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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mehak_kapoor

@ aarti massi- Oh man how come i missed this post???? 😕 i just saw it......... anyways better late than never 😆

As usual too gud massi ji 👏 👏 thanks mehak!!!

I just read conversation between u n shakira di in the last page n i think ridhima's character is suffering from major EGO SYNDROME....... she is very egoestic.......n to save her ego now she will use this new guy.......who i m sure will be stuck ti her like '' FLY TO GURH'' 😆 😆 n will show her stars after she will ditch him for armaan [sure shot track to come] 😆 😆 not sure if the new guy will be just an ego kick for ridhima...but thats a possibility, yes. i think sumit is ridhima's ego kick, mr. right is probably a sincere effort to undo the image of the perfect man!!

N armaan will use that gal to make ridz jealous...... n story will go on 😆 i hope not mehak...i hope not...i don't want see a childish jealousy angle! i want it touch them at a deeper level!

But u said it right ridz is crossing her limits to save her fake ego.........like that night incident.......anyways i can add this much only....... coz rest is said by all of u............ fake ego is interesting...her ego is fake, because her super ego is fake!

Hope i made any sense..........uaually i do not 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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oh dear missed out on a whole lot of discussion thanks to link being down. Am I in awe of Aarti and Sharika or what. Loved that discussion.

I actually had to sit down and draw a chart with id, ego, superego like notty and Sharika put it for me to understand the relation. It is real fun to learn so much and be provoked to think.

I liked reading Sharika and Aarti's posts and that gave me a very clear idea as to what makes Ridzy and Armaan tick. Am speechless right now at how your thoughts seem to work in tandem. Also explains why ascetics needed to overcome their basic needs like hunger. That was one thing I always used to wonder as to why do they deprive themselves so much and almost seemed to me they were punishing themselves. But now got the answer if they can tame their basic urges they can overcome their id and be comfortable with their self image.

Will add more when I can think of something. Waiting to see Ridhima'a ego take a more realistic approach. It will be interesting to watch the journey.

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Posted: 18 years ago
#93
Aarti: Thank you for the post... on the ego and super ego and Id. It was completely a new concept to me and I enjoyed and also had me thinking.

I admit at the moment, I really cant seem to add anything ... but more than anything else... am immensely thankful for sharing it here... coz it did put a lot of perpectives in place... especially abt like acceptance and appreciate...

Thank you sooo much...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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@ gina and sareeta...glad you found the content worthy. but i am kinda done here with the ridhima bit...that she is still with a dominant id has been established in other terms in several other posts. i deliberately steered clear of this psycho babble all this while, because i didn't want to get too technical! but the question on why it is so important for us to be liked could only be answered accurately using freud, not that i respect him too much, cos he cannot think beyond his male member, but this one theory i do agree with and so do most experts!!

till i see something fresh, a censuring super ego and a realsitic ego, i don't think i wannna talk about ridhima ever again!! particularly not after today!!!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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DD thnx for freud!😊

But i too have lost appetite for Riddhima and anythg remotely riddhima after today!😡So lets not torture ourselves over her anymore.Nothing short of a miracle can save her now!🤢

And ya i gotta make more diagrams this time on paper till in understand the entire "me myself and mysupremeself" concept!Very very interesting!😊

Originally posted by: vaarti


till i see something fresh, a censuring super ego and a realsitic ego, i don't think i wannna talk about ridhima ever again!! particularly not after today!!!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hello,

I have been a silent reader of your posts (you, Sareeta et al.) and I have absolutely enjoyed your discussion. Especially, this post has been enlightening and now I have got much better understanding of people around me and myself. Many a times the books that we read gives us such insight..like the book about Sula that you mentioned, but in your discussions, I am getting gist of many books with excellent analysis. I am in awe of you guys. Looking forward to more of such excellent discussions.

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