managed to made Shivaay sink to irredeemably low levels so I am hoping it is all done to serve a purpose, ie. for all the truths to blow up on his face simultaneousy! And usually their threshold for stretching the track is around 40 episodes, so I will still say that I am hopeful that she will emerge the winner this time around too because after atleast Daksh's truth comes out, Shivaay is going to be shattered!!

And eventually, ( but very unlikely in a Gul show) the power may pass on to her too. Maybe she will decide not to give him a divorce and when Tia's truth is out, he will have to transfer his shares to her name to prevent them being lost to Tia or something!

But I ofcourse have my doubts that we will ever get a redemption track at all because to answer your other question, Shivaay can never redeem himself fully after everything he has done. He can regret his mistakes, mourn her loss (and meanwhile maybe help Sahil?) and pray that she forgives him!

Originally posted by: S.Stephy

Right from the beginning, Shivika had never been a 'takkar ki jodi'. The thing I hated about SSO's 3-day challenge to finish Anika was that ultimately Anika was left with no choice but to work for him. Even though this point wasn't mentioned in an obvious way but if we really look at it, Anika did lose that challenge. I guess it all sort of started from there and ever since then Anika has been at a disadvantage. The most Anika could manage was throwing water or calling him 'bhaagad billa'. But none of it gives actual takkar to anything SSO has done. It's really just dadi who keeps chanting 'takkar ki jodi' all the time.

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

From the beginning, this relationship has never been takkar ka... anika just defies him but she is no match to this ruthlessness...

their fights started coz of her...she wasnt the one in the queue at temple... she was practicing dance there..n shivaay acted the VVIP...but she butt in when she herself wasnt at the receiving end of his VVIPgiri... thats put him off n he slapped money on her face... it wasnt her money...it was his...she broke his wind shield n slapped his money on his face... then she threw gobar at his car when it was totally uncalled for... but yes post all this he was ruthless and in control always... he made her pay for no mistake of hers...it was coz of his bias she was in jail the whole night while sahil got kidnapped... his mistake he dropped the pen drive at jail and he blamed her for release of the contents to the media...

despite his meanness and ruthlessness...she fell for him...

btw takkar need not be being in control...takkar also means being able to stand up to...anika can deffo stand up to shivaay...she isnt scared of him as she has nuthing to lose...he used the only person she cud lose to his advantage to blackmail her into wedding...

tables will turn when she will deny giving him a divorce coz he has asked for it... n i hope the day Tia fiasco comes out... n daksh's truth comes out...she shud sign and throw the divorce papers on his face... when he least expects or when he wants her to stay back ...she throwing the divorce papers at him will show him his place n will show she is in control...

but yes she needs to be in control for once... he has controlled her too far

Originally posted by: --Nargis--

I wouldn't say that he has always been in CONTROL...I would say he has always been the INSTIGATOR...and that is a part of his character...to always show as if he is in control, when in fact, in most of his altercations with her...he was not in control. He has ended up conceding to her goodness so many times...and when one concedes...that is ultimately giving up control. I am in no way defending Shivvay's action...because like all of the feminists here...i am a firm believer in woman's rights, equality, respect, etc... and with everyone else...she commands it so well...but with him...her equation is different, especially post the marriage. Annika is still not out of the trauma of everything that has happened to her...the forced marriage...and sometimes I think more than that is the trauma that she can LOVE a man such as this...the failure to reconcile the 2 faces of Shivvay, her loving, caring Billu Ji, versus this Khoon Khandaan Naam loving beast. Her weakness is the feeling she has for this man...these feelings have traumatized her...the forced wedding...and the threat to Sahil's life has all but shut her off...henc the Annika you see almost moping about. The only one she still reacts the same with is TIA...for with TIA...there is no question in Annika's mind on her guilt...there is no confusion at all. Intact...its her interactions with TIA...that will help bring about the stronger...more stable Annika.

Sorry for ranting...and BTW...this perspective in no way excuses the CVs from giving a DHASU Redemption track...but...sigh...its like a distance dream right now!!