Precap-Totally agree with ishwari

I totally agree with Ishwari today.Nehas issues are pretty deep.Sona is too new into all this.She should jfirst understand the dynamics of the family and then start to weave her charm.Her intentions are good.But I think she is too confident some things need time and not action

Mayb I was not clear. A girl who spent her entire life thinking that her mother always chose her brother over her.She will hav deep abandonment issues.After marrying she gets to know that he husband choses his family over her.Her wounds are bound to surface.Ishwari knows this,knows that she is guilty.Thats the reason she is not forcing Sona.But Sona is very new in this equation.She has to understand the murky past,the dysfunctional relations of the dicots,before she does something.Having bought up as the apple of the eye,Sona sees everything in one dimension.She needs time to understand all this.She could least consult Dec ,try to understand Neha more,rather than jumping in to solve Neha's issues.At this point a bruised souls like Neha will take it as an interference

i agree with u ,sona needs to step back for a while. dixits have a complex relationship as against the boses. sona only knows one dimensional relationships where everyone shared everything. in case of dixits the opportunities from one where brutally snatched away to provide for another. well this could have been the consequences of circumstances, but at the same time when conditions at home improved no steps were taken to provide for the lost chances.as dev grew, he could have tried to include neha in some of his work or even tried to make her self reliant. instead they started to sideline neha and her bitterness towards life's injustices grew further. sentment towards everything in general makes her what she is today. more than anything else what neha needs now is the feeling of self worth. today ishwari realised that she is the one responsible for all this. what she desired always happened in dixit house. unfortunately she never desired to provide opportunities to neha. formal education/ going to school is just one of them. if ishwari desired, then dev would have definitely arranged something for neha.eg private english classes. neha has been taking care of family, she could have been into business related to food stuff or a celebrity chef or even a fashion designer. the point is if ishwari desired neha would have had her own identity as an individual.

I agree, Sonakshi should not interfere in Neha's matter for a while now. She is still new to this house and don't know much about the past of Neha. Though Dev has shared some incidents about Neha, but still Sonakshi is not fully aware of Neha's childhood and her mental condition due to her past. Neha at present, is not thinking sanely, so any advise by Sona will be taken in negative way only.

Sonakshi thinks, its just ego problems between neha and ranbhir but there is more to it and she don't know about it. Dev is calm now, but if she keeps interfering, even he may lose his cool and may tell her to stay out of Neha's issue. He may not do it intentionally, but may be out of frustration and pressure from his mom, similar to vicky drama.
Nobody in that house care for Sona's advise or suggestion, she too know that, but still she gives and gets humiliated. She gets hurt and hurt Dev too. Why can't she just let them be by themselves? Her intentions may be good, but nobody understands her except Dev.😒

So, Ishwari politely asking Sona to stay out of Neha's matter may look harsh and rude, but Its better if Sonakshi take her advice and stay away, at least, she will be at peace and gkb ka taana can be avoided too.😡

Best thing is, Sonakshi should rejoin her job and help her parents. Let Dev come to her if he need any kind of advise or suggestions. Dev will surely seek Sonakshi's advise.

Originally posted by: Meera_Ka_Mohan

I agree, Sonakshi should not interfere in Neha's matter for a while now. She is still new to this house and don't know much about the past of Neha. Though Dev has shared some incidents about Neha, but still Sonakshi is not fully aware of Neha's childhood and her mental condition due to her past. Neha at present, is not thinking sanely, so any advise by Sona will be taken in negative way only.

Sonakshi thinks, its just ego problems between neha and ranbhir but there is more to it and she don't know about it. Dev is calm now, but if she keeps interfering, even he may lose his cool and may tell her to stay out of Neha's issue. He may not do it intentionally, but may be out of frustration and pressure from his mom, similar to vicky drama.
Nobody in that house care for Sona's advise or suggestion, she too know that, but still she gives and gets humiliated. She gets hurt and hurt Dev too. Why can't she just let them be by themselves? Her intentions may be good, but nobody understands her except Dev.😒

So, Ishwari politely asking Sona to stay out of Neha's matter may look harsh and rude, but Its better if Sonakshi take her advice and stay away, at least, she will be at peace and gkb ka taana can be avoided too.😡

Best thing is, Sonakshi should rejoin her job and help her parents. Let Dev come to her if he need any kind of advise or suggestions. Dev will surely seek Sonakshi's advise.

Completely agree

Only when we see the whole episode we will know what's going on. However, even on Thursday I felt it was a bit of gamble to bring RV home without anyone knowing he was going to be coming.

Sona didnt want to interfere but she did is because she felt Neha is becoming a threat to her and Dev's happiness. Noticed Sona's expression during the garden scene when Neha had watched them .I knew then that she will get this sorted out.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Only when we see the whole episode we will know what's going on. However, even on Thursday I felt it was a bit of gamble to bring RV home without anyone knowing he was going to be coming.

The thing is Sona isnt one of those wives who sit on the sidelines, go to work, enjoy their yummy hubbies, spend weekends at their parents' and stay out of ILs matters. She made it very clear that she is very much part of the family. She tried to speak to Neha a few times but when she saw no one was taking any steps, she took matters in her own hands.

Now I dont think anything she did changed the course of things. This was inevitable even before Neha and RV got married. Sona probably flared the emotions, but nothing else.