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Taking a stand for your wife can make an Ideal person.
No... I don't think so.
Came across many of the post on the forum saying that now Dev will learn from Vicky how to treat his wife, vicky should also share the spine with the Dev.
I don't agree.
Let me tell what is Dev and what is Vicky.
Dev... A man who struggle his entire life to get the peaceful bread and butter for his family.
A man who have lost his childhood to earn money and to become the support of his mother.
A man who thinks about others before himself.
A man who thinks about his sisters desires before himself.
A man who keep his family above all his desires.
A man who don't give a single thought before fulfilling the wishes of his family.
A man who understand the favours of his uncle and in his bad days he became his support.
A man who loves to eat the any dish made by his mother even if he is not feeling to eat just to keep his mother's heart.
Though we sometimes don't like the halwa scene but here I am not talking about ishwari's intentions.
A man who fall in love for the first time and want someone for himself. But
A man who can sacrifice his love just to give the peace to his mother.
I don't think he didn't took the stand for Sona, he did.And infact he respects her. I can highlight many but few only I have penned down.
Before marriage when Mami ji taunting sona and stop her saying becoming a doctor is not an easy task.
He took the stand when Neha and Mami ji leaving no stone to blame Sona in Ayaan fiasco.
He fought with his brother for his wife's respect.
I knew that he left Sona for his mother.
But it is easy to think about ourself but others, but keeping the others wishes first than ourself is not a cake walk.
He chose to hurt himself than hurting his mother.
And he made mistakes as he is a man and very well know how to rectify the mistakes and it really take a lots of guts to accept the mistakes.
Vicky...A man who is a brat, used to tease the girls.
A man who never ever earn a single pie on his own.
A man who along with his mom play tricks to get money from his brother.
A man who can lie to any extent to fulfill his desires.
A man who got the job because of his mother's black mailing but didn't know the ethics of work.
A man who betrayed a brother who trust him by taking a huge amount from the company.
A man who can't respect his mom, a Mother who made the Halwa with so much love for him .
A man who don't know how to respects the relations.
He behaved badly with his Bhabhi
A man who didn't gave a thought about his family before getting elope and getting married.
Today his one dialogue may have amazed many of the people that "Bahu Jayegi toh Beta Bhi Jayega"
He didn't gave a single thought before saying this that he is the only child and only support of his parents.
Here I found him very selfish
So failing in all the aspects and taking a stand for your wife. And that too I will not call a stand as he just black mailing and threatening his parents and loving your wife is enough and that also we don't know whether he genuinely loves her.
A man will be a man who respect every relation, for whom each relationship has a level of responsibility and fulfilling all the responsibilities before thinking about ourself. As every relation has its own place.
I know we should think own self first but sometimes we need keep ourselves aside.
If we have to think about ourselves first and keeping our desires on top everytime then no relation will be
complete and perfect in this world.
So guys tell me can taking a stand for your wife only can make a man an Ideal Person .
P.S.
If I had said more and have hurt someone, I am really sorry, I have just pour my heart and no intentions to hurt and bashed any character.
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