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When HM got cancelled because Neha was unhappy, do you think future of Devakshi is safe in Ishwari Nivas. Every day Neha would be upset because she couldn't figure out her priorities and more so because she has a mother who never finds time to sit and talk with her daughter. Mother is always busy planning on how to keep Sona out of Dev's life's priority list. Who knows tomorrow she may insist Dev on leaving Sona just because Neha feels unhappy seeing the couple having romantic time together. Neha never got good advice in her entire life. She is still a child who needs love but circumstances and neglectance of Ishwari till date had made her into tantrum child. She needs a mature person to talk to, someone sensible like Sona, who can help her understand the basic values of life on short and long term. Till now Neha always thought of short term happiness, Ranveer's love only can make her happy lets get married, Ranveer doesn't earn much, lets get divorce. She never thinks logically, thanks to her crappy mother.

Only Sona can help her in the entire family. Rest all apart from mamaji and Dev are idiots and selfish people. And If left on dixits to solve the issue, Neha will be divorced a day before not a day later.
Ishwari had just one motive behind of not asking Sona to get into this, If sona ends up solving the problem which Ishwari thinks she may, Ishwari will loose her control over Neha and Dev.

Originally posted by: mena_k

Politely disagree with your thoughts.

When HM got cancelled because Neha was unhappy, do you think future of Devakshi is safe in Ishwari Nivas. Every day Neha would be upset because she couldn't figure out her priorities and more so because she has a mother who never finds time to sit and talk with her daughter. Mother is always busy planning on how to keep Sona out of Dev's life's priority list. Who knows tomorrow she may insist Dev on leaving Sona just because Neha feels unhappy seeing the couple having romantic time together. Neha never got good advice in her entire life. She is still a child who needs love but circumstances and neglectance of Ishwari till date had made her into tantrum child. She needs a mature person to talk to, someone sensible like Sona, who can help her understand the basic values of life on short and long term. Till now Neha always thought of short term happiness, Ranveer's love only can make her happy lets get married, Ranveer doesn't earn much, lets get divorce. She never thinks logically, thanks to her crappy mother.

Only Sona can help her in the entire family. Rest all apart from mamaji and Dev are idiots and selfish people. And If left on dixits to solve the issue, Neha will be divorced a day before not a day later.
Ishwari had just one motive behind of not asking Sona to get into this, If sona ends up solving the problem which Ishwari thinks she may, Ishwari will loose her control over Neha and Dev.

She never wanted to interfear

i agree partially. she shouldn't interfere directly but she can advice Dev and discuss with him that what she is thinking how can solve this matter. its not wrong to advice your husband. in neha ranveer matter i don't think its neha who is completely fault maybe ranveer also wrong. it's 3 months since their marriage happened neha did try to adjust she didn't return the next day of her marriage. I think people will priority what they lacked in childhood so neha priority is comfort and luxury. yes she know about ranveer financial status maybe she think that he is educated and talented if given chance he will definitely get some opportunity and make good money. but she needs to give time to ranveer. he will definitely fulfill her wishes.i think its not correct to blame neha only i think she tried to adjust. we should give her that. can we blame sona after 2or 3 months of marriage if she wanted to leave Dev and goes to her maayaka because of constant taunts from gkb, creepy vicky, hypocritic ishwari.nahi na. i know sona don't leave but i don't think any one in forum blame her if she did.

Speaking from a personal perspective>I dont like anyone interfering in my personal matters,no matter what the intention is.So its not abt right or wrong here.Its abt what Neha wants.

Understood what you are saying but I have a different POV. Agree that Sona's interference will not be acceptable wholeheartedly by anyone except Dev n Mamaji. You give space to someone when you know they can handle their problem. That is exactly what Sona did until Neha's problem interfered with their HM plan. Neither Neha is trying to solve her problem nor is her family helping her. After the garden scene Sona brought Ranveer home. It was the right thing according to Sona because it was unhealthy the way Neha behaved. They cannot go out because of her problems and now she is also encroaching their personal space. Sona doesn't run away from her problems but rather face it head on. The Dixits favourite game is playing Ostrich. Her attempts might have backfired. But she showed them the reality.Neha might have a truck load of issues. But as long as it doesn't cause anyone else any harm she can be left alone to lick her wounds in private. Ishwari can ask Sona not to interfere. But will she ask Dev to leave it alone. His state of mind is going to involve Sona in this again. When she sees her husband sad and restless, worried about his sister how will she stay away from the problem just because her MIL asked her to. And this needs someone not directly involved. Neha can emotionally blackmail both Ishwari and Dev but not Sona. She needs the advice of someone mature and with interest in her welfare. Who better than Sona will fit those shoes?

I disagree on this one.

Originally posted by: gmgi

Understood what you are saying but I have a different POV. Agree that Sona's interference will not be acceptable wholeheartedly by anyone except Dev n Mamaji. You give space to someone when you know they can handle their problem. That is exactly what Sona did until Neha's problem interfered with their HM plan. Neither Neha is trying to solve her problem nor is her family helping her. After the garden scene Sona brought Ranveer home. It was the right thing according to Sona because it was unhealthy the way Neha behaved. They cannot go out because of her problems and now she is also encroaching their personal space. Sona doesn't run away from her problems but rather face it head on. The Dixits favourite game is playing Ostrich. Her attempts might have backfired. But she showed them the reality.Neha might have a truck load of issues. But as long as it doesn't cause anyone else any harm she can be left alone to lick her wounds in private. Ishwari can ask Sona not to interfere. But will she ask Dev to leave it alone. His state of mind is going to involve Sona in this again. When she sees her husband sad and restless, worried about his sister how will she stay away from the problem just because her MIL asked her to. And this needs someone not directly involved. Neha can emotionally blackmail both Ishwari and Dev but not Sona. She needs the advice of someone mature and with interest in her welfare. Who better than Sona will fit those shoes?

Actually I liked that they showed her plan backfired. She is not a fairy with a magic wand. She will learn from her mistakes. The positive thing is she is trying and the problem is that she is the only one.

Agreed. Sona is still new in the house and shouldn't get involved in such complicated matters on the house, specially someone like Neha who is complicated to deal with. She can speak to Dev regarding all this. But not with the family.